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RE: reminder of owership - 8/10/2007 4:15:55 AM   
AquaticSub


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has anyone any idea what i could wear to remind me that i am now owned by my Master?  it will have to be very vanilla looking, but must remind me who i am


thanks xx


Why do you need to be reminded? Are you likely to forget?

If you want a token to wear that is symbolic of your relationship, talk to him, not us.

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RE: reminder of owership - 8/10/2007 4:58:54 AM   
LVpet


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Status: offline 		Thank you Aquatic!  I was thinking the same thing.

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RE: reminder of owership - 8/10/2007 1:21:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		Bluebell;
Somehow you have the cart before the horse. Instead of you deciding what you should wear to show your ownership, your Master is the one to decide what He considers as His sign of ownership. It's kind of like if you went out and bought an engagement ring so that can say you're engaged, but your intended fiance doesn't have a say about it. He's the one who has to claim ownership.
Talk to your Master.
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RE: reminder of owership - 8/11/2007 10:21:23 AM   
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RE: reminder of owership - 8/11/2007 4:53:50 PM   
Drifa


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Status: offline 		We carefully selected a Celtic knotwork finger ring. The loops and knots are reminders of what ties bind me to my Lady. That the interlace is endless signifies the life committment.

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RE: reminder of owership - 8/11/2007 5:02:28 PM   
Vampyrefledgling


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Status: offline 		In a previous relationship (granted it was in the vanilla world, but it might still apply), my boyfriend was insistent I wear his dogtags, which I did happily. Strange, even before I was fully aware of my submissive nature, I wanted to be 'collared....'

But the others are right, speak with your Master, this is his decision to make.

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RE: reminder of owership - 8/11/2007 5:33:40 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: bluebell

has anyone any idea what i could wear to remind me that i am now owned by my Master?  it will have to be very vanilla looking, but must remind me who i am


thanks xx


Why not ask him if there is something you could wear that would be fitting in everyday society that could symbolize Him and your relationship with him?

The very fact that he chooses it will be significant in of itself.  Soon after Kyra becoming mine, I took her to shopping and purchased a necklace with a small charm on it.  Both of which I choose.  I put it on her and told her this symbolized my our commitment to each other and our relationship.... she rarely takes it off.



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RE: reminder of owership - 8/12/2007 12:09:04 AM   
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Why do you need to be reminded? Are you likely to forget?

If you want a token to wear that is symbolic of your relationship, talk to him, not us.


  That's exactly what I was thinking when I read the OP.   I can't imagine needing to be reminded that the Kaptin owns me. 

On the other hand, there are certain actions and items that do help me remain centered, balanced and focused, but they have nothing to do with His ownership of me.


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RE: reminder of owership - 8/12/2007 10:13:51 AM   
blmtrsne


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Status: offline 		My slave (000-733-561) wears my name, but aftherwoods we discovered www.slaveregister.com. You get your personal registernumber and it's barcode, so you can wear that and incorporate it in a collar, the ring round your car-keys, a ring, your homescreen for your GSM, a tatou etc... It's anonymous for those who don't know.

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RE: reminder of owership - 8/12/2007 10:25:33 AM   
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Not to be snarky, but why do you need to be reminded? 
~edited to add~ i shoulda read more, the question had already been asked. 

< Message edited by angelic -- 8/12/2007 10:26:42 AM >

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RE: reminder of owership - 8/12/2007 2:01:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Why do you need to be reminded? Are you likely to forget?

If you want a token to wear that is symbolic of your relationship, talk to him, not us.


I think in some cases, it is not a reminder because the person will forget, it is a physical symbollic relic or ritual that may cause one to occupy a certain frame of mind which is appealing in ones submission.

This is why some do daily rituals, or wear collars, or certain articles of clothing or jewelry.  Not because they will forget that they are owned, but because they find comfort in such a "reminder" of place.  There is a particular working collar I have, that when I come home from work after needing to be "on" all day, in charge of people and projects, responsible for a $6 million budget, that when I kick my shoes off and snap that collar into place, I breathe a sigh of relief, feeling his presence abound in me, and I am reacquainted with my center and purpose.  Not that I lost sight of them during the day, but the chaos of the day can go away and I can relax in who and what I am.

It's why my own slave collar is fondled and tugged on during the day - when things become so hectic I can grab it and breathe that sigh of relief.  Some call this a reminder, because it's the easiest way to refer to it.  I doubt the OP actually forgets who she belongs to.

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RE: reminder of owership - 8/12/2007 3:15:05 PM   
littleone0472


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Status: offline 		not that i need reminding as i carry my collar with me in my purse all the time when it is not around my neck per Master's instruction... but hell if you're looking for suggestions.. i have one word for you..

Tiffany's!!!

i would never say no to one of those little blue boxes!! and i don't even care what the question was.. LOL

esmy

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RE: reminder of owership - 8/12/2007 4:57:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		Nice to know someone else is finally realizing the benefit of Tiffany's after all my years of support.

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RE: reminder of owership - 8/13/2007 9:32:36 AM   
bluebell


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Status: offline 		what great ideas... thank you all for your input, it is greatly appreciated xxx

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RE: reminder of owership - 8/13/2007 11:03:29 AM   
Dddylilgrl


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Status: offline 		its a really pretty necklace. :)

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RE: reminder of owership - 8/13/2007 5:09:10 PM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Why do you need to be reminded? Are you likely to forget?

If you want a token to wear that is symbolic of your relationship, talk to him, not us.


I think in some cases, it is not a reminder because the person will forget, it is a physical symbollic relic or ritual that may cause one to occupy a certain frame of mind which is appealing in ones submission.

This is why some do daily rituals, or wear collars, or certain articles of clothing or jewelry.  Not because they will forget that they are owned, but because they find comfort in such a "reminder" of place.  There is a particular working collar I have, that when I come home from work after needing to be "on" all day, in charge of people and projects, responsible for a $6 million budget, that when I kick my shoes off and snap that collar into place, I breathe a sigh of relief, feeling his presence abound in me, and I am reacquainted with my center and purpose.  Not that I lost sight of them during the day, but the chaos of the day can go away and I can relax in who and what I am.

It's why my own slave collar is fondled and tugged on during the day - when things become so hectic I can grab it and breathe that sigh of relief.  Some call this a reminder, because it's the easiest way to refer to it.  I doubt the OP actually forgets who she belongs to.


Of course. Symbols are nice. I have a ring on my right hand that I wear every day. It's a claddagh, one of a pair that we bought each other. It reminds me every day of his love for me, our relationship, and with that his ownership of me. It's a lovely thing and I do cherish it.

But I can't just buy that. It's not something I can do by myself because this isn't my relationship. It's our relationship and something that symbolizes us needs to come from the both of us. If she wants something to symbolize her relationship, she and her owner need to talk and find something that is theirs.

< Message edited by AquaticSub -- 8/13/2007 5:12:17 PM >

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RE: reminder of owership - 8/14/2007 6:49:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		at the craft/hobby stores they sell the "create your own choker" in the jewelry section - it's a thin metal choker that clips in the back - and it's thin enough to add one of the nifty charms that they have available - so you still have a 'collar' that looks like a collar, but is acceptable in the vanilla world, and you and Your Master can pick out a charm that symbolizes your relationship.  Not only that, but it comes in a set of silver and gold colored, it's not expensive, and there's a huge variety of charms.  quick fix, not recommended for long term.

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RE: reminder of owership - 8/14/2007 6:58:24 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Master is going to buy me a chain i can wear all the time.  Not that i need the symbol but Master wants me to have it.  It is not like i am going to forget who owns my heart and body.

Matt's littleone

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RE: reminder of owership - 8/14/2007 7:58:17 AM   
abda


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Status: offline 		When I was owend, I had silver  chain necklace that had "s" hanging from the chain. When people at work would ask me what the "s" meant, I told them it meant "sweetheart". 

After we parted ways, I would reach up to touch my neck and forget that I was no longer owned.

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RE: reminder of owership - 8/14/2007 8:17:25 AM   
feastie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: bluebell

has anyone any idea what i could wear to remind me that i am now owned by my Master?  it will have to be very vanilla looking, but must remind me who i am

thanks xx


The first question I'd have to ask is whether your Master suggested this reminder for you?  If this is not his suggestion or idea, then you should really talk to him about your need for this.  If it is his desire, then it's something he needs to have a hand in choosing.

If so, what precisely did he say?  Why does he feel you need this?

I was once made to wear something that would remind my body that it was owned by another.  At first, it was a simple ace bandage, wrapped around my waist, tight enough that I knew it was there constantly, but not tight enough to restrict my breathing or movement.  We changed it however, because it became a problem, as it constantly requried adjustment.  We then went to a silver belly chain with his initials hanging from it.  It worked just as well.  Take into consideration as well, that he kept me in a constant state of arousal, this was simply to add to that state.  That was its actual purpose.

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