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What is the "top" portion of your relationship called?


Master
  30% (9)
Mistress
  10% (3)
Daddy
  16% (5)
Mommy
  0% (0)
Lord
  6% (2)
Lady
  0% (0)
Sir
  20% (6)
Maam
  6% (2)
Bastard
  6% (2)
Bitch
  3% (1)


Total Votes : 30
(last vote on : 2/4/2008 3:03:45 AM)
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What is the "top" portion of your relationshi... - 8/9/2007 6:21:04 AM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		So what do you call your top? I am sure there are more options but they only gave me space for 10...just thought it would be interesting.

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RE: What is the "top" portion of your relatio... - 8/9/2007 6:24:47 AM   
camille65


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Status: offline 		Aw my option wasn't there lol. I call him by his first name, in my mind however it is sometimes master & sometimes daddy. He does prefer being called by his name though, so that is what I do!

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RE: What is the "top" portion of your relatio... - 8/9/2007 6:34:08 AM   
SunNMoon


Posts: 1058
Joined: 3/18/2007
Status: offline 		me!  In other words my first name or some other really  cute nickname.

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RE: What is the "top" portion of your relatio... - 8/9/2007 6:37:34 AM   
favesclava


Posts: 1608
Joined: 2/15/2007
Status: offline 		Master , Daddy, His name when in public. in my culture is ok to say Papi which is Daddy in spanish. so around my family and friends i call Him Papi.

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RE: What is the "top" portion of your relatio... - 8/9/2007 6:38:36 AM   
earthycouple


Posts: 4462
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Status: offline 		When I am in a relationship I usually am called Mistress.  For playmates and new aquaintances I prefer Donna and if they simply can't wrap their mind around the informality I'm ok with Ms. or Miss to start.



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RE: What is the "top" portion of your relatio... - 8/9/2007 7:06:29 AM   
MadameMarque


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Status: offline 		Different honorifics, from different people, according to what seems right, coming from that person, to address me.  I can enjoy Madame (with the French emphasis on the second syllable), Ma'am, Miss.  I hope someday to enjoy some titles of other languages, such as forms of address in Japanese, French, Korean,...? 
 
P.S. - And regarding my name, this is an opportunity to say that, just as the word for a female dominant, "domme," is pronounced without the "e," - "dom,"
the last name, Marque, is pronounced "mark," not "markee" - it is not the the word "marquee," like the billboard, outside a theater :P

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RE: What is the "top" portion of your relatio... - 8/9/2007 7:07:10 AM   
DarkWriter


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Status: offline 		I don't find being locked into a single label particularly useful. Therefore, I generally work on a kind of sliding scale of formality with Master at the one end and Daddy at the other. How I address my slave and how she is to address me is an indicator to her of what is going on at the moment.

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RE: What is the "top" portion of your relatio... - 8/9/2007 7:12:11 AM   
GhitaAmati


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Status: offline 		heh...I wanna know who clicked "bitch"...too funny....

I actually call my Sir, "Boss"....crackes people up around here...."yea Boss"" whatever you say Boss""be right there Boss"....anyone who doesnt know us, thinks im being really disrespectful, but its the honorific he chose and its become our own inside joke now.

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RE: What is the "top" portion of your relatio... - 8/9/2007 7:50:19 AM   
leakylee


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Status: offline 		missing..

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RE: What is the "top" portion of your relatio... - 8/9/2007 8:54:29 AM   
earthycouple


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MadameMarque


the last name, Marque, is pronounced "mark," not "markee" - it is not the the word "marquee," like the billboard, outside a theater :P


I was always thinking it was more like MarKay  with a French spin....the accent on the center/end of the word.  Not mark not markee.  goes to show what I know.

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RE: What is the "top" portion of your relatio... - 8/9/2007 9:17:06 AM   
DarkWriter


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Status: offline 		Very cool! I like that.

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RE: What is the "top" portion of your relatio... - 8/9/2007 9:18:07 AM   
michaelOfGeorgia


Posts: 4253
Status: offline 		i didn't see "Hey, You" on the list...LOL

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RE: What is the "top" portion of your relatio... - 8/9/2007 9:46:23 AM   
beargonewild


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Status: offline 		The Dom who's my mentor requires me to call him Sir. I also have a boy and he refers to me as Daddy.

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RE: What is the "top" portion of your relatio... - 8/9/2007 10:16:16 AM   
SunNMoon


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quote:

ORIGINAL: GhitaAmati

heh...I wanna know who clicked "bitch"...too funny....



That was me  I've always liked that word, something empowering about it.

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I actually call my Sir, "Boss"....crackes people up around here...."yea Boss"" whatever you say Boss""be right there Boss"....anyone who doesnt know us, thinks im being really disrespectful, but its the honorific he chose and its become our own inside joke now.


I think that's sweet. Now if I'd run into with out knowing about the D/s stuff, I'd have though that was you both just being silly. And silly is good.

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RE: What is the "top" portion of your relatio... - 8/9/2007 10:21:42 AM   
DomandPrincess


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Status: offline 		Between, us in our home and in the presence of our lifestyle friends, Daddy.  In front of vanilla friends, family, or co workers, Sweetie or his Name.  But i love to say the word "Daddy" and hear him reply "yes, slut?"

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RE: What is the "top" portion of your relatio... - 8/9/2007 10:25:38 AM   
michaelOfGeorgia


Posts: 4253
Status: offline 		ok, ok...i made a choice...jeeze. where did the laughter go?

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RE: What is the "top" portion of your relatio... - 8/9/2007 1:34:50 PM   
proudsub


Posts: 6142
Joined: 1/31/2004
From: Washington
Status: offline 		His first name.

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RE: What is the "top" portion of your relatio... - 8/9/2007 2:38:10 PM   
EvilCrimeLord


Posts: 184
Joined: 7/27/2007
From: FakeVolcano
Status: offline 		Errrm Upper relationship. No that don't sound right.

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RE: What is the "top" portion of your relatio... - 8/9/2007 2:39:26 PM   
EvilCrimeLord


Posts: 184
Joined: 7/27/2007
From: FakeVolcano
Status: offline 		Tick box options could have been used here to submit multiple choices.

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RE: What is the "top" portion of your relatio... - 8/9/2007 2:52:04 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Joined: 2/5/2007
From: Chicago, IL
Status: offline 		in this particular order - Daddy, Sir and Dr. *insert last name* (if i'm calling his office)

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