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TimeReality -> RE: Dominant Male & Female Relationships? (7/3/2004 10:38:20 AM)
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Though many people have put their opinion, I see not many responses on those who have been in dominant relationships.
I still talk to my first boyfriend, and only recently found out he can be submissive, just never something I thought about. The relationship ended for the wrong reasons, and if I could live it over, I probably would, and do it right
My second boyfriend was very dominant, and I finally had to end the relationship because of it (it wasn't quite vanilla, and not quite bdsm O.o where does that fit?)
I have for a long time felt...filthy isn't quite the word, but upset at the very least at submitting to someone partially against my will (don't take that wrong, I do have a rather buried submissive side that comes out and makes me feel very uncomfortable when it does)
As to if I could ever be in a long term relationship with a Dom/Domme....I don't know. Friendships are one thing, and I'm sure I could manage that, but I don't think much more. I do not feel the natural order of things is Male Dominated. I feel the Female is much more capable of 'ruling the world' so to speak. And where this notion came from no one has quite figured out yet.
I prefer being the dominant over a submissive as compared to a co dominant relationship, because I tend to have much less problems in that type of relationship. Yes, a dominant may be good for me, but they tend to unintentionally make me something that I am not, and actually makes me sick to become for any length of time (if you think it's a joke it's not, I was sick constantly in the dominating house of my mother and get sick often in my father's house, but anywhere else, or when they're not home, I'm just fine)
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