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When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/29/2007 11:28:39 AM   
HydroMaster


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Status: offline 		I'm always interested to hear about people who knew they were into BDSM before they knew what it was. When I was little I used to draw women in bondage. I remember even drawing a slave auction. They were pretty crappy of course, not much more than stick figures but I knew then I was looking at the world a little differently. I also knew not to show them off to anyone :-) Then later in middle school a friend wrote a comic book and I did the artwork for it. There always a lot of D/s undertones in that too. But ut wasn't until early in college that I even began to explore and meet people within the lifestyle.

So when did all of you first realize who you were?


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RE: When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/29/2007 11:35:24 AM   
ABsubcouple


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Status: offline 		oh.....    see to me, it isn't kink....it was normal....at 16....i think that is one reason why i am drawn to extremes....because what is "kink" to most....has been "normal" since a young age...

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RE: When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/29/2007 11:42:50 AM   
HydroMaster


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Status: offline 		Well yes, it felt normal to me too.  But I also relaized that it was different from what everyone around me seemed to think.  

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RE: When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/29/2007 11:45:37 AM   
beargonewild


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Status: offline 		back when I started high school. I'd be in class and fantasizing about a few of my teachers. The fatasies would revolve around then either tying me down and then sexually using me or forcing me to to preform various sexual favors. Just a variation on the classic tie em down and forceable sex fantasy  lol.

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RE: When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/29/2007 11:46:24 AM   
ABsubcouple


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Status: offline 		i got the ednorfine rushes at 16, but also was almost killed at 16 from breath play.....like i said, what is kinky to most, was normal to me....even at that age.

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RE: When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/29/2007 11:48:15 AM   
HydroMaster


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Status: offline 		Interesting....gotta go now though.  Lightning just struck like 100 yards from my house.

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RE: When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/29/2007 11:50:05 AM   
ABsubcouple


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Status: offline 		oh we had that here lastnight...time to shut everything down....best of luck.

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RE: When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/29/2007 11:54:34 AM   
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Kidding, I'm kidding, good question. I'd say from an early age, not far past the onset of puberty, I began having fantasies that fit into our kinky world. Of course, it took a few years before I began understanding any of it.

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RE: When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/29/2007 12:54:02 PM   
simplyme2007


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Status: offline 		Back in grade school, when the boys chased us, I wanted to get caught and made to anything they wanted.  Of course, I didn't understand then why that kind of thing aroused me.

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RE: When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/29/2007 1:01:42 PM   
Urcreatrix


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Status: offline 		One of my earliest memories is being not old enough for school yet and my parents wanted me to take some icky medicine. I was willing to but decided to be stubborn so my parents forced me down and made me drink it. Had other submissive fantasies in middle and high school. In college ran into a play partner who was mostly submissive, so I started playing as a Top and have been happiest as a Domme ever since.

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RE: When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/29/2007 1:14:54 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		When I was four years old and used to put myself into kinky positions with my mom's wrought iron boudoir chair.

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RE: When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/29/2007 9:52:04 PM   
thelunabird


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Status: offline 		I was porbably 9 when i stated to fantasize about being auctioned and traded and just being used. I would also think about being humiliated and spanked.. I thought it was really strange, but when i grew up i realized it was normal and an actual lifestyle that people engaged in freely.

and no i was not molested at an early age. it was just a fantasy and i guess it was just an early start for me!

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RE: When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/30/2007 12:03:44 AM   
freyjasdottir


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Status: offline 		way young here too, 9 or younger even,

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RE: When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/30/2007 7:17:12 AM   
lonlyrossInNeed


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Status: offline 		To me it wasnt kink to me its who i am and always have been
I have know about my lifestyle needs with Bondage since i was like 10 when i would get in trouble at school and the teachers would have to pin me down
then SM came latter one but first to me to see and know when i was a submissive and bottom was when i was 10

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RE: When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/30/2007 10:16:33 AM   
RubberWitch


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Status: offline 		ropes and masks, inversion, suspension, since I was 4
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Sorry, but only partially jokey. We had cool masks as kids, and I was always hanging upside down, and tying myself up with string.

J

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RE: When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/30/2007 1:33:55 PM   
earthycouple


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Status: offline 		tying up my sister when I was 7....building my inescapable bondage skills with jump ropes back then.  No more jump ropes but damn I have good skills!

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RE: When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/30/2007 2:10:06 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		I grew up on a horse farm and remember when I was a teenager and having fantasies about the crops, straps and whips being used on me by one of the teenage boys that worked for us.

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RE: When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/30/2007 4:44:08 PM   
petdave


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Status: offline 		Self-bondager at age four or five, along with some Femdom/malesub fantasies that require too much backstory to bother with... learned what "bondage" and "masochism" were in seventh grade and immediately knew that i'd found an explanation for myself... much comedy (being tragedy that happens to other people) betwixt!

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RE: When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/30/2007 4:57:35 PM   
cuffnspankme


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Status: offline 		Ok, I feel really like Joanie come lately. I was 20, the night I lost my virginity. He had me cuffed and spanked me and all sorts of fun things. I guess as a child I leaned towards being more submissive, always wanting to please everyone.  I never did self bondage(still don't) or had fantansies really. But I am making up for lost time now, heh.

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RE: When did you realize you were a kinkster? - 7/30/2007 5:15:25 PM   
nyrisa


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Status: offline 		I think it was when I was about 10, and was tying up my Barbie dolls, and branding them with branding irons made from bent and heated paperclips. A Barbie doll's nipples don't withstand branding very well, at all.

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