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ORIGINAL: dasein42

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ORIGINAL: earthycouple

I'd like to know why so many people get into relationships and then feel like they can't talk to, or bring up a subject to their significant other.  How do you ever meet if you can't talk?  This confuses me. 

I also am not sure why people get into relationships and can't be silent with each other. In various relationships I've had to travel for work or other things and have been away for significant periods, sometimes I called, sometimes I was too exhausted, and sometimes talking to the person would have just added to my resentment at being forced away from home. Trust is more important in any relationship IMHO, but especially in a D/s relationship, than service or skillsets. If you can't trust someone to go away for a few days how can you trust them to run your life when they get back?