DesFIP -> RE: Cultivating a good dominant attitude (1/2/2008 10:50:46 AM)
Personally I don't go for "I know what I want and I expect to get it". Expectations, especially unsaid ones, are a bitch. You are bound to be disappointed.
Confidence in the sense of I know who I am, I know what I need, I know enough to not chase those who I am not compatible with, that's what shines. Of course subs with that attitude shine too.