Regression, and D/S

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Steelriven -> Regression, and D/S (8/4/2007 6:54:45 PM)
Hello everyone, Lately I’ve been discovering that there are many people out there that don’t agree with the statement that Age play, and AB (Adult baby) can be part of the D/s lifestyle. This is why I have written this small essay. Please, let me know what you think. I’m open to all opinions. My thoughts on regression in the D/s world. Regression has levels, as does submission. From light to heavy. For instance, some one could be playing a video game not wearing and may be regressed to a light degree. However when you take that same person and put them in diapers, hand them a bottle and their level of regression becomes deeper. This is the same for submission. It has levels as well. Here’s an example, a submissive is ordered to wash their dominants clothes. The level of submission she-he is feeling may be light. Take the same submissive, and their orders are now to wash the clothing while their nipples are clamped, wrists are pinned together, and in the nude. Their level of submission is now deeper. Many will argue the fact that you can’t be regressed and submissive at the same time. I feel this is untrue. Why? Because you can be at different levels of submission and regression at any given time. Example: I didn’t clean my room when I was supposed to and now Daddy is telling me to bend over his knee. I feel humiliated, embarrassed and it turns me on. (Submissive, Adult) There are no warm ups, and I am getting a spanking and it hurts. (This can be a combination of both feelings at the same time!) I feel I’ve disappointed Daddy and been a very bad little girl. (Regression) I also get the argument that you can’t beat a toddler. No, you can’t. But what most people don’t realize is that an adult baby, or age player is NOT a toddler. What determines the ability if they can be punished in a certain way is there level of regression. It also depends on what they enjoy. Some say the adult and regressed identity co-exist with in an AB or age player. I agree with this statement. I also agree that the adult part of you can still exist in a small part of your mind when regressed. Can one be regressed ALL the time? I’ve heard some examples of people who claim to be regressed all the time. I have to disagree with them. An AB is just that ADULT baby. Meaning you still have adult thoughts no matter what. You can not be in a true deep state of regression all the time, it’s simply not possible. And frankly not healthy. ( I’m really not trying to start an argument on this.)

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Regression, and D/S (8/4/2007 10:00:03 PM)
You can't really get upset at people who tell you that you can't be who/what you say you are (regressed & submissive) and then try and tell people that they aren't who/what they say they are (regressed all the time) It's foolish for anyone really to try and tell anyone that the experience they have of themselves is wrong. Even more so to say that NO one can ever have a particular experience. Age play is a very complex arena, and yet another example of kink/activities that are not at all directly dealing with Ds and yet can very easily be taken under the umbrella.

AquaticSub -> RE: Regression, and D/S (8/4/2007 10:09:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Steelriven This is the same for submission. It has levels as well. Here’s an example, a submissive is ordered to wash their dominants clothes. The level of submission she-he is feeling may be light. Take the same submissive, and their orders are now to wash the clothing while their nipples are clamped, wrists are pinned together, and in the nude. Their level of submission is now deeper. I'd have to say that has little to do with my "level" of submission and a lot to do with my level of arousal.

daddyscherry -> RE: Regression, and D/S (8/4/2007 10:48:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub quote: ORIGINAL: Steelriven This is the same for submission. It has levels as well. Here’s an example, a submissive is ordered to wash their dominants clothes. The level of submission she-he is feeling may be light. Take the same submissive, and their orders are now to wash the clothing while their nipples are clamped, wrists are pinned together, and in the nude. Their level of submission is now deeper. I'd have to say that has little to do with my "level" of submission and a lot to do with my level of arousal. i'd have to disagree with you here AS. But, it may be a case of wording. i have actually done almost the exact thing mentioned there and it did help center me more and put me more deeply in slave space when i've done it. It had zero to do with arousal and more to do with being more fully aware of my status as a slave. A housewife does laundry and so it could be easy to forget sometimes as you go about your daily routine. Adding the cuffs clipped in the middle (on hands and feet) and it made me remember with each movement and each step that i was a slave doing my Master's laundry and serving him.This pushed me into a deeper level of submission..if submission were a ladder going down into a deep well with a comfy bed at the bottom, then i had certainly gone to a deeper level, many rungs down the ladder. That type of thing is always emotionally satisfying and mentally centering for me but totally not an arousal thing.

AquaticSub -> RE: Regression, and D/S (8/4/2007 10:55:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddyscherry i'd have to disagree with you here AS. But, it may be a case of wording. i have actually done almost the exact thing mentioned there and it did help center me more and put me more deeply in slave space when i've done it. It had zero to do with arousal and more to do with being more fully aware of my status as a slave. A housewife does laundry and so it could be easy to forget sometimes as you go about your daily routine. Adding the cuffs clipped in the middle (on hands and feet) and it made me remember with each movement and each step that i was a slave doing my Master's laundry and serving him.This pushed me into a deeper level of submission..if submission were a ladder going down into a deep well with a comfy bed at the bottom, then i had certainly gone to a deeper level, many rungs down the ladder. That type of thing is always emotionally satisfying and mentally centering for me but totally not an arousal thing. It our household, everything is about practicality and very little, if anything, is for show, putting me in my place, or reminding me of my status. I serve and do laundry because it needs to be done and it's my place to do it. If I was in a vanilla relationship, I'd probably (ok I would) tell him to do his bloody laundry and for God's sake, pick up your plates. If I am ordered to do something and then hindered by nipple clamps, which would cause me to wince from pain, or have my wrists bound, it would be solely for arousal. Or punishment by arousing me and then not doing anything with me.

daddyscherry -> RE: Regression, and D/S (8/5/2007 12:11:39 AM)
i'm sorry AS, i didn't have my glasses on when i read your post and failed to see the little tiny word "my" in your post. i wasn't trying to be rude and i do see how the concept differs to you in your life. We don't do much that is for show either, but as for being "put" place, it is more of my internal need to feel centered, like when my Daddy is out of town for example, it's really difficult on me and to focus more on him and my status as his slave, things like the above mentioned, help a great deal to take my mind off me and put my mind and heart back where they belong.

AquaticSub -> RE: Regression, and D/S (8/5/2007 12:22:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: daddyscherry i'm sorry AS, i didn't have my glasses on when i read your post and failed to see the little tiny word "my" in your post. i wasn't trying to be rude and i do see how the concept differs to you in your life. It's quite all right, happens to everyone! [:)]

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