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MsCfromMelbourne -> RE: How many Mistresses would treat a male slave like a pet only 24/7 (8/14/2007 6:07:25 AM)
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I have been asked to explain what I mean by puppy play. All role play is very hard to describe in words because the "high" is an altered state of consciousness, but I will try my best:
1 Strip the puppy, collar him and make him get down on all fours. Mistress stays dressed and feeling powerful and sexy. His nudity makes him vulnerable and emphasises the power differential
2 Puppies can only communicate like a dog. If puppy talks or laughs, he gets a smack over the nose with a rolled up newspaper (not too hard!). Bad puppies might get smacked harder on the naked rump. If your puppy is a high flying professional control freak in his ordinary life (as my subs often are), he will find the restrictions on communication quite challenging
3 Get carried away cuddling, tickling, patting, kissing and babying your puppy. Roll him on his back to tickle his tummy. Squeal "who is Mummy's beautiful boy...yes who is a beautiful boy.....?" over and over. Give rewards (eg chocolates) when your puppy does clever tricks. Let puppy up on the furniture to cuddle on the couch. Pat him anywhere you like. Your complete access to his (naked) body is part of the power exchange.
4 Puppy cannot talk and hence cannot resist the onslaught of affection by Mistress. The affection is completely unconditional. These are only limited ways puppy can reciprocate. He is quite powerless to stop you lavishing kisses, cuddles and touching.
5 Done well, you will achieve an altered state of consciousness in the puppy. Most adult men rarely receive human touch and never in a non-sexual context. They crave touch but are too repressed to ask for it. "Forcing" him to be a puppy overrides all that inhibition. Being a puppy exposes a man all over - physically and emotionally.
6 While being a puppy might sound like bliss, it is in fact very confronting for most people. Like all good BDSM, it requires a huge amount of trust to submit to being a puppy for your Mistress.
7 Once you have pushed a puppy under into a submissive headspace (which takes time), you do need to pull him back up into his "powerful male" persona and send him back out into the world a stronger, better man. But how?
8 I find that - with encouragment - puppies have a propensity to sniff in all my naughty places. They also joyfully lick dark, damp pink bits with abandon. I find it helps to breathlessly pant "puppy, we really should not be doing this! Its so, so wrong! Oh god...I hope the RSPCA dont find out ....." Making the puppy's "innocent" attention between your legs "wrong" makes it more exciting. [NB of course you are both consenting adult humans, not dog and horney owner, but suspension of reality is the goal of good role play].
9 If you are a fluid bonded D/s couple, get carried away - doggy style (of course!). Mutual orgasm is the ideal way to finish a puppy scene. Then cuddle and tell your boy he was amazing and you had a great time. Give him time to come out of his headspace. Your partner might be feeling exposed.
10 Remember this kind of BDSM is an expression of alternative love. It is not a punishment or something you do to someone you don't really like. Yes, being a puppy is de-humanising, but I believe in a good way. Some of us need to let go of our human hang-ups (by pretending not to be human) to feel safe enough to give/accept love and affection from other human beings. Thats why we are kinky, not healthy vanillas
I hope this long post sheds a little light on the attraction of this kink (as I experience it)
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