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What did Your first sting, or giving the 1st sting feel... - 6/29/2005 11:01:11 AM

knees2you

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Masters, Mistresses, Subs/Slaves,

What did it feel like to get or give
Your first sting to someone?

It would be Your very first crack of a Whip, or receiving
The first Paddle~

Some of us have been in the lifestyle for many years, since we where little.
I was born Submissive, I knew this when the Doctor spanked me six times,
because I enjoyed it.

Was it a "Adrenaline Rush" Or was it just a Natural feeling?

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"A Persons words can be life giving water."

Sincerely, Ant

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RE: What did Your first sting, or giving the 1st sting ... - 6/29/2005 11:20:23 AM

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Heh. I took all kinds of time getting her into the right position, then all kinds of time getting myself into the right position. I really didn't know what the fuck I was doing, but I knew we were both going to find out.

Then I went at it, and I have no idea how long it lasted. I can't even describe how great it felt to lash her skin. After it was all over, I noticed a nice little pool on the sheets right underneath where her pussy had been. I realized she had come while I was whipping her.

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RE: What did Your first sting, or giving the 1st sting ... - 6/29/2005 11:26:28 AM

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I had an extreme sense of calm come over me and a deep sense of "Yes, THIS is who I am"

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RE: What did Your first sting, or giving the 1st sting ... - 6/29/2005 11:40:19 AM

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1st? sting? i embarrassed my 1st domme coz She thought i was one of those that got-off on it. i was standing there feeling like a piece of furniture and letting this go on, and when She was done, She says, why don't you have an erection? i say, why should i? you are trying to rip my hide off and i don't see any gals in here naked....whats there to be horny over?

sorry. i am just not one of those but,......yeah yeah,...child abuse and meds. i have little feelings now coz of it all. some day when i meet someone that brings me along soft n slow, and teaches,... m a y b e i will understand. just don't hold your breath, k?

sorry. you asked.

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RE: What did Your first sting, or giving the 1st sting ... - 6/29/2005 12:28:27 PM

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I don't really remember exactly what I felt like, but it must have been great. I remember Master getting ready to do, the smell of the leather, and then nothing till it was over with.
But I will agree with Lordandmaster on one thing, there was a big wet spot where I was at, more than one to be exact! Since that time, we have learned that I cum more while being whipped.

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RE: What did Your first sting, or giving the 1st sting ... - 6/29/2005 12:36:37 PM

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I realized that the person I was with had no desire to be doing this, and was onlydoing it to please me. It made the experience be very unfun.

It was really a case of liking to talk the talk but not really enjoying the walk. He -said- he was into everything, and that this would make him feel good, but in fact he was just saying it to look badass and impress me. Don't ask me why I was with him for another three months.

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RE: What did Your first sting, or giving the 1st sting ... - 6/29/2005 6:24:20 PM

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Well my first sting was from a belt, It was the only thing available at the time. It felt great. Painful but relaxing. Sounds weird but its the truth..

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RE: What did Your first sting, or giving the 1st sting ... - 6/29/2005 8:06:56 PM

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First one I gave? I was a little overzealous. That made me giggle. But then, seeing a grown man cry tends to make me giggle in general.

First one I took? A belt between the shoulder blades. My whole back relaxed and for the first time I could remember, I knew what it was like to not carry muscular tension in my neck and shoulders! Ultimately, very relaxing. Now I tend sleep better if I've taken a solid beating!

But I did discover that I'm very, very picky about what pain I like and what pain I don't.

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RE: What did Your first sting, or giving the 1st sting ... - 6/30/2005 7:25:29 AM

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I am like lonewolf here in the sense that a whoopin' doesn't necessarily equate to sex or even sexual feelings and that has nothing to do with child abuse or medications. It is what it is for me, a sensation or series of sensations I just happen to love. If arousal is part of the plan, then he better begin with my mind. : )

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RE: What did Your first sting, or giving the 1st sting ... - 6/30/2005 9:55:36 AM

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Let's see.....before that first sting there was a feeling of apprehension. Then i felt it and it was just as i'd imagined it would be. As others have said, it was also so very relaxing.

Only thing no one warned me about was the fever afterwards. I kept getting hot and cold and couldn't figure out why. Then i took some tylenol and was able to sleep like a baby.

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RE: What did Your first sting, or giving the 1st sting ... - 7/2/2005 4:32:39 AM

GentleLady

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I cannot remember the very first time clearly enough to answer your question. However I did take a break from any activities within the Lifestyle and I clearly remember how I felt the first time I used a flogger when I came back.

It was the most beautiful feeling I had had in years. My blood sang and when he whimpered and writhed in joy at the feelings I was creating in him I got wet. It has been that way ever since.

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RE: What did Your first sting, or giving the 1st sting ... - 7/2/2005 9:57:13 AM

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my first sting was when Master had me standing with my hands spread above me tied to the canopy bed and flogged me. This is the first time i had been flogged and it turned me into a wild animal...grrrrr. hehe.