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sister slave - 6/30/2005 1:06:29 PM   
msjeanie1


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I am very new to this lifestyle and would love to find a sister slave to talk with and learn from.
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RE: sister slave - 6/30/2005 1:09:32 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		Well I don't consider or really like being considered a "sister" just because I'm female and a slave, there's tons of us around, so start posting!

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RE: sister slave - 6/30/2005 1:18:33 PM   
msjeanie1


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Status: offline 		forgive me.. as Master simply instructed me to find one in order to help me undertand things, i dont wish to offend anyone.. is there a more appropriate term I could use? again.. i'm very new and would appreciate pointers on other place to find information too.. thanks

jeanie

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RE: sister slave - 6/30/2005 1:21:17 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		"Person" or "someone" works great.

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RE: sister slave - 6/30/2005 1:30:42 PM   
sub4hire


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quote:

forgive me.. as Master simply instructed me to find one in order to help me undertand things, i dont wish to offend anyone.. is there a more appropriate term I could use? again.. i'm very new and would appreciate pointers on other place to find information too..


Not to sound critical here but I generally speak the way it is. Blunt yet caring.
Is there a reason why he cannot teach you things? Is he that busy and if he is are you sure he even needs a slave?

In the past dominants I have known wanted a sub like myself. So they have asked me to mentor their submissives. I am assuming this is what your dom is also requesting. Yet, by asking complete strangers you may or may not get any sort of info he actually wants.
People may teach you what he doesn't want you to know.

With that said, ask away. We are all here to answer questions.

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RE: sister slave - 6/30/2005 5:30:09 PM   
BlouLady


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Status: offline 		I would love to chat with you!

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RE: sister slave - 6/30/2005 6:52:01 PM   
slavedesires


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quote:

ORIGINAL: msjeanie1

forgive me.. as Master simply instructed me to find one in order to help me undertand things, i dont wish to offend anyone.. is there a more appropriate term I could use? again.. i'm very new and would appreciate pointers on other place to find information too.. thanks

jeanie



if that is what your Master asked you to do, then please jeanie, dont apologize to Emerald cause she might have intimidated you....obey and be content you have done so.

{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}

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RE: sister slave - 6/30/2005 6:53:21 PM   
slavedesires


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlouLady

I would love to chat with you!



welcome back girl, havent seen you for a while!

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RE: sister slave - 6/30/2005 7:00:08 PM   
fillepink


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quote:

Well I don't consider or really like being considered a "sister" just because I'm female and a slave,


ego, ego, ego. a lovely woman gently approaches and asks for support, and rather than offer it; remain silent; or gently refuse due to time constraints, etc., you feel she should be humiliated. i find it more and more hard to believe that you are a slave; for whom do you respect? your manners are so bad one wonders about your possible ability to enter into a D/s relationship with a Man. in fact, the more one reads, the more one wonders about you. your posts -- your profile -- are discordant and incongrous. one sees acting out, not reflective, thoughtful messages.

as to the woman who so gently asked for assistance..i cannot offer experience, but you are more than welcome to see if friendship would suit.

fillepink

p.s. you can call me sister if you want; it's a bit endearing




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RE: sister slave - 6/30/2005 7:13:07 PM   
Isolde


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Status: offline 		I don't mean any offense by this, fillepink, but try to keep in mind the saying "I'm a submissive, not your submissive." Just because Emerald identifies as a slave doesn't mean she's obligated to behave in any way often attributed to 'true' submissives/slaves to anyone other than her owner. There is no such thing as a 'true' submissive, or a universally recognized code of behaviour that slaves and submissives are expected to follow to be recognized as such, beyond what they've agreed on with their dominant/owner.

So while you may not agree with what she's said or the tone she takes, you may think she's rude and disrespectful, you can even call her on all of these things, but it's poor form to do so by attacking her identity as a slave.

To the OP, I wish you luck in your search. There are a lot of insightful ladies around here; I don't doubt you'll find one or more who'll be what you're looking for. I'm not experienced or insightful enough to be one, myself, but I think a couple have already posted here in this thread so you should be fine. :)

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RE: sister slave - 6/30/2005 7:33:10 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		Hey pinkie you can be my slave's sister if you'd like.

quote:

ORIGINAL: fillepink

p.s. you can call me sister if you want; it's a bit endearing


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RE: sister slave - 6/30/2005 7:34:20 PM   
stormsfate


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fillepink

ego, ego, ego. a lovely woman gently approaches and asks for support, and rather than offer it; remain silent; or gently refuse due to time constraints, etc., you feel she should be humiliated. i find it more and more hard to believe that you are a slave; for whom do you respect? your manners are so bad one wonders about your possible ability to enter into a D/s relationship with a Man. in fact, the more one reads, the more one wonders about you. your posts -- your profile -- are discordant and incongrous. one sees acting out, not reflective, thoughtful messages.



<coughs> An example in manners, this is not, fillepink...but that is only my own opinion. I'm not sure why you think attacking another person (which is, btw, considered a flame, as it was not attacking the idea, but the person herself) is somehow more acceptable than E's post which merely stated her own preferences.

That being said, not everyone likes the familiarity that is insinuated by being called "sister" or "sis" by someone they don't know. I also find it presumptuous and offensive. I have one chain"sister", and like me, she earned that title by earning a place in my owner's household. For someone else to call me sister is presumptuous.

This isn't directed at the OP...she obviously did not intend to start the mud slinging and asked a very innocent question. I'm sure there are plenty out there who are fine with that sort of familiarity and will be very happy to be her sister, but I'm also pretty sure it will in some way be helpful to her to know that not everyone will react positively to being identified by that term. I have no idea why you would consider imparting that information to her to be humiliating.

best regards,
fate

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RE: sister slave - 6/30/2005 7:59:08 PM   
proudsub


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quote:

I am very new to this lifestyle and would love to find a sister slave to talk with and learn from.


I'm not as experienced as many here but would be happy to chat with you. However i will be out of town all next week for daughter's wedding.

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RE: sister slave - 6/30/2005 10:41:39 PM   
oceanprincess


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Status: offline 		i would also love to chat with you and email you anytime. it's nice to have other sub girlfriends to talk to about things. i remember when things were really hard for me, and now...it's been pretty much a walk in the park....except my Master leaves next week on wednesday for 6 and a half weeks. so i could use a friend to talk to also. :)

ocean

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RE: sister slave - 6/30/2005 10:57:49 PM   
fillepink


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Status: offline 		Georgia girl at a cocktail party says to NY girl: "Where y'all from?"

NY girl says "I'm from where we don't end our sentences with a preposition."

Georgia girl says "Well, then, where y'all from, bitch?"

When choosing between kindness and protocol, i think any ninny should be able to choose kindness. If not, i say, "Where's that Georgia girl when ya need her?"

fillepink




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RE: sister slave - 6/30/2005 11:47:15 PM   
harmony3709


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Status: offline 		Also in Illinois here, MsJeanie, and would be happy to chat if you like. New friends are always welcome and if you are in the Chicago area, I would be happy to share any information I have on the community groups, including a newly-formed one for submissives only.

Even if not in the area, please feel free to write if you like.

Blessed be,
harmony

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RE: sister slave - 7/1/2005 12:01:10 AM   
Mylee


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Status: offline 		I'm very new to this lifestyle too, but I would love to chat if you would like, maybe we can find our way together !

Best wishines
my'lee

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RE: sister slave - 7/1/2005 1:14:51 AM   
imtempting


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Status: offline 		I thought thats the whole point of being Dominant. Training someone to be what they want?? In my opinion asking a sub to go learn means a lazy Dominant partner.

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RE: sister slave - 7/1/2005 5:32:59 AM   
darkinshadows


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Hello jeanie - and welcome to the forum.

You have stated You are new to BDSM? Then take it slow - I know how much the craving inside burns - but I would urge you not to take too big a step too fast.

You will find that some people do not appriciate the automatic association of 'sisterhood' and 'brotherhood' - doesn't make them invalid - but there is a closeness associated with such a 'label'. It's similar to dominants calling submissive personalities 'littleone' or 'girl' or 'boy' - it is an affectionate term. So to do so is to infere a closeness that isn't there as yet.

I also have to agree with others here and suggest that a Master - YOUR Master - should be the one training. It could be that you 'need' conversation and association with another person - a friend - but they cannot train you - you cannot learn from them - You can learn only via your Master and be true to yourself. You should not 'copy' others. Some people believe in God - but not all do - do not be a sheep, but stand beside and support your Masters ideas.

They are all that matter.

Personally, I would be suspicious of a Dominant who advised me to seek advice from other sub sisters - to be perfectly honest that sounds very inexperienced and a little bit 'online'. Have you been to a munch or group? If this relationship based in realtime, or an online dalience? One which might move into realtime?

I can understand the aprrehension of being new to all this. Protocols seem overwhelming - people having different ideas.... then theres the whole bottom/sub/slave/kajira - but seriously - take your time, learn patience - respect yourself and don't ever be chased away - even at the lowest time.

Peace and Love

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RE: sister slave - 7/1/2005 8:52:33 AM   
Mercnbeth


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quote:

you cannot learn from them - You can learn only via your Master and be true to yourself.


this slave disagrees with this assumption. The OP did not say she was looking to be trained---her Master directed her to look for someone to talk with, share experiences, learn something from....similar to why this slave reads and posts to the forums and e-mails from this site, because Master has directed His slave to do so, in order to broaden her understanding and learn from others. Some here even serve as a "bad" example, and that can be a learning experience as well. Master is not so arrogant to assume that He is the only one His slave can learn from, however, it goes without saying He is the only one to be obeyed.

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In the past dominants I have known wanted a sub like myself. So they have asked me to mentor their submissives. I am assuming this is what your dom is also requesting...People may teach you what he doesn't want you to know...orig: sub4hire


as with most assuming, the point was missed that she did not come here singling anyone out to "mentor" or "train" her to be just like them. one could just as easily assume that she meant to obey her Master, by posting here in search of friendly slaves willing to talk with her and share expereinces by this definition:

quote:

a sister slave to talk with and learn from...orig:msjeanie1


quote:

i'm very new and would appreciate pointers on other place to find information too.. thanks...orig:msjeanie1


welcome to the boards and also to this style of life! this slave would offer the pointer of NOT making this site and the people here the sole source of your information gathering and friend-making. this slave would suggest that you ask Master if He would take you to a munch or similar gathering to give you a chance to meet other real-time slaves that might be able to help.
Best Wishes!


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