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Aswad -> RE: Toilet Slaves (8/12/2007 6:53:31 PM)
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ORIGINAL: SusanofO
I am curious about what it's all about, however, so I'll give it a try, I guess.
Very open-minded and commendable.
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Maybe someone has some tips on how to become more enthusiastic about it? I normally really enjoy Humiliation scenes, too. So I can't figure out why I am shy about this particular activity.
For some, it is related to social taboos. The taboos for women in this area are generally stronger than for men, or so I have been told. Unless breaking those is a turn-on in itself for you, I have very few tips, except to take it slowly and staying just outside your own comfort zone (i.e. never take it to the point where it really squicks you, just stay at a level that is uncomfortable, so that the comfort zone expands). That way, you will end up deconditioning your reluctance, which will allow you to enjoy the humiliation aspect of it, if you find one.
Some tips about how to go about it...
First, since you like humiliation, try watching some scenes where that is an element. In the movie Shogun, there is a scene where the samurai does this to Anjin in the interest of humiliating him. One assumes there are other movies where similar things feature without being so explicit as to push the wrong buttons. If you want, there are of course lots of explicit movies about it, but those tend to go all-out, leaving little room for any "testing the waters", if you'll pardon the pun.
Second, start off in a bathtub or shower, with the water running. Perhaps by yourself at first, since some find it unpleasant to have others around while answering nature's call, then with the sub watching from a distance. At first, don't watch him as you're doing it, so as to take one step at a time. Then, once you're comfortable with that, watch his responses; he should be pretty aroused by it, seeing as though he would at this point have essentially been in a tease/denial cycle for a while. That may serve to arouse you yourself. Later, allow him to touch the stream, or somesuch. Progress to having him in the bathtub with you, then under you, and eventually leaving the water off. Then, when you are ready, let him taste a little bit. Slowly move on to having him drink it all. After he has learned to swallow a bladderful (which means constant swallowing, without the mouth being allowed to fill up, at least at first), you will be more confident that he can drink it without making a mess. When this is no longer a concern for you, it should be simple enough to transition to letting him "drink from the source", so to speak. That is pretty much the last step before you can start making the adjustment to occasionally using him for this purpose. Don't make it a constant thing, unless you know he has no kidney issues and do an occasional bloodwork to check that his kidney is fine, along with giving him plenty of other fluids.
The final stage, if one is so inclined, is to make the mental adjustment back to toilet in this case, i.e. viewing it as "going to the toilet" rather than as an intrinsically sexual or otherwise arousing act. At this point, one has come full circle, and there is a definite element of humiliation and objectification beyond "mere" play. It can certainly be an entirely natural thing, if one chooses to make the effort to align one's perceptions thus.
I know prop mentioned she was used in such a capacity for a few years.
On the receiving end, there's lots of tips, though I think they've been covered well elsewhere. Having the one with the bladder keep well hydrated, and preferrably drinking lots of pineapple juice to sweeten the flavour, eases the process of getting used to it. Since it has some squick potential for you, it is imperative not to elicit a negative reaction from him until you are used to it. Gagging and/or vomiting at an unexpected moment is a turn-off for most people, and one that can create a strong aversion.
That's what I can think off right now.
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