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RE: How do you go on when you are dismissed/left? - 7/30/2007 9:16:38 AM

atendersoul

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you stated that the two of you met but not noticed in this posting that you both had lived together at any point or the time period all of this took place. I have found no real reasons to this on line collaring or promising until two people are eye to eye for something to be of any reality. So how can someone be dumped?
If you are not of ownership and is mind set of a slave, your options are your own right now. Do not close any doors for the ones that will surprise you the most are the ones you least expect. Do not go into things with your heart, go into them with your mind and then allow your heart to follow....
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RE: How do you go on when you are dismissed/left? - 7/30/2007 9:35:12 AM

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Thanks again to all that have posted. I appreciate your input greatly..atendersoul...no we did not live together..i was not collared. He promised that when we moved in together. We did meet and spent a lot of time together...I have often thought I was in love, but until I met this man..and he seemed to know me so very well..I never felt true and unconditional love. We did have plans in place for him to move in with me...he promised me a lifetime of happiness...I went with my heart...and you are right..my head should come first. It was a learning experience if nothing else. And I hope that the fact that we met online first, then in r/l does not belittle the hurt it caused. The pains of the heart, no matter how trivial they may be to one soul can be devastating to another...if that makes any sense...Either way..I thank you for your input. I just needed some input from some that had been there...I won't give up as the majority tell me there is a better One out there waiting. ~Smiles~

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RE: How do you go on when you are dismissed/left? - 8/6/2007 2:39:35 AM

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To the Op
Greetings...
Getting your heart in sync with your head is the greatest challenge anyone faces. I did, and I am grateful every day that I have done so. It happened about 4-5 weeks ago...I realized that no matter how much I might have wanted someone that it simply was not feasible for Me and for her. I made the tough decision. Events that have happened since then, including posts made by her which hint at emotional abuse and neglect simply have convinced Me that I did the right thing. I could sling mud right back but why bother? It did not work, was not right and I am content to let it end there. Apparently she is not. tough, too bad, grow up and get a life. I moved on and as a postscript about living well, I have never lived as well as I do right now, will continue to do so, sharing all that I am and have with the one who means more to Me than My own skin. How is that for commitment, for trust, for respect? I think and so does she, that we are right for each other....I will hopefully prove her correct in her initial thoughts....I will work to do so.

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