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ORIGINAL: Hiskat

My Master &  I are going to our first play party, that being said what is typically worn to a play party if you are a guest? He has granted me permission to pick the outfit I wish to wear as long as it is alluring. I am thinking a corset and a skirt of course Master's collar. Again, this is our first and I we are going as the guests of invited guests and as a result we only know a few people who be in attendance.

Thanks for the insight :) kat

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ORIGINAL: wetsub4u

If you're going with invited guests, i'd suggest checking with them, if you haven't already.  They'd be the best ones to tell you whats acceptable at this particular party.  Having been to some play parties myself .. with a few different hosts .. the type of dress you've mentioned is certainly the norm at them.  Generally i find that some people come dressed in casual attire and 'dress' or undress once they get there. I'd generally strip to a bra, garter belt and stockings since that is what my Dom, at the time, preferred.  One guy used to bring a cat costume, put it on and crawl around .. managing to find himself in a female lap or two purring away.  ;-)

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