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littleone35 -> RE: Looking (7/30/2007 4:21:31 PM)

How  did my thread get to be about hair?

Matt's littleone



camille65 -> RE: Looking (7/30/2007 4:52:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: windchymes

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ORIGINAL: camille65

Total hijack here [:D] :
I got over 10 inches of hair cut off  yayyyy hehehehe.

And yeah I do adore eye candy walking by.



Since we're jacking....did you donate to Locks of Love? [:)]


Yuppers. Someone is going to be walking around with my hair hehehe.
On the OP, honestly I don't get why you can't appreciate someone elses looks/style whatever and keep that seperate from a relationship. I love to people watch and when someone carries themselves well I tend to notice. Okies I notice too when a guy is wearing those perfectly faded and perfectly tight Levis [:D] .
I don't think I would watch eyecandy while out with someone, but for me in general it would be nigh impossible to ignore!

Apologies on the hirsute hijacking, and wow, my edit button is still up nearly an hour past my post! So, I edited for grammar. And to add extra, commas.



BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Looking (7/30/2007 5:36:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: littleone35

How  did my thread get to be about hair?

Matt's littleone


Uh oh...... okay how's about this........ I like looking at people who have beautiful hair? [sm=preen.gif]  No? [8|]  Well I tried to get it back on track... sorry. [8D]



nyrisa -> RE: Looking (7/30/2007 5:42:10 PM)

littleone, my husband and I have always pointed out attractive people to each other to ogle. It is always a cheerful way to pass the time. Most of the people I know do this, and find nothing wrong with it. I think when people feel secure, whether in their relationship or their selves, they don't view this as disloyal or threatening.



((now a brief intermission to the hijacked portion of the thread))


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse


For most (not all but most ) of us broads of a certain age.....there comes a time when shorter hair tends to be more flattering than longer.......



In that case, LT, it will pretty soon be time for me to shave my head. *L*
You look terrific; the hairstyle flatters you, and you have a complexion to die for.



LotusSong -> RE: Looking (7/30/2007 7:04:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: littleone35

I was talking to one of my friends the other day (she is a sub) and she was telling me how she want to the store the other day and saw this really good looking guy.  She said she did not want to but she could not help staring at him.  She told me she felt she was being disloyal to her Master by staring at this man.  I said did you want to submit to him? She said no but he was so good looking.

I told her you are a sub yes but you are also a woman you are gonna look at good looking men and your Master will look at good looking women.  It has nothing to do with D/s it is just human.

Do others agree with me?

Matt's littleone


Just because she's not hungry doesn't mean she can't look at the menu.



dawntreader -> RE: Looking (7/30/2007 7:12:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Now now I prefer to call it, covertly observing. Sunglasses are very helpful for this.[:D]


i so agree!!!



dawntreader -> RE: Looking (7/30/2007 7:18:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sentimental

THE ONLY THING THAT IS CONSTANT IS CHANGE DO YOU MIND BEEING A CLOSE FRIEND?


YEA, THE COOLIEST...



KatyLied -> RE: Looking (7/30/2007 7:24:57 PM)

We begin by coveting what we see every day. Don't you feel eyes moving over your body, Clarice? And don't your eyes seek out the things you want?
- Hannibal Lector



came4U -> RE: Looking (7/30/2007 9:34:10 PM)

did i witness some nutball referring to me in HUGE CAP letters?
 
shooo fly!



ownedgirlie -> RE: Looking (7/30/2007 10:42:20 PM)

I will admire beauty in people who are male, female, young or old.  Some people emit beauty from within.  Some are physically attractive.  I don't look at them with lust or desire, but as one would look at a piece of art (I think that was mentioned earlier in the thread). 



Mystique567 -> RE: Looking (7/31/2007 5:11:28 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

as you see, LT I perved you today after catching a post, while I am no fan of short hair, you do look pretty gangbusters.

Ron 


Thank you Ron. For most (not all but most ) of us broads of a certain age.....there comes a time when shorter hair tends to be more flattering than longer.......though I reserve the right to change my mind if I decide I want longer hair again. Plus, I got tired of messing with it one day and grabbed the scissors........voila' short hair.



First you are stunning, second please don't tell people you did that yourself, hair stylists all over the world will be out of a job!!!

Back on topic,

I have always said "If I stop looking, bury me I'm dead"



bignipples2share -> RE: Looking (8/1/2007 12:17:13 AM)

I agree, I enjoy looking at living, moving art. I don't look with lust, but appreciation. I agree, they can be young, old, whatever.

Hijack point.

LT, you look amazing. Love the new hair and you pull off the new look so well. If I thought I could pull off short hair as well as you, I'd cut off around 16 inches myself. 



littlebitxxx -> RE: Looking (8/1/2007 5:17:01 AM)

Just because you're on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu. 



Jinger -> RE: Looking (8/3/2007 4:07:44 PM)

The minute my Domme tells me I'm not aloud to look at other people is the minute I make a scene in public.
I'd like to think it'd start with me going "EXCUSE me???"

However, it's not like I'd be caught staring at someone either. I mean, you're allowed to be pissed off if you catch someone staring.

...I say unless it officially enters the rules that there are to be eyesight limitations then it counts as abuse. A D/S relationship might be D/S but it's still a relationship. And telling someone they can't look at other men is a trademark sign of an abusive relationship.

I'd say it all depends.

If it turns into a game, then okay.
But otherwise that's too much control.



suggababy23 -> RE: Looking (8/3/2007 11:14:51 PM)

I don't see the problem with looking. I look too. I think I would be more worried if my partner stopped looking at other women. As long as he (and myself) only look and don't touch, its all good.

sugga



freex -> RE: Looking (8/4/2007 12:55:08 AM)

When your doing something wrong you know you are and need to stop. When you are riding the line you know it and should tread carefully. If one continually runs to the line and attempts to preform a sliding stop eventually they will slip and fall over that line however inadvertently. We all will look but to look on with hungry eyes is something else entirely. Remove the dominance and submission, if you are in a relationship and have lustful feeling for another it is natural but you should remove it from your thoughts as it is wrong. If you find someone as some nice eye candy and simply enjoy looking them over and evaluating them there is nothing there. I personally enjoy looking over people. I will watch how they walk, sway, talk, and touch there hair. Seeing someone talk is often the most interesting and tells you much about them. Watch there lips and how they pronounce. Remember that to lust for another is crossing the line and you should clear it from your mind.



julietsierra -> RE: Looking (8/4/2007 2:58:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: came4U

Staring??

that is rude and classless as is., single or devoted.

But staring while one has a Master? at another man?

uhhg

double rude/wrong.

No one is THAT goodlooking, unless he is a museum exibit there is no excuse/reason for staring.




Oh for goodness sake! I'm his slave! Not DEAD!! And if someone comes along that's good looking, I'm going to look! If he's that great looking, I'm going to stare. And if he catches me staring at him, I'm going to smile and tell him "DAMN! You're good looking!!" And then I'll tell my Master exactly what I did. And if you've never seen anyone that good looking, then I'd suggest you are NOT getting out enough.

lol. I was getting my nails done one day last year and some men were working on the sidewalk outside of my nail tech's condo. There was this one guy.. OMG! I have never ever seen anyone who looked that good!! I walked into her house calling "ANGELA! ANGELA!! Come look at the pretty scenery!!"

Got inside and there they were - her and three other women, just standing there, looking out the window, all of them - sighing and saying "DAMN! He is FINE!" and many other things that "polite" women just don't say - but think all the time.

Finally someone smart in the group noticed that it was hot outside (or was it us?) and ran to Angela's refrigerator, coming back with 3 beers for the men. She shoved them into Angela's hand (quite the looker herself - yea, I stare at women too!) and then pushed her out the door - "it's HOT Angela! Those men look like they need a drink!" with lots of jokes and comments - "especially that tall, dark haired one!!!"

Angela offered the guys something to drink, chitchatted for a bit while all of us were inside either sighing or drooling. She came back in and got back to work (fanning herself) while that man continued to be the talk of the women there. A short while later, he came to the door to ask if he could use her restroom. A short while after that, he came to ask for a drink of water. A short while after that, he asked for her phone number. They went out for a couple of months after that.

Turns out, the cement work he was doing was his day job. His night job was as a male stripper for one of our favorite places.

And yes, there most certainly ARE men out there who are worth staring at - just as there are women out there who are worth staring at as well.

And when my Master and I are out together, I have no problem pointing those starable ones out to him. lol, I even make sure I have binoculars on the boat so he and I can look to our heart's delight.

juliet



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