MasterDennyslave
Posts: 16
Joined: 6/24/2007 Status: offline
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Being a survivor of child sexual abuse by a family friend, I only have a couple of things to say. My abuser was a family friend. I told my parents of the abuse, going on from age 5-11. Stopped only cause the guy died. They told me that he wouldnt do that to me and that I was lieing. Most sexual abuse is committed by a family member, or friend of the family. Parents, we are, ultimately, the ones responsible for our childrens safety. Please, if your son/daughter comes to you and tells you that someone touched them. Believe them, until proven otherwise. The younger the child, the more likely to be telling the truth. Before you jump to conclusions at this statement, hear me out. There are instances where an older child has gotten mad at someone and fabricates the lie about being abused. But when your young child tells you this, listen to them. And it doesnt have to be in so many words. My own daughter was abused at the age of four. The only sign at first was that she didnt want to be near the person, but then he had gotten after her for getting into something. That is a normal reaction in itself from a young child. Then one day at the gas station, she told me that his pee pee tasted nasty. Did I believe her? Damn straight I did. I went to the police. they picked him up for questioning, he admitted it, and was convicted. The bottom line is this, you can have any website you want on here, promoting legal or illegal activites. But it is up to us, as the parents to protect our children. Not the neighbors, not the government. us, the parents.
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