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Age play question for the subbies - 8/6/2007 3:08:43 PM   
MissAidan


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Status: offline 		Ok, to all the "s types" around here who practice age play, in what ever form it may take on for you, I have a question.  Why.  What do you get out of?  What makes it apealing to you?  What parts do you like best, which do you not like so much?  What age(s) do you play, and why?

So, thats a lot of questions, yes...I am just curious by nature.  I look forward to the responses!

Thanks,
Aidan
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RE: Age play question for the subbies - 8/6/2007 3:22:06 PM   
shyinini


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Status: offline 		Aidan,
 
I really do not know if it really is ageplay, but I called my former dom master, then daddy.
Master didnt seem to fit after the first year.  I discussed it with him, he agreed and I called him daddy.  Some of the reason was cause of how I felt with him when in communication.
At that time I could have told yu the exact reasons, now I cant.
Yes, he did call me his lil girl more often rather than whore, which maybe I needed.
I think over the 4 years, I have grown in ways that I no longer need to identify with a daddy dom.  
 
Now I am Sir's beloved cherished submissive



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RE: Age play question for the subbies - 8/6/2007 4:36:18 PM   
slaveish


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Status: offline 		I get a feeling of safety and belonging from it. I have to be in the proper head about it though or my adult self screams that it's not acceptable.

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RE: Age play question for the subbies - 8/6/2007 9:28:06 PM   
MissAidan


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the answers.  I'd love to hear more about how you progressed from one to the other, shyinini.

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RE: Age play question for the subbies - 8/6/2007 11:11:27 PM   
SubOscar


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Status: offline 		It's not something I'm into, but there's certainly no shortage of men who are into age play. It tends to attract fetishists more than subs, or maybe for whatever reason the men who are into it just don't talk about it.

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RE: Age play question for the subbies - 8/7/2007 5:43:23 AM   
shyinini


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissAidan

Thanks for the answers.  I'd love to hear more about how you progressed from one to the other, shyinini.


MissAidan,
 
Unfortunately, it was not a healthy relationship after about 9 months.  He had semi walked away and being long distance, like 1000miles, I was left in the dark.  In that darkness, I reached within me and found a need.  When the relationship seemed much closer, I discussed this need, and he at that point was like a daddy dom in my mind and heart.  It lasted about 4 months after I started calling him daddy.  The relationship went south, and I was again left in the dark.
It took me another year to finally come to my senses and realize I had been an option.  
 
I walked away and healed that little girl part of me merging her with the woman I was meant to be.
 
Every now and then, in those special moments of my private thoughts, I accidentally call Sir daddy.  I am not sure why my mind always seems to go there.  The little girl part of me is very protected and very safe, very cherished and well taken care of by my Sir, as is the woman I am.
 
Mornings are my best time for reflection and journaling.  I think you have not only helped me dig a bit deeper in my response, but I hope I have helped some.
 
Sir's girl

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RE: Age play question for the subbies - 8/7/2007 5:52:12 AM   
balletsissypa


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Status: offline 		i am a crossdresser, so ageplay works with me on a number of levels. First it is a form of submission. If i had a Mommy, Daddy, Big sister, Babysitter, Aunt or Governness, i would have rules to live by outside the bdsm scene. i would have a curfew, i would not be allowed to smoke, drink or curse, things like that. Infractions to that would be punished in a more traditional way also. Its a way of keeping me in a more 24/7 sub headspace.
    Also, for me, girls my age, like 8 to 13 are transitioning from little girls to young ladies. They are discovering themselves and growing as women mentally, emotionally and physically, much the way i feel i am in my feminzation. Finally, i just really like the things young girls get to do like take ballet class, cheerleading, school uniforms, girl scouts, etc. It can be hard to intergrate that with bdsm or being a slut so there are some issues but then again aren't there always:)
lauren

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RE: Age play question for the subbies - 8/7/2007 9:07:15 AM   
favesclava


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Status: offline 		when i'm with Daddy , all adult worries disappear. bill paying groceries, safety concerns. i'm safe secure and not responsible for anything but pleasing my Daddy.
i had to be strong and self sufficient from age 16. when i walk throug Daddys door all that is left behind .

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RE: Age play question for the subbies - 8/7/2007 12:23:30 PM   
babysub48


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Status: offline 		Aiden

We dont usually do a whole session of "age play"  but sometimes after a particularly intense session, or even day, its nice to curl up and feel loved and safe and protected like "Daddy" did when I was little.  My Master does share me occaisionally with his friends and he will often follow a night like that telling me how proud he was of his little girl serving those other cocks, loving me very tenderly.

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RE: Age play question for the subbies - 8/8/2007 1:30:38 AM   
sarahLove


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Status: offline 		I love age play. In my area there are munches and I attend them.  Try to find something like that.  Are you intrested in attending them?

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RE: Age play question for the subbies - 8/8/2007 11:50:10 AM   
MissAidan


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Status: offline 		Hey, dude, post your trolling messeges elsewhere.  Dont hijack someone elses thread to do it.  As for munches, I go to several every month, but there are none around here just for ageplay.  There used to be a group about it for the locals, with out a munch of it's own, but the folks who were running it seem to have let it die off.

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RE: Age play question for the subbies - 8/9/2008 9:17:42 PM   
bigbABygentleman


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Status: offline 		MissAidan,

There are so many facets of Age Play that enjoy.
Likes:
The closeness with the female mommy.
A bond between a child and parent (consenting adults)
The closeness that breastfeeding brings (consenting adults)
The closeness that diaper changes bring (consenting adults)
The feeling of total surrender of your most basic bodily functions to the diaper
Dislikes:
The humbling feeling the first time you wet or mess yourself, diapered or not
The humbling feeling of someone checking you and declaring you need changing
The humbling of being changed with your legs high in the air, not rolling over.

The feeling of knowing that no matter how hard you try, the diapers will eventually win and you will wet and soil yourself just like a helpless bABy.

Knowing that the person you have chosen, has chosen you and you both get enjoyment from the power exchange

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RE: Age play question for the subbies - 8/9/2008 9:33:53 PM   
porcelain26


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Status: offline 		Age play for me is a bit tricky; it can open up a lot of emotions and it always makes me feel exceptionally vulnerable. I've actually never done age play with my Owner, it just hasn't ever come up (though I admit I think I would really enjoy it). The person I have done age play with is extremely into it; a simple "Hi daddy" always makes his cock instantly hard. I like playing that way with him simply because I feel comfortable and safe in doing so. I've been very sexually aware since I was really little (I remember having rape fantasies at age 4), and I think letting out my naughty little girl side is healthy and helps me to understand myself and my submission better. Being in that headspace also lets me feel more comfortable voicing my insecurities and have those insecurities addressed in a caring and validating way. It's okay for me to ask if my pussy is tight enough, or if I'm doing a good job, or if Daddy likes using his little girl (not that I can't ask these things when I'm in my own head, it's just easier when I'm in 'lil girl mode').

I think age play is different for everyone and everyone gets something different out of it. Once again, one of my favorite things about BDSM and everything involved is that the people playing get to make their own world, their own rules, and create their own happiness.

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RE: Age play question for the subbies - 8/9/2008 10:37:35 PM   
SaraZeal


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quote:

Ok, to all the "s types" around here who practice age play, in what ever form it may take on for you, I have a question.  Why.  What do you get out of?  What makes it apealing to you?  What parts do you like best, which do you not like so much?  What age(s) do you play, and why?


I was repressed for many years, it's a way to heal emotionally, and at the same time feel loved, cared for and safe/protected like a child (not that I expect a 24/7 level of care, I mean the intensity of tenderness and caring feelings).

It makes me more submissive somehow, also. When in my little girl persona, my more rebellious side takes a hike and I can more fully submit. Ageplay to me is not sexual (though it can have some sexual stuff added, it isn't sexual by itself to me though).

I'm rather inexperienced with relationships, but I'd say what I like best is cuddling and snuggling, taking a nap on someone's lap and being able to show unconditional love without the shadow of a doubt, or cynism - a healthy dose of naiveté so to say.

I play a 8 years old, though I still like the diaper element. I'm very girly, so I also like the lolita fashion (and it happens to fit really good with a little girl who wants to be sickeningly cute).

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sometimes after a particularly intense session, or even day, its nice to curl up and feel loved and safe and protected like "Daddy" did when I was little.


To me it's the opposite. I was never really close to my father, he's hugged me very few times and whatever other tender moments have long been forgotten if they ever happened... The appeal is partly to have someone who can provide what he didn't, in love and such. Although I can easily fit this within a romantic relationship (in fact I probably can't 'not fit' it within a romantic relationship, the level of trust is simply too high).

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RE: Age play question for the subbies - 8/10/2008 7:56:33 AM   
diaperedbaby


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Status: offline 		For me having a high stress job, it is my escape from reality. There are some that are 24/7 but I am not that extreme.

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RE: Age play question for the subbies - 8/10/2008 12:20:25 PM   
metalmiss


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Status: offline 		For me there is no "why" its simply a natural part of who i am.
As for what i get out of it, a release, reassurance, security and the warmth that can only come from that kind of interaction in my experience. Perhaps its presence helps me accept my vulnerability in other facets of our Dynamic.
Appeal.. Well there is no real appeal for me, as i've said for Us its something natural, its just a part of the way my Master and i relate.
What do i like.. Well i guess when i'm there, in comparison to my adult space, i can let go, i enjoy feeling small, being small, the bouncing and fidgeting, having my hair brushed, not worrying, feeling warm, content, secure, curling up at night for a story before sleep time.. i enjoy more about it than i could say here.
What i don't enjoy.. When He decides its a good time to fuck with my head.. Brushing my hair, pulling me into that soft secure space, and then dragging me over His knee and spanking me hard with the brush.. Reading me a story and then deciding its just the right time for some resistance play.. Don't enjoy is probably a little harsh.. But its difficult for me sometimes.. i guess there's no part of it that i really 'don't enjoy'. The little girl in me doesn't appreciate or enjoy anything sexual.. i think thats the closest it gets.
That part of me is 4.. (Most of) The rest of me is a responsible 24 year old girl who calls her Master mostly Daddy.. Again, there is really no why about it.. Its just how We relate *smiles*
i've never understood the stigma around "age play" - to me there is & can be no abuse as long as all parties are consenting adults no matter what "age" they might be playing.


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RE: Age play question for the subbies - 8/10/2008 7:45:44 PM   
subeos


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Status: offline 		 There was already a post on this.i guess you needed your own thread for the same topic!!! Hum, same kind of answers too... so who is hijacking????

Nevertheless, so be it... the curtains open just for YOU!

slave eos

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