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Vendaval -> RE: Faking Orgasm (4/27/2007 12:04:37 AM)
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IMO, being able to relax and be sensual with your partner(s),
not rushing towards a goal, exploring each other's bodies
and relaxing with a warm bath, massage, some good wine,
etc goes a long way to lowering performance anxiety.
(Don't have too much of the wine or the man may not
be able to perform.)
Setting the mood with lighting and music also alters the mood
and lessens the tensions of everyday life. Fondling, watching
each other masturbate and assisting, using toys and experimenting
with tactile sensations, one person receiving oral attention without
having to respond in kind, etc. Use your minds and your imaginations
to turn yourselves on and connect with each other.
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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael
Some people understand that sex isn't a sporting event and that finishing isn't always the goal. As a dominant, I have to take care of my partner who desires to ensure my pleasure. If I have cum to many times or withheld my own orgasm for too long, it just might not happen and sometimes I don't want the focus to be on my pleasure. It isn't something I would do long term and it isn't anything I would be doing with my partner.
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