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First Time - 7/1/2005 1:42:56 AM

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The "really bad sex" post got me to thinking about what people's first time was like. I was very lucky to have my all-time greatest fantasy fulfilled the night I lost my virginity. It was with my teacher (extra-curicular class), whom I love. It took all night, there were toys and handcuffs and blindfolds and everything. I had used some toys on myself before, so pain wasn't an issue (not that it ever has been with me lol). He became my first Master. I've had two others since then, but now we're back together and I couldn't be happier. So all in all, it was a dream come true for me.
So what was your first time like?

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RE: First Time - 7/1/2005 6:07:35 AM

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My first time came because of a premonitory dream I had about having sex with a man I'd never met. That night my best friend at the time was having her 16th birthday party and the person I had dreamed about showed up there, her neighbor (he was 17). I was really horny and so I tried to give him a hand and blow job (I'd had NO experience before this) but there were too many people around.

Two weeks later he came up to me after school and asked if I wanted to continue. I said absolutely, so we went to my place and had pretty hot sex. I wanted more afterwards and he didn't, but I was glad to have had the experience.

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RE: First Time - 7/1/2005 11:58:39 AM

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ha ha and ho ho.

my first time, i was 14 was raped. And i could go into all the saucy details if you like.

My second time i was 15 and sexually abused by a name either in his 30's or 40's

who wants graphic gory details?

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RE: First Time - 7/1/2005 12:17:36 PM

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My first time I was a freshman in college and pretty naive. It was his first time also so we had no idea what we were doing LOL. It scared both of us a little when i bled some, we had no idea that would happen. This was in 1964 when noone talked much about sex.

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RE: First Time - 7/2/2005 6:03:23 AM

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The first time was with a rather attractive young woman I met at a party in college. We were both slightly inebriated. Being young, my equipment nevertheless filfilled the obvious mechanical requirements, although afterwards I thought, "that's it? that's what all the fuss was about?"

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RE: First Time - 7/2/2005 11:31:18 PM

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Mine was terrible! The man I was with was very well endowed, and he was determined to " get it in". My cries of pain only turned him on more, and as I tried to get away, he held me down harder, so it eventually turned into a rape situation. Although...not knowing so at the time, I did get my revenge! It was in his mother's bed, and it was badly blood stained, and she was due home from work any minute, LOL! He freaked and started yelling at me to help him find clean sheets and remake the bed....I laughed and walked out of the house to fend for himself. As I walked out the front door, I saw her coming down the street and stepped into the darkness so I could hear her confrontation of what she was about to find out. It was sweet listening to her scream at the top of her lungs...and him whine like a baby.

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RE: First Time - 7/3/2005 12:02:44 AM

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My first time was amusing and accidental.

Dry sex in a very hot room in the middle of Southern California weather does not stay dry for long. It slipped and I wasn't paying too much attention until I felt it. I wasn't nervous or thinking too much at that moment so nothing felt off or bad. I clenched briefly without thinking and a look of stark terror crossed his face as he recoiled. He had been a virgin so the sensation was new. I watched him tumble off the floor and then treated myself to about half an hour of trying to get ahold of myself. He didn't find it nearly as amusing as I did.

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RE: First Time - 7/3/2005 12:14:16 AM

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I was living in a group home, at the time of meeting him he, we didn't have sex but a few weeks later we did.. He worked around the corner at a recycle center, and I met him because I ran away and asked a group of guys standing about in front on break for a quarter and he said I could come home with him after I said I was a run away and I needed to get out of the area. I went home with him and we went to his room, and he started trying to unbutton me and push me onto the bed and force himself on me, I got scared got up and left after it became evident he'd rape me if I stayed.

It was kind of like a fatal attraction thing, only I didn't stalk him. It spooked me but as weeks went on I found myself strangely attracted to him stoping by w*ork hopeing he'd be out and invite me in.

One day I finally told the girls in my group home I was going to sneak out tonight see him, I was planning on offering myself to him. they gave me condoms I snuck out and went to see him.

after about 20 mins of aqward just sitting there I said I uh I brought condoms, if you uh wanna do..... anything.... He of course didn't turn me down.

It was painfull I was just a girl, and I was full of dreams and fantasies of what it'd be like, prince charming sweeping in making love to the senses, and instead he was a 45 year old dirty old man who shoved in breaking the hymen pumped away and came.

Later about 5 he said you have to go I have to get ready for work, and I left to walk home alone he wouldn't even see me h ome. and climb into bed and try to pretend nothing happend.

The group home staff knew I'd ran away, there wasn't anything they could do. ad at school all day my vagina hurt and I walked funny and sitting was painfull, I finally admited I'd slept with the guy. the school called the cops and the cops wanted to press charges I was just a girl after all but I said no, I wanted to protect him.

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RE: First Time - 7/3/2005 1:01:45 AM

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I was nervous and had no idea what to do. The girl I was with made me make the first move and I layed there for 15 minutes to build the nervous up. After it though she took control and it and her was some of the best sex ive ever had.

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