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lucyboy -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:14:42 AM)

[:)]
quote:

ORIGINAL: earthycouple

*whispers so I'm not so shrill*

awww...thanks for the compliments.


Maybe we can be friends[:)], I assure you that you are mistaken in the asumption that I'm an obnoxious little twirp with a victim complex and an axe to grind. That is not me at all. I just thought my my expereience was worth discussing on a bdsm forum. I thought that was what the forum was for. But it seems my post was taken as an unwelcome bit of troublemaking. I hope you all realise that it was not anything more than an attempt to have a discussion with likeminded people about a bad experience I had just gone through. Nothing more nothing less.

I hope that puts everything in perspective and we can all be friendly now[:)]




earthycouple -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:19:30 AM)

*whispering so as not to be so darn shrill*

who's not being friendly?  I've thanked you many times over for your lovely words re: my character....I never called you an obnoxious little twerp and I didn't say you had a victim complex (you did that just now),  but you did have an axe to grind. 

My perspective is quite clear.




came4U -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:24:33 AM)

lucyboy, this is not off-broadway. Save the drama for the 'yo mamma' thread.

you don't get it, seems you never will. Its like talking to a brick wall




lucyboy -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:25:17 AM)

No axe to grind I just think non pro Dommes shouldn't demand cash. It's hardly a subversive agenda?? Quite reasonable me thinks.




beargonewild -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:26:10 AM)

Yes it is unfortunate that there are Dommes who do demand tribute from a sub/slave to prove good intentions and to weed out the not so serious ones. Many pro Dommes are legit and they are providing a service, though non sexual, because there is a niche for this type of service. It's akin to a gay sub who is looking for a Master/Sir for a relationship and running into Masters who demand sex in the first meeting. This works for some but not for all. Just like dating in the vanilla world, a person has to pay their dues by weeding through the masses before finding one that is appropiate for their wants and needs and desires.

edited to add: at one time or another we all had to "suck it up" and understand that not everything will be the way we want it to be. As with everything in life, you have the good and the not so good. Life is much easier when one develops a thick skin towards what we don't like and continue on.




earthycouple -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:27:00 AM)

has nothing to do with your wanting pros to be pros and those who hide it to be upfront.  it has to do with your consipiracy theories and "they are all out to get me" mentality.  I can pull quotes from your posts if you like to back that up....just ask.




ThePrincessBych -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:29:56 AM)

lucy, How do you know how much experience I have? Id say nearly 11 yrs in San Fran as a lifestyle domme doesn't make me green or wet behind the ears...and I never said you weren't worthy of sex. I just said that "I did not have sex with my subs"...perhaps if you stopped and thought before you typed and stopped putting words in others mouths, then you wouldn't have so many people coming down on you. Id say at 33 yrs old, I AM grown up...and Im not the one, whining and throwing a tantrum on a message board....Maybe its your tone on here...I dont know, but you keep repeating yourself...over and over, so why not just do what you want and forget about this thread? and to the other poster...just because I dont have sex with my subs doesn't mean I need to get out more, I get out plenty lol. Im in a 24/7 relationship with an equal...that is why I dont have sex with subs,,...well actually I wouldn't anyway..but thats another story....




lucyboy -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:30:06 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: came4U

lucyboy, this is not off-broadway. Save the drama for the 'yo mamma' thread.

you don't get it, seems you never will. Its like talking to a brick wall


Please tell me as simply as you can. I think non pro Dommes shouldnt demand cash from people they have never met. That is my point, plain and simple.

Is you're point that I should not express my view? Is what I have said above actually wrong or is it the fact that I said it that you take exception to?

Yes I'm confused. Are you saying that it's cool for non pro Dommes to make cash requests before they show their pictures or are you just saying that it is uncool for me to raise the subject here?




came4U -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:34:37 AM)

I am not a fed nor do I work for the IRS.  If she wants to ask for money up-front that is her business and your decision to close the screen.  You obviously didn't read what I said on the previous page.

I don't care if or what you post.  But the dramatics AFTER the fact was akin to a 4 yr old who's mamma took his cookie away for slamming the jar lid.

Your decision, your cookie.

<dangles cookie. neener neener.




lucyboy -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:37:10 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: beargonewild

Yes it is unfortunate that there are Dommes who do demand tribute from a sub/slave to prove good intentions and to weed out the not so serious ones. Many pro Dommes are legit and they are providing a service, though non sexual, because there is a niche for this type of service. It's akin to a gay sub who is looking for a Master/Sir for a relationship and running into Masters who demand sex in the first meeting. This works for some but not for all. Just like dating in the vanilla world, a person has to pay their dues by weeding through the masses before finding one that is appropiate for their wants and needs and desires.

edited to add: at one time or another we all had to "suck it up" and understand that not everything will be the way we want it to be. As with everything in life, you have the good and the not so good. Life is much easier when one develops a thick skin towards what we don't like and continue on.


Very true, I was just airing my view and talking about an experience that happened a coule of days ago. I'm hardly holding on to it and carrying it about. I just like to chat about what happens in my life and people saw that as being subversive and whiney.

It was neither




earthycouple -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:37:10 AM)

Can I have a cookie?  I'll behave, came4U...I promise.  Chocolate chip! Please?


edited cause I can't spell behave today.




camille65 -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:37:56 AM)

General statement:
Jeeez I think some of you need to be in seperate corners!

Deep breathes, chant to yourselves 'it is only a forum, it is only a forum'.
If you feel like you can't get your point across then just maybe you should avoid the conversation?




came4U -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:39:41 AM)

NO, No cookie for you earthycouple

<cookie nazi

lol




earthycouple -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:40:09 AM)

camille, you are probably right.  I'm a bad person for bantering negatively.  I know I'm instigating.  But but.....can't I be bad sometimes?  If this were not in Random stupidity I wouldn't be egging like this, I promise *S*




earthycouple -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:41:14 AM)

 
quote:

ORIGINAL: came4U

NO, No cookie for you earthycouple

<cookie nazi

lol


You do know I'm one of LaT's hoes for the day right?  I'll put out for cookies.




came4U -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:44:20 AM)

ok, does that mean you are a god-diggin cookie ho? What a 'crumby' job haha.




beargonewild -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:45:17 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: camille65

General statement:
Jeeez I think some of you need to be in seperate corners!

Deep breathes, chant to yourselves 'it is only a forum, it is only a forum'.
If you feel like you can't get your point across then just maybe you should avoid the conversation?


Sorry for that icon I posted in response to your comment yesterday camille (on another thread) it was uncalled for.
returning to the scheduled topic of discussion.




earthycouple -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:45:21 AM)

ouch.  I don't like this cookie game now *S*

how bout a brownie?  got brownies, no nuts?




came4U -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:47:03 AM)

stooppp [:(]

lol

not just my eyes gettin wet here.





earthycouple -> RE: God Diggers they are just wrong grrrr (8/9/2007 8:49:45 AM)

lmao....oh my! *ahem*  and I thought I wasn't enticing.  I now know whining for cookies is my "it" thing!




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