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Smythe -> RE: Consensually against your will (8/16/2007 5:45:52 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Aimtoplease101
If he's really submissive and masochistic, and therefore actually enjoys being made to submit to things that might be painful/ difficult, etc., does it still count? Or does his enjoyment neutralize the Domme's enjoyment?
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Sort of like the old joke-- the masochist says, "are you going to whip me," and the sadist says, "no."
Regards, ATP
What are ya, ATP, a lawyer? :)
In my admittedly light hearted example, my sub enjoyed this dynamic. (ordering him what I considered to be gross food in a restaurant).
However, what I was more serously curious about is whether other dominants actually enjoy making their submissives do something they really don't like.
Personally, I have experienced this pleasure on rare occasions but for the most part I thrive on what I call mutual but opposite pleasures.
It is my sense, and others on this thread have said as much, that many submissives enjoy being stretched in this way and their participation in an activity that they really don't like becomes a welcome challenge and a way to prove their devotion.
Smythe
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