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BIllCT -> 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 9:02:15 AM)
How many Submissive women in CollarMe, have actually had real life experience? And at what age did you start and how?

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 9:05:06 AM)
my ...my aren't we phishing for answers today. ok i'll bite your bait - yes i have real life experience and it started 5yrs ago ...you do the math on how old i was.

Aileen68 -> RE: 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 9:07:02 AM)
Yes. I was 37.

denika -> RE: 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 9:12:45 AM)
yes, very yes and I jumped in both feet about three years ago but have been in a poly minded relationship for 17 years denika

NoirUMC -> RE: 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 9:14:36 AM)
That would be 33. I'm good at this maff stuff.

GhitaAmati -> RE: 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 9:18:03 AM)
Real life? Whats that? I thought everyone here was just discussing a fantasy world, You mean you people actually DO this stuff? Ye gads.

spankmepink11 -> RE: 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 9:18:07 AM)
Be prepared for the posibility that, due to the wording of your post, some may take that as an implication that you doubt whether submissive types here on CM have had "actual" experience in real life. I was bound and spanked for the first time at age 19, but did not pursue it more deeply until a few yrs after my divorce in my 30's. As for the "submissive aspect, i always thought i was just a kinky people pleaser/ who enjoyed a "Male head of house hold " mentality until someone introduced me to "lifestyle " (for lack of a better word) terms

violetaelf -> RE: 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 9:19:05 AM)
Yes !! Happy Yes!!! 3 years ago.. at 23! :) How? Now that's a long story! :) 'violet'

Jinger -> RE: 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 9:26:37 AM)
quote: How many Submissive women in CollarMe, have actually had real life experience? And at what age did you start and how? I'm breaking the rules. I'm a boy. I'm still answering. I'm defiant like that. I've had real life experiences ever since I was 16...I think. Maybe 15? Unless you count being tied to the jungle gym repeatedly in grade school as bondage experience. Experience is nice. It's been far too long since I've gotten into it though. Ugg!

salilus -> RE: 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 9:28:50 AM)
I started fantasizing when I was very young. I think it's against TOS to say how young. I met a professor in college with whom I had my first actually experience with. I was 17. I hope I'm allowed to say that. I didn't find internet bdsm until I was 20. I've been in two relationships that involved d/s since then, for a total of about seven years now. I'm currently 29.

shyinini -> RE: 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 9:29:47 AM)
"2 new questions" Darn, I thought it would be really original !! Lets see... (White Male age 50 in Waterbury, CT.) knows 2 who actually had real experience, according to white male in CT and white male in CT (BDSM Experienced have had two female submissives each a year a piece one in Mass and one In CT.) started 2 years ago..... I know the answer !! raises hand .....me me me pick me ~~ I know !! Sir's smart girl

umisprite -> RE: 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 9:29:59 AM)
Raising my hand in affirmation to question #1 It was not until I was in my early 40's that I was secure enough with myself to live what I had felt in my heart and mind since I was a teen.

BitaTruble -> RE: 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 9:30:33 AM)
Three years my first Master, almost that long with my second Master, 7 years doing nothing but Top and now twelve years with Himself. Where's that math guy? ::chuckles:: How I started? Jumped in blind and with my hands cuffed behind my back. No safe calls (if they existed back then, I didn't know about them), didn't tell anyone where I was going, what I was doing, when I was coming home. Met Master for the first time at his house after exchanging snail mail and phone calls for a few months. He collared me that first meeting and played me for hours and hours and I was hooked. Celeste

kyraofMists -> RE: 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 9:48:36 AM)
Real life experience in what? I have been submissive all of my life and pretty much submitted to anyone that I perceived had the authority. I tried to be submissive in my romantic relationships but they had no interest in having the authority. As a teen I enjoyed bondage and threesomes. As a grad student I touched the surface of breath play and pain during sexual activities. More than two years ago, I dove into the deep end and entered a poly relationship as a slave to a sadist. I am the happiest that I have ever been and life just keeps getting better. I had just turned 34 when I met my Lord face to face and I was 33 when we first started getting to know each other. Knight's Kyra

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 9:49:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NoirUMC That would be 33. I'm good at this maff stuff. and you, sir, win the prize of the day wink

cuddleheart50 -> RE: 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 9:52:03 AM)
Yes, and at 48

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 9:55:03 AM)
I have absolutely no real experience in hook suspension. Would you please label your threads better? These vague "questions" titles are quite bad.

OeldeWolf -> RE: 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 9:59:52 AM)
Yes, my slave has real life experience. And she strarted fantasizing about it quite young (have to mind the TOS, eh?), but did not act on it until the last year or two. I have several years (maybe many) of experience. Became formally "into it" after oh, 40 or so? But had done kink for many years. And I always seemed to end up being put in charge of things, even in vanilla life. OeldeWolf

MisPandora -> RE: 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 10:01:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BIllCT How many Submissive women in CollarMe, have actually had real life experience? And at what age did you start and how? Are you just posting to get rid of the ice cream cone and increase your post count or do you seriously think that no one on this site has RT experience?

shyinini -> RE: 2 New Questions (8/5/2007 10:02:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jinger quote: How many Submissive women in CollarMe, have actually had real life experience? And at what age did you start and how? I'm breaking the rules. I'm a boy. I'm still answering. I'm defiant like that. I've had real life experiences ever since I was 16...I think. Maybe 15? Unless you count being tied to the jungle gym repeatedly in grade school as bondage experience. Experience is nice. It's been far too long since I've gotten into it though. Ugg! I love your pic jinger !! It is so comic and refreshing creative !!

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