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Looking - 7/30/2007 9:39:25 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I was talking to one of my friends the other day (she is a sub) and she was telling me how she want to the store the other day and saw this really good looking guy.  She said she did not want to but she could not help staring at him.  She told me she felt she was being disloyal to her Master by staring at this man.  I said did you want to submit to him? She said no but he was so good looking.

I told her you are a sub yes but you are also a woman you are gonna look at good looking men and your Master will look at good looking women.  It has nothing to do with D/s it is just human.

Do others agree with me?

Matt's littleone
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RE: Looking - 7/30/2007 9:46:41 AM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		Staring??

that is rude and classless as is., single or devoted.

But staring while one has a Master? at another man?

uhhg

double rude/wrong.

No one is THAT goodlooking, unless he is a museum exibit there is no excuse/reason for staring.


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RE: Looking - 7/30/2007 10:16:25 AM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35
I told her you are a sub yes but you are also a woman you are gonna look at good looking men and your Master will look at good looking women.  It has nothing to do with D/s it is just human.

Do others agree with me?

Matt's littleone


I have never, in my entire life, understood the "I'm with someone so I can't look at anyone else" mindset. It's like a beautiful picture, you can't help it. Just don't be rude and don't give them your number. Valyraen not only doesn't care that I look at other men and women, he and I appreciate the view the image an attractive woman together.

Now staring or ogling? Yeah.. it's rude but not because she has an owner.

< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 7/30/2007 10:17:22 AM >

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RE: Looking - 7/30/2007 10:18:20 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		I don't care if they wallow on the ground begging the other person to please please please take them as the little needy piece of hot slut they are- or if that person goes along with it.  I will cheer them on and be thrilled to watch.

Has nothing to do with me or my relationship with them- other than I think it's yummy.

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RE: Looking - 7/30/2007 10:35:34 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: came4U
No one is THAT goodlooking, unless he is a museum exibit there is no excuse/reason for staring.

Interesting.  Every partner I have had always laughed at me and enjoyed my staring when they caught me at it.

And yes, I know staring is wrong, but I admit I can be moved to distraction.

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RE: Looking - 7/30/2007 10:35:41 AM   
Gwynvyd


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Status: offline 		Some people are just works of art... now mind you one shouldnt stare, oogle, drool, and fondle... esp. if you are not single. But I think it is rude not to appreciate the beauty around us. Be it in a tree, a sculpture, moving water, or a person. Be it male or female. I tend to chose mates who are not jealous in nature because I can not abide that silliness. What do you mean I can not look at someone simply because they are beautiful. That is just plain silly. Now If I looked at them with lust as an intent.. then it would be my bad. But just to admire.. I see no harm.

Gwyn

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RE: Looking - 7/30/2007 10:38:56 AM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		Women are better ooglers, men get caught because they are ummm dumb LOL.

There is staring and there is 'checking someone out' with class, even several times over an over MMmm but for God sakes, never be obvious to the person you are appreciating or to anyone else who may witness it.  It is low class., If I see that kind of behaviour I tend to think they are mind-numb idiots with no self control. Staring is yukky.

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RE: Looking - 7/30/2007 10:39:20 AM   
feastie


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Status: offline 		I've yet to see the man or woman, for that matter, that moved me to stare at him/her.  Of course, I'm not all that visual.

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RE: Looking - 7/30/2007 10:45:24 AM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		feastie...

you have a point LOL. very valid point.

and lucky? "Interesting.  Every partner I have had always laughed at me and enjoyed my staring when they caught me at it"

hehe that is hawwt,

so you are a voyeur who has voyeurs who has voyeurs, like the neverending painting

haha, makes sense :)

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RE: Looking - 7/30/2007 10:46:39 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Now now I prefer to call it, covertly observing. Sunglasses are very helpful for this.

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RE: Looking - 7/30/2007 10:59:33 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Yes it was rude of her to stare and she knows that but she said "i could not help it"

Matt's littleone

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RE: Looking - 7/30/2007 11:05:29 AM   
adoracat


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Status: offline 		wolf and i have always looked together.  (wolf=hubby)

men and women both can be VERY beautiful.  i dont mind if whoever i'm with is looking, as long as i get attention also, and it better be MORE.

Sir knows i look.  he also knows that i adore him and no one else comes First.

kitten

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RE: Looking - 7/30/2007 11:18:33 AM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		I love to people watch.  Absolutely nothing wrong with it.
I point out attractive women to my better half and he points out good looking men to me.

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RE: Looking - 7/30/2007 11:29:12 AM   
sleazybutterfly


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Status: offline 		Every once in awhile I am out and see someone that catches my eye.  I take a glance, perhaps even two.  That doesn't mean I don't love my Master/husband, it just means I am a human being that finds other men/women attractive. 
 
I know that my Master looks at other women, it really doesn't bother me.  I know that looking does not, nor will it ever mean someone will cheat.
 
I admit that looking doesn't have the same feeling as it did when I was single, but it doesn't mean I am dead.

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Life is not a popularity contest, it's better to be hated for what you believe, than loved for a lie.

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RE: Looking - 7/30/2007 11:32:09 AM   
LaMspeach


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From: Philadelphia area, PA
Status: offline 		We are human. I look if see some one I find good looking. I also point our pretty women to Master *smiles*. He knows where my heart is and I know who I belong to . I think that is all that matters in the end.

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RE: Looking - 7/30/2007 11:53:25 AM   
kossack


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quote:

ORIGINAL: came4U

Women are better ooglers, men get caught because they are ummm dumb LOL.

There is staring and there is 'checking someone out' with class, even several times over an over MMmm but for God sakes, never be obvious to the person you are appreciating or to anyone else who may witness it.  It is low class., If I see that kind of behaviour I tend to think they are mind-numb idiots with no self control. Staring is yukky.


I agree and don't.  There are men that check me out that make me feel more fully alive and men that check me out that take away something.  The former has to do with respect and appreciation.  It is rare, but if a man gives me a smile, with a slight nod, that says "you're beautiful and made my day a little brighter" I really appreciate it.  Had to explain, but it happens maybe once a month.  (Granted, every other day, I just feel objectified and minimized by guys on the street, so....)

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RE: Looking - 7/30/2007 12:04:22 PM   
slaveish


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Status: offline 		M would have had a fit if i checked out someone in front of him (or admitted to it), which really made it much harder to not do. I can be very unobservant, but when faced with someone that catches my attention for some reason, if I can't look then it becomes more interesting to want to look and not get caught.

It isn't something that troubles me when it's in the reverse. I have enough self-admiration to not be offended by it and it's usually interesting to see what draws another's attention. Very delicious stuff to use for pillow talk.

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RE: Looking - 7/30/2007 12:37:53 PM   
sentimental


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quote:

came4U
HELLO
ACTUALLY AM NEW HERE SO I MIGHT NOT UNDERSTANDING UR COMUNICATION
PLEASE TEACH ME

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RE: Looking - 7/30/2007 12:40:17 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		HERE WE TRY NOT TO USE QUITE SO MANY CAPS...SOME OF US HAVE TO TURN OUR MONITOR DOWN, BECAUSE THIS SORT OF THING IS JUST TO GARISH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THUS ENDETH THE LESSon.

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RE: Looking - 7/30/2007 12:47:09 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		UR SO GONNA NOT NEED TO KNOW HOW. YOU WILL BE A SHADE IN NO TIME. 

CUTIEPIE

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