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slavedesires -> RE: sister slave (7/1/2005 3:35:42 PM)
Some VERY excellent points dark~angel. i know its silly, but i was thinking about this last night....at 320am...woke up full of hate and thinking and my mind switched gears as i am planning on making a change to my profile...based on something i read. If my man asked me to seek advice from a "slave sister" and i was bi and into poly...then the ulterior motive is is to actually find a slavesister...to be with Us. If i did not realize that...i would be the fool. Maybe the origianl OP doesnt realize....maybe there is NO ulterior motive....maybe...... i just know my man and His desires. But if He asked me to get advice from someone on forums i trusted.....about aspecific issue i was having and he seemed unable to help me with it....i know who i would ask. Reading posts and submitting them helps to know people. i also know who i would definately NOT ask. ~~shy edited to indicate this was NOT a response to Mercnbeth

darkinshadows -> RE: sister slave (7/1/2005 3:47:39 PM)
quote: quote: you cannot learn from them - You can learn only via your Master and be true to yourself. this slave disagrees with this assumption. The OP did not say she was looking to be trained---her Master directed her to look for someone to talk with, share experiences, learn something from....similar to why this slave reads and posts to the forums and e-mails from this site, because Master has directed His slave to do so, in order to broaden her understanding and learn from others. Some here even serve as a "bad" example, and that can be a learning experience as well. Master is not so arrogant to assume that He is the only one His slave can learn from, however, it goes without saying He is the only one to be obeyed. You have taken my statement out of context. quote: I also have to agree with others here and suggest that a Master - YOUR Master - should be the one training. It could be that you 'need' conversation and association with another person - a friend - but they cannot train you - you cannot learn from them - You can learn only via your Master and be true to yourself. You should not 'copy' others. I responded to the comments others had made - not all directly to the OP. It would be advisable to take the entire context and not just a part to try and understand what someone is saying. And not simply place on ones own interpretation from a miriad of other posters, which are not mine. I said that no one could train her, but her Master. If He says she should do what that other sub does - thats not the sub training - thats her obeying her Master. Sure she can learn from ofther subs and slaves, but ultimately, if she becomes this Masters property or submissive or whatever HE decides to call their union, then she can share experiences, hear their voice, but the learning comes from Him and from what she does for herself. A persons real learning does not come from living vicariously via others. Peace and Love

harmony3709 -> RE: sister slave (7/1/2005 10:11:13 PM)
quote: Orig: Mercnbeth welcome to the boards and also to this style of life! this slave would offer the pointer of NOT making this site and the people here the sole source of your information gathering and friend-making. this slave would suggest that you ask Master if He would take you to a munch or similar gathering to give you a chance to meet other real-time slaves that might be able to help. Very good advice and good points. There is a definite difference between what one learns about the lifestyle from any kind of reading, whether it be the computer or books or whatever, and what you learn from actual interacting from others. Blessed be, harmony

msjeanie1 -> RE: sister slave (7/2/2005 6:27:25 AM)
Thank you all. i suppose that i didn't word my requests appropriately. Master is the one training me, he simply wants me to find a playmate, as he is away often, and someone who can understand me. This isn't something you can just share with all of your family and friends sometimes and I have just had many questions and been longing for someone to talk to about things. i appreciate E/everyone's input. Have a great holiday weekend. jeanie

Mercnbeth -> RE: sister slave (7/2/2005 8:33:05 AM)
quote: I said that no one could train her, but her Master. If He says she should do what that other sub does - thats not the sub training - thats her obeying her Master. Sure she can learn from ofther subs and slaves, but ultimately, if she becomes this Masters property or submissive or whatever HE decides to call their union, then she can share experiences, hear their voice, but the learning comes from Him and from what she does for herself. A persons real learning does not come from living vicariously via others. With all due respect, dark angel, not everyone "learns" the same way....what is this "real" learning that you speak of anyway, is that like a "real" slave, or a "true" submissive?

darkinshadows -> RE: sister slave (7/3/2005 5:41:36 PM)
nope, Your quite correct Merc(or beth) - 'real' probably wasn't the right word to use - so I apologise for using that word. But my thoughts are similar to the Saint Augustines' quote as you have used. But I still stand by my thought that learning can occur, but one doesn't know the exact feelings for themself or as themself, by living through others. With your thoughts about online proceedures, I would have thought you may have comprehended my meaning. I guess I just found it quite funny - where alot of posters who responded to the OP - some of which espouse how much people should be 'reading profiles' didn't actually read the OPs - it was quite obvious what was actually being searched for, as the OP has later on made clearer. As to the OP - whilst I wish you every endeavour in finding guidence and discussion, which you can find here on the forum and maybe approach someone whose views you like and think you might get along with, personal ads are not part of the TOS of the CM forum. Best luck in the future. Peace and Love

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