KMsAngel -> RE: 134 days and counting (11/20/2007 6:07:12 AM)
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well, really, samba, it is what you make of it, isn't it? you have young ums. i never allowed ''santa'' into my house when they were young. they always knew the real reason for the holiday. and lot of presents were handmade, and lots of thought gone into them. my ex was feral, like you, about the whole bah humbug commercialism of the holidays when we were married. mind you, he also thought i was trying to win points with the family and make them feel guilty when i said, ok, i'll make things. funny thing is, when he left, and had to buy presents for the first time in his adult life - he immediately went commercial! [:D] anyways, point is. if u don't want it commercial, don't go to the shops. can't do much about avoiding the songs, but you don't have to buy into the crassness of the season if you don't chose to. take your kids to a homeless shelter and have them help serve a christmas meal, if you think you're kids are too immersed in the crassness of the season. invite your friends and a stranger you meet that has no family, to get some of the real meaning of the season in. go back to the actual REASON for the season. it's not gifts, it's not the meal, it's about cherishing the gifts that are emotional, not just material end of soapbox [:D]
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