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Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine look ... - 8/11/2007 3:17:33 PM   
SweetyBoy


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Status: offline 		May I ask Ladies if they prefer more feminine look subs or masculine look?

I see following options here :-)
  1. Feminine subs for service, and masculine men for sex
  2. Masculine subs for service, feminine subs for sex
  3. Feminine subs for service, no sex
  4. Masculine subs for service, no sex


which one is closest to you?

I just want to know what i should prepare in relationship with a Lady :-)

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RE: Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine l... - 8/11/2007 3:26:11 PM   
PrincessinLatex


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Status: offline 		I prefer all of the above at certian times depending on my mood.

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RE: Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine l... - 8/11/2007 3:28:58 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		I prefer my males look femenine, and my females look femenine as well. The look of the boy or girl does not have any impact on whether or not I have sex with them. Ther personality and where our relationship goes influneces that. I have known very few masculine boys thta I have found attractive, and I dont really like butchy women.

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RE: Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine l... - 8/11/2007 4:12:09 PM   
MissIsis


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RE: Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine l... - 8/11/2007 4:16:27 PM   
iammachine


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Status: offline 		Diff strokes, diff folks.

I have a soft spot for CDs when it comes to service. Historically, my sexual partners have been very feminine and "pretty", though I think that is more happenstance than a hard preference. Of late, I've been more drawn to more traditionally "masculine" men - ie not a waif, a little muscular is definitely good, strong features. Similarly, I've been developing a taste for "bois", though I still enjoy my girly girls too. It's all a matter of my mood, and hugely dependant on *who* the person is and how I relate to them, moreso than their appearance.

On the other hand, from a D/s standpoint, nothing gets me going like a good bit of irony. I'm not a particularly big woman (well... I'm curvy but not an amazon), and physically I'm not very imposing. As such, my being able to take down and control someone that is very masculine and maybe even a little formidable just makes me giggle like a schoolgirl. Little me, who sings songs about the see no evil monkey on her panties (I love those boy shorts) versus the big scary 6'6" leather daddy.... and he's bending like a reed. It's good times.

Oh, and as for service vs sex: two different animals entirely. Service, anyone that I like, really. They might be femme, they  might be butch, they might be average. Sexually... eh... well, I'm a born again virgin, it's been over two years, so.


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RE: Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine l... - 8/11/2007 4:44:10 PM   
aidan


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ORIGINAL: iammachine
Little me, who sings songs about the see no evil monkey on her panties (I love those boy shorts)


Totally off-topic, but you have piqued my interest. I've gotta hear one. ;)


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RE: Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine l... - 8/11/2007 5:57:00 PM   
queencaliph


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RE: Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine l... - 8/11/2007 6:11:11 PM   
iammachine


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quote:

ORIGINAL: aidan

quote:

ORIGINAL: iammachine
Little me, who sings songs about the see no evil monkey on her panties (I love those boy shorts)


Totally off-topic, but you have piqued my interest. I've gotta hear one. ;)



Eh, it's really not so exciting. I have a pair of boy shorts with a see-no-evil monkey on the hip. It's a reminder that no matter how intense a scene might be, that life isn't all too serious. A friend of mine employs a similar tactic, by making all of his girl wear hello kitty panties. :)

I've been known to frolick around, slide the hip of my bottom (skirt, pants, whatever) down just enough to flash some monkey and in a sing-songy way say "I have a monkey! He sees no evil!!!" and then go back to giggling like a school girl.

And people say I'm intimidating, I'd really like to know how and why.


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RE: Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine l... - 8/11/2007 6:35:33 PM   
Lashra


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RE: Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine l... - 8/11/2007 8:02:23 PM   
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RE: Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine l... - 8/11/2007 8:23:49 PM   
Grlwithboy


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And I like girls butch and femme alike, at different times, too. I'm picky about individuals, not types.


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RE: Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine l... - 8/11/2007 8:50:37 PM   
SusanofO


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Status: offline 		For either, I like masculine men as far as looks (average as far as masculine looks, say 7-8 on a scale of 10) with some feminine emotional characteristics (like the ones who are really "feelers" and have a lot of heart, but who also have very good judgment). If that makes sense. Although I have to say I would not oppose scening with a CD male submissive, on an occasional basis.

- Susan

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RE: Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine l... - 8/11/2007 9:23:33 PM   
NefertariReborn


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RE: Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine l... - 8/11/2007 9:46:01 PM   
FullfigRIMaam


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RE: Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine l... - 8/12/2007 6:53:17 AM   
thetammyjo


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetyBoy

May I ask Ladies if they prefer more feminine look subs or masculine look?

I see following options here :-)
  1. Feminine subs for service, and masculine men for sex
  2. Masculine subs for service, feminine subs for sex
  3. Feminine subs for service, no sex
  4. Masculine subs for service, no sex


which one is closest to you?

I just want to know what i should prepare in relationship with a Lady :-)


I prefer androgynous looks and attitudes/behaviors for both men and women I've trained and owned.

Stereotypical masculine or feminine is a huge turn off to me. My friends don't even fall into those categories why would my submissives or slaves fall into those categories?

Sex isn't a matter of this -- individual personalities, our connection, and mutual attraction are the deciding factors there.

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RE: Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine l... - 8/12/2007 8:04:50 AM   
englishmistress1


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Status: offline 		I much prefere a man to look fit and masculine for both service and sex. There is nothing nicer than a tall fit strong sub on your arm when you go out,
to the outside world a handsome boyfriend/partner, behind closed doors at your feet, naked, desperate to please.
I love to have sex with my slaves, which is why I must find them phyically attractive. After all if he is to perform hours of oral service and then have sex
with you, it is highly important that you fancy them too!!


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RE: Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine l... - 8/12/2007 8:17:50 AM   
Rockwell


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Thank you all.

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RE: Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine l... - 8/12/2007 1:34:25 PM   
LadyMorgynn


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RE: Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine l... - 8/12/2007 2:40:44 PM   
bignipples2share


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Status: offline 		I want my men masculine looking for everything.

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RE: Does dominant Ladies prefer Feminine or Masculine l... - 8/12/2007 7:38:58 PM   
GuidingLite


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Status: offline 		puleez! no fem men, get it st8.

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