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RE: advise from a master - 7/4/2005 3:36:53 PM

Islave

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tormentius. I'm looking for someone real. Not just online. 40 miles is not far if you have transport, unfortunately I don't and public transport here is virtually none existant. It's almost impossible to get anywhere and back in a day and I don't have the finances to use B & Bs or hotels. I'm a bit old and unfit for sleeping rough. (by unfit I mean real health reasons)
My hope is to make contact via the web and get to know enough about the person to be able to arrange to meet. Once at that stage I would travel anywhere for that meeting even if it meant I had to walk to get there. That is fact-not fiction as I have done it in the past.
My point about this site is that I am totally open about what I want and am not ashamed to be naked. the people who have commented here give me an impression that they are not that comfortable with the way they are and are not as open about it as I am.

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RE: advise from a master - 7/4/2005 4:18:18 PM

Tormentius

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Ok, that makes a lot more sense then. As said before, browse the other side of the site and narrow your search to your local area then get into contact with those people and find out more about your local community. When approaching masters from the other side of this site simply send a well-worded email to those who are compatible looking for new subs or slaves. The key is patience; if you don't give up sooner or later you'll find what it is that you're seeking.

In regards to your second point, posting a pic of ones genitalia is forcing that "personal comfort" onto someone else and thats what folks have an issue with. It has nothing to do with whether the person commenting is comfortable with themselves. That isn't meant as an attack either but rather a statement of opinion.

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RE: advise from a master - 7/4/2005 5:40:05 PM

Islave

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Tormentius
I agree with you and when I posted my first one I didn't realise the pic would be there. Nothing in the intro to the forum showed me what to do.

It was a case of trial and error. More error and then trial by the viewers and found guilty.

I'm not a youngster but opening up about myself in a public place like this was very difficult to start with. Not an issue when face to face with anyone but a big issue here.

As I've said before, where I live is quite remote and a very small population which makes life difficult when looking for some fun.

I think these sites provide a very valuable service in allowing anyone to be open and honest about their sexuality. I know a lot of people that could do with joining.

As a newbie I am grateful to any of the active masters that come on here and give me advise. I can assure them that I do take notice of what is said.

I've only been active on this site a few days and in that time I have learnt a lot.

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RE: advise from a master - 7/4/2005 10:07:00 PM

SirDiscipliner69

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Well some can talk the talk but not walk the walk...it is helpful sometimes to get past the obligatory cock pic and get right to the mindset... imho