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Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 3:35:02 PM   
grlneedstolearn


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Status: offline 		i'm sure this thread is out there somewhere but i can not seem to find it. i've looked in pretty much all the differents forum starters but could not find what i am looking for.
  Ok no onto my question. i was talking with my Dom the other day and i made him cum, which was a big big hurdle for me. He then proceeded to tell me that come Monday that he will have me swallow his cum. Now i've heard and seen things about how to get over it mentally and physically. i've also heard of ways that will make swallowing it easier. Can i please get a refresher on the points of what to do and what not to do when taking his cum?
  Thank you
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RE: Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 3:43:06 PM   
MatureSweetDom


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Status: offline 		What I have done in the past to help women out who have had the same issue is to share it with me.  A deep passionate tongue in her mouth kiss after shooting a hot load of cum in her mouth helps to forget what you have in there.  Once you've swallowed it the first time and realize it isn't bad at all you will be swallowing for him as he's pumping into your eager mouth.

Good luck!

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RE: Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 3:44:05 PM   
Lordandmaster


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And whatever you do, DO NOT pull away from his cock until after he has finished ejaculating.  If you're not sure whether he's finished, then he hasn't finished.  Women often underestimate how long an ejaculation lasts.  Just wait till he tells you he's done.

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ORIGINAL: grlneedstolearn

Can i please get a refresher on the points of what to do and what not to do when taking his cum?

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RE: Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 3:59:02 PM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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Status: offline 		Here's a handy dandy website with lots of tips!

http://www.dontspitswallow.com/

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RE: Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 4:23:47 PM   
grlneedstolearn


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Status: offline 		Thank you BRNaughtyAngel. Yea with him he wants to cum inside my mouth and for me to show him that i did take all of it before i swallow. How would i get over that part?

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RE: Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 4:39:09 PM   
mmb1


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Status: offline 		I didn't know there was a method to this............seems like it would be natural for me, if he desired that. 

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RE: Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 4:43:27 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Well with my play partners the first time i forced myself to after the first one you realize it is not that bad and you get used to it.  You may just have to force yourself the first time  but once you get that part over with i think you will enjoy it.  Not the taste (not that its all that bad)but the act i know i love it with my Master.

Matt's littleone

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RE: Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 4:47:21 PM   
fairerthanshe


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Status: offline 		Greetings girl,

It seems to me you have decided that this is something you need to get over rather than anticipating it in a good way.  Imagine instead how wonderful it will be and how pleased he will be when you open your mouth and show him his hot cum all over your tongue.  Make it something playful rather than something horrid, and you might surprise yourself and find out you really enjoy it.

well wishes ~ fairer than she


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RE: Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 4:50:31 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you find that you can't swallow all of his load you can always do this

< Message edited by Aileen68 -- 8/8/2007 4:51:02 PM >

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RE: Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 4:51:28 PM   
fairerthanshe


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RE: Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 5:00:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: grlneedstolearn
He then proceeded to tell me that come Monday that he will have me swallow his cum. Now i've heard and seen things about how to get over it mentally and physically. i've also heard of ways that will make swallowing it easier. Can i please get a refresher on the points of what to do and what not to do when taking his cum?
Thank you


Since i am addicted to cum and have always swallowed and licked-up every drop i could get, i have no idea how to make it "easier" or to "get over it mentally and physically".  i love the taste and i try to get as much of it in my mouth and down my throat as often as i can.  i can't even imagine struggling with swallowing cum.  i hope i never find out what that's like.  Hopefully, others will be able to offer you some useful help.  Good luck.
 
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RE: Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 5:13:36 PM   
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RE: Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 5:32:53 PM   
freyjasdottir


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Status: offline 		Maybe you can request that he cums first before you suck him hard and take it from there, I know with my Lord its not as thick with the subsequent orgasms which is how I did it the first time.  I also got used to it first by licking it off of his stomach before I got down to business.  Of course, each person is different, just relax and if you make an effort even if it doesn't pan out quite the way you would both like it to it isn't the end of the world.

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RE: Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 5:45:19 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		My god, I deal with cum better than some of the women here!  Couple of women I know just get all gooey if I kiss them while they have a mouth full of cum, licked it up off their faces and breasts and let it drip from my mouth into theirs, ooh, I just thought of a brand new thing to do OH SHE IS GOING TO LOVE THIS ONE!!!

And no, I am NOT going to tell you!

Tell the guy to drink lots of water the day before, DON'T drink beer or alcohol and if you can, get him to drink pineapple juice a lot.

Soon you will be lapping it up out of a bowl like a good girl should!

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RE: Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 5:52:41 PM   
Cyntilating


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Status: offline 		[onto my question. i was talking with my Dom the other day and i made him cum, ]
 
Grlneeds,
  that must have been one heck of a conversation
 
You did not go into why or what makes you feel that this is something you " have to get over it mentally and physically" < as you posted...So I'm not sure what part you are having the problem with ..
If its the idea of doing it > mindset : )  decide to love it and really get into it...just decide its something to explore and enjoy..yanno, have an openmind as well as an open throat..
If its the taste?or texture? >  the further back in your mouth/throat he cums the less you taste...
If its the  sensation ?> mmmmm.... ohh excuse me  LOL...well..>  again mindset..it is a part of him you're taking into you ...<<if that helps...
 
Someone with a penis may be able to tell you more about "what to do" while he's cumming...
But I can tell you what I was told >  when ejaculation begins hold your mouth and tongue still..too much stimulation at that moment can be more painful than "helpful"..
But that may just be one (my) mans opinion. Perhaps ask yours : )
could be another stimulating conversation...
 
 
  
 

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RE: Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 5:53:17 PM   
mmb1


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RE: Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 5:58:17 PM   
grlneedstolearn


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RE: Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 5:58:20 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: grlneedstolearn

Thank you BRNaughtyAngel. Yea with him he wants to cum inside my mouth and for me to show him that i did take all of it before i swallow. How would i get over that part?


Well as others have said, don't think of it as getting over it - although I understand for some it may take some getting used to.  I happen to love my Masters cum, no matter where He chooses to deposit it.   And I love to lick Him clean.

Get yourself mentally and emotionally worked up over the thrill of worshipping his magnificent cock, and how thrilled you'll be for him to give you his precious cum.  If his cock is down your throat or deep in your mouth, you may not be able to keep from swallowing his cum before he gets to see it.  What he can do is take his cock out of your mouth just before cumming, let you open your mouth and stick out your tongue and he can cum on it.

Remember that attitude is what is most important.  If you work yourself up to feel that it won't taste good, then it's probably not gonna taste good.

Also, as Michael pointed out, his diet leading up to the big event can affect the taste.  Pineapple juice..... good stuff.

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RE: Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 6:01:16 PM   
mmb1


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Status: offline 		Still sounds good to me :) I agree, I think it is a "gift" and really always thought of it this way, anything that comes from him, is a gift :)

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RE: Swallowing Cum - 8/8/2007 6:03:53 PM   
grlneedstolearn


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Cyntilating

[onto my question. i was talking with my Dom the other day and i made him cum, ]
 
Grlneeds,
  that must have been one heck of a conversation
 
You did not go into why or what makes you feel that this is something you " have to get over it mentally and physically" < as you posted...So I'm not sure what part you are having the problem with ..
If its the idea of doing it > mindset : )  decide to love it and really get into it...just decide its something to explore and enjoy..yanno, have an openmind as well as an open throat..
If its the taste?or texture? >  the further back in your mouth/throat he cums the less you taste...
If its the  sensation ?> mmmmm.... ohh excuse me  LOL...well..>  again mindset..it is a part of him you're taking into you ...<<if that helps...
 
Someone with a penis may be able to tell you more about "what to do" while he's cumming...
But I can tell you what I was told >  when ejaculation begins hold your mouth and tongue still..too much stimulation at that moment can be more painful than "helpful"..
But that may just be one (my) mans opinion. Perhaps ask yours : )
could be another stimulating conversation...
 
 
  
 


It was a great interesting conversation . For me it's not something that i have to do, but rather something that i wish to do and experience. It's definitely the mindset that i have that i may not be able to relax when he does cum and that i'm going to mess it up. Hope this clarifies a little more for you

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