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CherokeeRose - 8/10/2007 9:23:48 AM

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I would just like to say that if you follow the "three P's" - Polite, patient, persistant - you can meet wonderful people here.

A few months ago, I started corresponding with Lady CherokeeRose in Columbus, GA, and met her soon thereafter. This past weekend, she took me formally into consideration and started training me.

Without CollarMe, I may never have met this wonderful Woman! Thank you!

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RE: CherokeeRose - 8/10/2007 9:33:49 AM

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You are lucky then and I envy you. I've found more fakes and wannabes here then any other site. Seems they all play their silly kiddie games and think it's okay to insult people who have never done anything to them at all. If it wasn't for a small number of good people I'd have closed my account and written this place off as a site where the immature pea-brains outnumber the good 10 to 1.
I wish you much happiness with your Lady. I hope you know how hard it is to find someone real and good.

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RE: CherokeeRose - 8/10/2007 9:41:51 AM

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i'm surprised She even responded. although i've only sent Her a couple of messages (friendly greetings and a welcome) when She first joined. i figured She wasn't seriously seeking. i, too, am in Columbus. but only one person from Columbus communicates with me. and that's Ms JeanmyerGA. at least there's one friendly person on CM from Columbus.

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RE: CherokeeRose - 8/10/2007 9:44:58 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

i'm surprised She even responded. although i've only sent Her a couple of messages (friendly greetings and a welcome) when She first joined. i figured She wasn't seriously seeking. i, too, am in Columbus. but only one person from Columbus communicates with me. and that's Ms JeanmyerGA. at least there's one friendly person on CM from Columbus.

Sour grapes, Michael?

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RE: CherokeeRose - 8/10/2007 9:48:08 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkDesirestx

You are lucky then and I envy you. I've found more fakes and wannabes here then any other site. Seems they all play their silly kiddie games and think it's okay to insult people who have never done anything to them at all. If it wasn't for a small number of good people I'd have closed my account and written this place off as a site where the immature pea-brains outnumber the good 10 to 1.
I wish you much happiness with your Lady. I hope you know how hard it is to find someone real and good.

Yes, I know how hard it is. I was looking for that spark with someone for several years. Its ok though because it just means that when the opportunities come along, I try all the harder.

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RE: CherokeeRose - 8/10/2007 9:48:13 AM

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not really, just a bit disillusioned and disappointed that others here in town that friendly or even that courteous. i at least reply to those that i know don't click to at least tell them so. but hey...that's just me.

<now returning to my silliness mode and moving on to something fun...bu-bye>

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RE: CherokeeRose - 8/10/2007 9:54:35 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

not really, just a bit disillusioned and disappointed that others here in town that friendly or even that courteous. i at least reply to those that i know don't click to at least tell them so. but hey...that's just me.

<now returning to my silliness mode and moving on to something fun...bu-bye>

I'll have to defer this to My Lady as to how she may have been "not friendly or courteous" although I believe I know her well enough to know that it's not in her nature to be rude or discourteous without intense provocation.

I still say it's sour grapes though

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RE: CherokeeRose - 8/10/2007 10:03:51 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkDesirestx

You are lucky then and I envy you. I've found more fakes and wannabes here then any other site. Seems they all play their silly kiddie games and think it's okay to insult people who have never done anything to them at all. If it wasn't for a small number of good people I'd have closed my account and written this place off as a site where the immature pea-brains outnumber the good 10 to 1.
I wish you much happiness with your Lady. I hope you know how hard it is to find someone real and good.

Not really looking to go on your "block" list but i wanted to offer up some constructive criticism...and this is only my point of view, please take what you want from it and disregard the rest....

The post above comes off as very bitter. i did look at your profile because i wanted to know more about how/why someone could be so bitter and i have to tell you, wow, if i were a Dom i'd sail right by your profile.

i don't know the particulars, maybe someone pissed in your cheerios one time too many...but that profile is no way to actually attract a potential partner...and if that's what you choose to put up there (and it's your choice, it's neither right nor wrong) then i think this may be the reason you're attracting all the insincere attention.

Again, just my opinion, you can take it or leave it...seriously hate to see a submissive have so much trouble finding someone and just wanted to try to lend a little help.

Peace.

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RE: CherokeeRose - 8/10/2007 10:26:32 AM

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To my boy - as you well know, I am equally delighted with this turn of events :-)

To Michael - Truly - in what way was I ever unfriendly or not courteous to you? You have emailed me not a couple of times, but probably closer 100 or more messages in the last 6 months or so. Most were fluff one liners, and many I responded to (when in fact I get a lot of mail that I don't respond to just due to time limitations on my part).

Yes, I know you wanted to meet me. For a number of reasons I was not interested in meeting you. If you feel that makes me "not serious" about the lifestyle, so be it - this is a website, not "the lifestyle" or even "life". If you actually read my emails and even just my profile, you know I'm a woman who believes in experiencing life, not wishing it away on dreams that I take no action to make happen. Perhaps there's a lesson in that for you.

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RE: CherokeeRose - 8/10/2007 10:39:26 AM

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<public apology in progress>

after carefully reviewing my past email activity, i find i am in error and must humbly apologize to You, Ms CherokeeRose. i find that i had, in fact, gotten confused on who i had corresponded with and made an embarrasing mistake. for this i am truly sorry.

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RE: CherokeeRose - 8/10/2007 1:43:28 PM

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Actually, I changed my profile after a couple of subhumans began harrassing me about what I had on there.
The following is what they didn't like:

Looking for my Alpha Wolf
I'm a very good girl living in a small town. Growing up it took me a long time to figure out who I am and today I believe that I'm a submissive woman who longs to find her Alpha Male. My friends consider me a good listener and often ask for my opinions on situations. I'm a bit of a loner and at first I'm shy, but I do warm up quickly. I enjoy quiet times and being with small groups of friends. I enjoy reading and playing video games. I like anime and reading about paranormal events. I enjoy going for long walks or window shopping. I don't always buy things I like looking for bargains. I'm an average girl who loves all things related to technology.
I'm trying for the last time to reach out to find this male of my dreams. I like men to be real men strong, protectors, the kind of man I will feel safe with. I am searching for that Knight I dreamed of as a small child. The one who will change my world and sweep me off my feet. I want a man who knows what he wants and he goes out to get it. For this man I would gladly kneel and deny him nothing. Where are you my Alpha Wolf. I long for you to command my heart and own me completely.

So yes, if I sound ticked off and hurt it's because after harassing me for two days. I am at the point that instead of looking for someone I'll just accept being alone. I can't be hurt in any way, shape or form if I keep the walls up high and not let anyone in again and no I'm not putting you on my block list. You aren't the one who said this:
You should be looking for a wolf. Dogs like You are in the same family.
just trying to be friendly. Sorry you got beat with an ugly stick. A cow would be in your family also or mabey a pig would be a match for you. Good luck at the zoo.

'alpha male single wolf, mr mucho macho? whaaaaaaat? guess what? when i lived in west oakland, if u had a tommy gun, or say a BAR , that would make u like the big dog n the whole neigher bor hood. so guess u are looking for like some clown, with shaved head, cause he is going bald? and stupid wannabe goatee? and the glare? sounds like u are loo king for a buser and bully to me, should be pretty easy to find here.

So, as you can see with stuff like this being sent to me all day long. I no longer wish to bare my heart and soul to anyone. I have learned that will get me hurt beyond repair.

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RE: CherokeeRose - 8/10/2007 2:15:48 PM

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To Me, your original profile shows a great deal of who you are as a person, what you're seeking, and certainly intelligence. Yes, there are a great number of sh*theads on this site who get their rocks off by insulting and trying to intimidate others. Those idiots are here just as there are everywhere else; but there are also a large number of wonderful people on this site, both Dominant and submissive. My 2 cents may not mean much to you, but for what it's worth, here it is.... put your original profile back up, block the sh*theads who respond, and give your Wolf a chance to find you... living behind walls gets mighty lonely, no matter who you are. Best of luck to you. *huggs*

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RE: CherokeeRose - 8/11/2007 2:27:06 AM

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i agree with BotanicalMiss...your original profile is heartfelt and wonderful. For what it is worth, don't let the idiots get to you, they're on EVERY site, unfortunately, you can't get away from them...but, what you *can* do is block them and let your Wolf find you based on the words that show who you really are *smile*

you really should consider putting your original profile wording back up...

Karma's funny...the ones that are hurtful will find that out eventually. you ARE better than them....

Best of luck to you DDtx *smile*

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