MaamJay
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Congrats to LordKen and to candy, happy for both of you! With My previous sub, as we were already married, he didn't really go for the concept of ownership, so W/we settled on matching anklets, his on the left ankle, Mine on the right so when W/we stood together, it was as if he was shackled to Me. The anklets were set with opals dug out of the room in the underground hotel W/we'd stayed in in Coober Pedy, so were pretty special, and that symbolised that O/our new relationship had come up from the depths and had now seen the light. Worked for Me! Unfortunately, not for him, he's a CD fetishist and not a sub, so that ended well over a year ago. In a sense though, it seems you two have gone for this concept of union ... I just hope it has a much happier ending! (I admit to being pissed that Mine didn't give his anklet back!)
When Master and my sub side violet had lived together 5 months, W/we bought matching silver rings for the little fingers of O/our right hands, and had a little commitment ceremony. When He subsequently collared me some 20 months later (He doesn't rush and the complication of my other relationship slowed Him down a bit too), i designed a silver identity-styled bracelet to match the rings, but with a gold v[A] in the middle and W/we had a jeweller friend make it for U/us. That is my collar, Master doesn't have any equivalent to that. However, He also treasures a jade ring i brought back from New Zealand for Him early in O/our relationship and although it doesn't fit well enough now on any finger to wear it, He wears it daily on a silver chain around His neck. But i wouldn't call it a collar LOL!
With the new fem sub who is so promising, I found (through Avon no less, definite perks to being an Avon lady!), a gorgeous medallion that symbolises so well what the 3 of U/us are committed to working towards. It has 3 diamante hearts in a gold circle ... one on the bottom and 2 side by side on top ... perfect for a poly where she is the bottom rung and sees both of Us as Dominant to her, bound together in a circle of growing love. I was going to wait but couldn't bear not to give it to her just before she went home, especially as I knew she had a tough month ahead with major surgery looming. she will be back here at least all of next month to recuperate, and I wanted her to have something tangible of O/our feelings. In the future, I could see all 3 of U/us perhaps having something with that symbol to show connection. Given she likes tattoos ... *grin* ... W/we'll see!
Congrats again to both of you!
Maam Jay aka violet[A]
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RE: Collaring the Collarers - 
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. Glad you are both very happy. Much like tammyjo said, my own Master's corresponding items are keys. He wears a long, thin strand of black suede as a necklace and He never removes it. On it are the keys to my collar, ankle/wrist cuffs, chastity belt, and the masterlock for the chain that is locked onto my ankle every night. It's not a collar but it's a tangible symbol to Him of His ownership of me. It was His idea to do it and it means alot to Him. That's all that matters, right?
. My best to you both..............luci
In a past relationship I was given a bracelet to wear by my mistress, a silver charm bracelet that would have charms added to it the further our relationship progressed. 
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