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RE: Am I wrong? - 7/30/2007 7:08:22 PM

salilus

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Daddy and I don't negotiate... but we've been together over three years.

He does what he likes.
He knows what I like.
I talk about the things I fantasize about.
That's about it.

It works nicely for us, but I really wouldn't recommend it if you've never scened with a person before or even if you've only scened with them a couple times.

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RE: Am I wrong? - 7/30/2007 7:22:23 PM

julietsierra

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Damn. once again LA has beaten me to it.

I always do some negotiation when I'm playing with someone that I'm note in a relationship with. How else will they know my limits? Psychic mind reading?

Thinking back to my first session with my Master...

Negotiations... hmmm...

Oh yea...

Him: Where's the nearest motel?
Me: On our first date?! REALLY?!! Well, there's one around the corner. Oh umm... and I checked before I got here. They have vacancies.

rofl.. and as a side note to the person I'm quoting...how interesting that I read psychic as psychotic...as in "psychotic mind reading."

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RE: Am I wrong? - 7/31/2007 7:51:11 AM

CreativeDominant

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Damn. once again LA has beaten me to it.

I always do some negotiation when I'm playing with someone that I'm note in a relationship with. How else will they know my limits? Psychic mind reading?

But of course, OsideGirl...have you forgottent that all dominants are mind readers?

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RE: Am I wrong? - 7/31/2007 7:56:14 AM

MrDiscipline44

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And here I thought scene negotaiting was a common occurance..... am I wrong?

Obviously, you are.

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RE: Am I wrong? - 7/31/2007 8:14:19 AM

GhitaAmati

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Negotiating doesnt have to be some long checklist of what is and isnt OK to do...it can be a nice conversation over dinner about fantasies, things that scare or delight you. It can be months of those chats all put together before you ever decide to scene with a person.

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RE: Am I wrong? - 7/31/2007 9:52:35 AM

LATEXBABY64

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i think everyone is different alot of people goto play parties and play right off the bat with people they do not know. i always say this if your in love with someone then freaking kiss them if you want to play with someone while that might be a bit more dangerous then play with them. everyones a freaking expert with a phd in metal health 90s made tons of them lol heres my point do what ever you want. if you feel safe then do it if does not then do not.. people always want to be cushy about somethings that really are black n white

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