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orgasm control - 8/9/2007 4:28:54 AM

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this is the first time i write here, but i would like to know how much orgasm control is important for the Master and why?

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RE: orgasm control - 8/9/2007 4:55:02 AM

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For which master?....it would depend on who you are talking about wouldn't it....

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RE: orgasm control - 8/9/2007 5:01:01 AM

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i would like to know different opinions, so basically every Master will respond differently

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RE: orgasm control - 8/9/2007 6:17:52 AM

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Orgasm denial is fine sometimes, not so fine other times.

*wanker?* My radar is isn't sure yet.

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RE: orgasm control - 8/9/2007 6:20:24 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: romantic5

this is the first time i write here, but i would like to know how much orgasm control is important for the Master and why?

thank you

it may or may not be important, but if one can direct an orgasm, especially training the 'hard cummers' --it can't be all bad.
orgasm control does not necessarily mean orgasm denial, tho it can.

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RE: orgasm control - 8/9/2007 7:46:44 AM

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Some need it an practice it daily.

Some couldn't care less.

And someone is in every place in between.

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RE: orgasm control - 8/9/2007 8:16:18 AM

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Control is different then denial.
To have one "cum" on command is a nice thing, it however is a different "orgasum" apparently then one caused by a toy or one caused by sex.

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RE: orgasm control - 8/9/2007 9:44:37 AM

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RE: orgasm control - 8/9/2007 9:46:39 AM

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i would like to know how much orgasm control is important for the Master and why?

For me, orgasm control is another way I can exert control over a submissive/slave. I find it particularly appealing mainly because orgasms aren't very easy to control, comparitively. So it is a huge power exchange when someone takes the time to learn to control their orgasms and then turns over that control to me.

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RE: orgasm control - 8/9/2007 11:05:25 AM

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Not that important to me at all. The more orgasms the better.

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RE: orgasm control - 8/11/2007 12:23:56 PM

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Mine doesn't go in for orgasm denial. He's much more into forced orgasms. He'd rather I come rubbing up against him half a times daily begging for his touch. He likes having me cum easily and frequently for him. Of course there are days when we don't get anything done, but that's fine by him.

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RE: orgasm control - 8/12/2007 5:54:04 AM

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There would only be a few reasons I would not use it for a slave of mine. Otherwise, it's part of the deal.

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RE: orgasm control - 8/12/2007 12:30:09 PM

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I've never felt the NEED to prove to anyone how deep my ownership of My Pet runs. Not her, not me, and certainly not anyone outside of that. When she knows I'm proud of her, she doesn't NEED me to say it. That said, both are cery enjoyable. I don't practive orgasm denial (unless it has a unique lesson, it isn't a part of her discipline) because I simply don't like the idea. I do, however, require her to get my permission to cum. Just like most other practices, it's to remind her that she belongs to me, and so does her body, something we both enjoy. Not her pussy, my pussy toy. Most of her discipline is a reminder of her love and devotion, or an opportunity to show me that she remembers her training, and place. So many acts fall under that category, but it's as specific as I can get.

Other than that, some guys have paraphilias concerning orgasms. I have more of an objectification bag. =)

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RE: orgasm control - 8/12/2007 12:40:56 PM

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It is one of my Master's key ways of entertaining himself with me. He controls them, he denies them, he demands them, he holds them on edge, etc. They belong to him and will only occur when he orders them. For us, there is an extremely strong connection when I have them for him. It's not simply about the sex, or about making me feel good. It's about control, power, transferring energy, and my bond to him.

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RE: orgasm control - 8/12/2007 2:24:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: romantic5

this is the first time i write here, but i would like to know how much orgasm control is important for the Master and why?

On the note of orgasm denial (unclear if we're talking denial or control)

Simple. For me, I love it. I love watching the look on her face...the longing in her cries... as she thrashes about teased and tormented on the edge of release. So....mmmmmm...satisfying *recalls a delicious girl he teased a few weeks back...lovely*...

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RE: orgasm control - 8/12/2007 2:30:36 PM

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Whoops, this is regarding Masters....

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RE: orgasm control - 8/12/2007 3:34:42 PM

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i honestly couldnt tell you i was wondering the same thing.to me maybe it's their way of being in control of everything when it comes to us something about our will being handed over to them

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RE: orgasm control - 8/12/2007 4:13:24 PM

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Hi,
Hello,
From my own experience: my first practiced orgasm denial on me.

I have always been easily orgasmic, multi x, and lots of ways. No special effort by the man needed. If he does- what he wants - i'll follow. ( put delicately)

When he forbid it- I began to NOT be able to at all. Went from mutli + to agonizing inability and his disapointment. The training - which he meant to be a fun tease - backfired 100%

He realized we are all different and he went the other route - pushed me for more! IT WORKED!

Upped my ability ( eegads!) made me explode over and over.. until I had to beg ... until collapse

He got a lot more entertainment, satisfaction, power - I felt healthy and whole and in awe of him.

Another way to control -

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RE: orgasm control - 8/13/2007 3:46:28 AM

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I enjoy controlling My precious's orgasms.. why? Because it's another aspect that I can control.

I love denying her.. denying her... denying her... letting her cum once.. denying her... denier her.. then forced orgasm, one right after the other.. guaranteed to leave a wet spot the size of Kansas.

Lately, I've been forcing/allowing her to cum while I'm doing other things to her.. saran wrap over her face, slapping her tits, etc., which creates even more potent climaxes for her.

There's just something about turning something "good" into something "painful".. :-D

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RE: orgasm control - 8/13/2007 9:57:24 AM

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it's not an area my Master has an interest in at all, not controlling the female orgasm, and not the female orgasm itself. He wants the sole focus to be on him and his pleasure and needs.

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