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Questions ? - 8/6/2007 3:30:52 AM

BIllCT

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In Life as I get older I sometimes wonder about somethings, some of these things definitely concern submissive women.

1) What makes a woman's submissive side come out and stay present?
2) Do all submissive women understand they do not have to be doormats to be submissives?
3) Do all Submissive women understand they may be submissive but there is no mold period, each one can be an individual? Meaning no two submissive women are exactly alike, just like no two relationships in life are exactly alike.
4) Does depression have anything to do with being submissive?
5) Each submissive woman has a certain part of being submissive they love and are drawn to and each is individual I find, am I right or wrong?
6) I find that each submissive woman, like each woman period has individual tastes in what persons they will be in a relationship with, due to their own personal experiences, am I right or wrong here!

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RE: Questions ? - 8/6/2007 4:34:56 AM

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you can change the terms 'submissive women' and put in 'rodeo clowns' or 'tabby cats' and it can apply to just about anyone in general. I am not sure these comment/questions are actually news to any grown man who has known anything about bdsm (or women in general). Except depression?? how did that get tossed into the mix? Depression is often a deep-seeded, underlying, inability to express anger. Are you saying submissives are more likely to have depression??

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RE: Questions ? - 8/6/2007 4:58:57 AM

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it's not what brings out my submissive side, but more like who; in other words, it takes a special kind of person, rather than a certain kind of technique, etc.

i don't suffer from depression and i'm not a door-mat; i'm selective in who i bottom to, and those i submit to are far and few between. so yeah, we're all different; being human and all, it only stands to reason!

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RE: Questions ? - 8/6/2007 5:08:33 AM

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When will people understand that being a doormat isn't necessarily a bad thing.
Do people realise you dont have to be submissive to be a doormat?
Why don't you think this about submissive men, but only submissive women?
Does depression have to do with anything?
Try talking to submissive men and other dominants too - you might be surprised!
You could take any orientation/name/label and insert it into your 'thoughts' and it would be the same answers.

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RE: Questions ? - 8/6/2007 5:10:54 AM

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My life is muchly improved by doormats.

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RE: Questions ? - 8/6/2007 5:13:25 AM

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next thing you know we will have to get them from china there will be no more domestic production of such 'comfort-womens'

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RE: Questions ? - 8/6/2007 5:21:22 AM

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k thats it, now I want to be a depressed doormat.

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RE: Questions ? - 8/6/2007 5:48:08 AM

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change your profile to reflect that and we are off and running-----

LOLOLOLOL.

(but the depressed part?, I like happy doormats.......nearly mz smiley face type of doormats)

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RE: Questions ? - 8/6/2007 6:20:05 AM

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ORIGINAL: BIllCT

In Life as I get older I sometimes wonder about somethings, some of these things definitely concern submissive women.

1) What makes a woman's submissive side come out and stay present?

i'm a natural submissive - meaning this is my personality trait since the day i was born ...it's not a light switch that you flick on and off.

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2) Do all submissive women understand they do not have to be doormats to be submissives?

yes we know that - it's clearly stated in our Submissive/Slave Handbook

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3) Do all Submissive women understand they may be submissive but there is no mold period, each one can be an individual? Meaning no two submissive women are exactly alike, just like no two relationships in life are exactly alike.

already knew that - duh ...i have my own style, tastes and interests that makes me special only to Daddy's eyes.

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4) Does depression have anything to do with being submissive?

the same queston can be asked of dominants too

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5) Each submissive woman has a certain part of being submissive they love and are drawn to and each is individual I find, am I right or wrong?

now you're really over analyzing things here perhaps you should explain further

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6) I find that each submissive woman, like each woman period has individual tastes in what persons they will be in a relationship with, due to their own personal experiences, am I right or wrong here!

i just answered that in question 3

now for my questions which i know you're not going to reply
1. do you enjoy asking questions and not replying back to those who have responded on your many threads?

2. is this merely a phishing excursion for you or do you have other ulterior motives behind the many questions lately?

3. do you think this is an ideal way to figure to search for that submissive/slave of your dreams?

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RE: Questions ? - 8/6/2007 7:15:37 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BIllCT

In Life as I get older I sometimes wonder about somethings, some of these things definitely concern submissive women.

1) What makes a woman's submissive side come out and stay present?
2) Do all submissive women understand they do not have to be doormats to be submissives?
3) Do all Submissive women understand they may be submissive but there is no mold period, each one can be an individual? Meaning no two submissive women are exactly alike, just like no two relationships in life are exactly alike.
4) Does depression have anything to do with being submissive?
5) Each submissive woman has a certain part of being submissive they love and are drawn to and each is individual I find, am I right or wrong?
6) I find that each submissive woman, like each woman period has individual tastes in what persons they will be in a relationship with, due to their own personal experiences, am I right or wrong here!

I can only answer for myself, and my answers are...

1) My Daddy brought it out, and he keeps it out for him.
2) I understand, and could never be a doormat.
3) As my Daddy says..."kittin you are one of a kind".
4) I believe deperession or any mental illness has no place anywhere in the lifestyle... if a person has a mental issue it needs to be addressed first and formost before starting or continuing.
5) At this point, and time I do not love any part of being submissive... there are parts that I enjoy... and parts that I accept and deal with.
6) For me as a submissive I can only see being a submissive to my Daddy at this time... could that change in the future... possibly... but highly unlikely.

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RE: Questions ? - 8/6/2007 7:22:15 AM

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Well I do answer the purpose of the questions for you now!
1) They are questions meant to bring people out to answer them so others can get to know you!
2) No I do not like asking questions, getting answers and not replying to them but I start the threads to ask common questions most would ask just starting out in the lifestyle, so people can learn as they go!
3) As to searching for that ideal partner or not, I can only say I am not allowed to troll in forums or chat of course, but that wa snot my intention in these posts!

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RE: Questions ? - 8/6/2007 7:50:40 AM

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finally he replies back

i was beginning to wonder if you're only here for trolling and/or wankering material since you have this annoying habit of not responding back to those who visit your threads. while you're trying to know us better, we on the other hand are trying to know you better ...and it's quite difficult if you don't respond back.

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