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taintedgypsy -> subbie girls and toyboys? (7/30/2007 12:49:52 AM)

Ok I am living on an orchard in the hills, I have recently ended a relationship and I am in a speacial therapy program to deal with my childhood. I just presumed that I would be celebrate for the forseeable future as I have no need to complicate my life with a new relationship and will not seek a new relationship untill issues are settled and I am ready to move forward.

So imagine my supprise when I return to work in the shed for the first time in 3 weeks only to find that a new sorter has been hired while I was away. Well he is the original larrikan, bright, witty and an evil twinkle in his eyes. Full of flirty oneliners and mischief. Definately brightens up a days work in the shed. Hes only 29 yrs old, 15yrs my junior, but hell he made me laugh and I was definately flattered by the attention. I gave as good as I got and the banter continued through the morning like a tennis match lol.

So along comes the lunch break, where he made some cheeky coment which I replied he should respect his elders. With a grin from ear to ear he replies he could do alot of respecting given the oportunity. I laughed and said he was way to young and to behave himself. He tells ME that older women have so much to offer that is rarely appreciated, but suits him fine he makes a great toyboy ... and WINKED AT ME. There have been very few times in my life when I have been lost for words but I can safely add that moment o the list lol.

A bit later we were finishing up and the boss needed one shed hand to stay back, I told the other shed hand he could as I was a little stiff from all the picking of the last 3 days and could use an early finish. Cheeky pipes up with a raised eyebrow asking if I need a masage. Well the other staff headed for the hills trying to hide there laughter, bastards just took off and left me there with him. The Boss even had the balls to pat me on the back as he walked past me chuckling. I said she will be right and not to trouble himself. To which he asked if I would like to grab a drink one night, I said I would see him next monday at work, he winked and stated how much he is going to enjoy working here and perhaps he would see me sooner as he might be getting some picking work and how nice it would be to be out amongst the trees alone with me ... ok 2nd time lost for words. He then walks off with a smile from ear to ear ... WHISTLEING.

Now I admit he is definately in the eye candy category ... thin hips, well muscelled and a winning smile, hes transient and no threat of relationship material ... all very tempting but the timing is all wrong and there is noway that I am taking up the offer. I will however enjoy the banter and the attention and can definately use the laughter.

But it raises a question, how satisfing would a vanila toyboy be if a submissive did go there? Would a vanila toyboy be a nice distraction from the troubles of life? or just increase the need for that which she is abstaining from? Would such a dallience make life a little sweeter? or just serve as a reminder of what is missing in her life?

Just iterested in what others think?




Dreamz423 -> RE: subbie girls and toyboys? (7/30/2007 3:03:24 AM)

Tainted,

The answer the question(s) can only be answered by you  -  You need to take a long honest assessment of your own state of mind, your past, and spiritual and/or religious beliefs -  if you foresee it being troublesome for you - enjoy the attention and flirting and leave it a that, and nothing more. On the other hand, if you are certain that you can go through with it without mental anguish,  well… enjoy the fruits of life. As for the age difference, is just a  number.

Best of luck which ever path you choose!
-Dreamz




Petronius -> RE: subbie girls and toyboys? (7/30/2007 5:42:31 AM)

My thoughts in this period in this culture:

Do not get involved with anybody you work with.

It has nothing to do with relationships, bdsm, therapy, eye candy, or anything else except the dynamics of the work process and the variety of rules and regulations around things like sexual discrimination and sexual harassment.

YMMV.




FullCircle -> RE: subbie girls and toyboys? (7/30/2007 3:10:52 PM)

Things like this happen too infrequently and I think when they do and you hit it off with someone you have to see where it goes regardless of differences or doubts. The alternative of wondering what could have been is not a nice option. The timing is never right and you can always find reasons not to do things but when you take a chance its win win because you don’t expect anything from it anyway. There is also an element of satisfying a short term craving and I don’t think there is anything wrong with that if you both know where you stand.

If we wait for the moment when everything, absolutely everything is ready, we shall never begin.
- Ivan Turgenev




FatDomDaddy -> RE: subbie girls and toyboys? (7/30/2007 4:03:05 PM)

Why not... have some fun and live for the moment. its a summer fling.

Execept of course, ya do work with the guy. That's a whole different ball of....melted wax.




obis -> RE: subbie girls and toyboys? (7/31/2007 12:44:02 PM)

It doesn't sound like a career situation or a long-term relationship threat, so I'd say go for it and have fun. There's a lot to be said for transient relationships that both people know are simply temporary fun.




thompsonx -> RE: subbie girls and toyboys? (7/31/2007 2:07:19 PM)

taintedgypsy:
The down side of this would be?????
thompson




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