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Levels of Feminization - 7/4/2005 9:37:40 AM

tabithaaz

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i am wondering what level of feminization Dommes (0r Doms) have kept their subs or slaves. i have always had a long fascination with the femming of the male species. i have served a Domme that enjoyed femming me. i was never allowed male underwear. At times i was in full lingirie under my male clothes at work. i was pretty much kept in full female clothing when W/we were in private or when W/we went to the fetish club. She also kept me in full chastity (CB-2000, pink). i was released about every 3-4 weeks. my dream would be to put into a Neosteel, which would lock it out of touch and give me a better female form.

my Former Domme's ultimate fantasy would to have me 24/7 as her femmed slave if i was in a situation where i didnt have family, friends, work etc. i would have considered it strongly.

We always talked about if there were D/s relationships where the femming of the male was taken further. Perhaps they are femmed fulltime or as a maid full time, even to the extreme of surgical "enhancement" (though not for me).

Anyone have experience or thoughts??

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RE: Levels of Feminization - 7/4/2005 10:56:12 AM

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I've commented here about living as a transsexual for 8 years. If you check out my profile you can see a couple of pix of what I used to look like.

I enjoyed living as a woman for a long time, then last year I began to go through some changes. For one, someone offered to pay for my sex change, and I turned it down, which made me realize if I wasn't going to go all the way, what the heck was I doing?

So last summer I stopped taking hormones and was just starting to go out occasionally as a boy, when suddenly I met a wonderful 52 yr old Dominant woman through the net. She absolutely flipped over photos of me as a woman, and told me that i was EXACTLY what she was looking for. She flew in to Philly to meet me and spent a week with me. She loved the fact that I picked her up wearing a dress, and took her out to a straight restaurant, and I was able to fit in rather seamlessly.

Meeting her, I felt torn. I wanted to go back to being a man. However, I also wanted a female Dominant partner. This woman was incredible, everything I wanted really, extremely intelligent (IQ of 170), loving, nurturing, with a very strong side, but she fell in love with me as a woman, and wanted me to get back on hormones and live enfemme.

At another time, all of that would have been music to my ears. For a while I did as she wished, and got back on hormones, and lived as she wanted me to. She showered me with women's clothes and lingerie, and even handmade me a couple of special outfits. I loved the way she treated me. I loved the fact that she was very proud of me. I loved the fact that she was willing to introduce me to her friends and family as a woman, and so for a while I put her needs ahead of what I wanted for my own body.

I lasted 3 months with Her, and they were 3 good months. Ultimately it did not work out, but she proved to me that there are some very amazing women out there that are seeking very feminine submissive males for partners. So for those of you that seek that kind of life - take note and take heart, there are some Domme women out there that want you, and will feminize you to your heart's content.

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RE: Levels of Feminization - 7/4/2005 11:29:01 AM

tabithaaz

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Eurnax
thats is a great story, thank you for sharing. Judging from your picts i never would have realized that you lived as a transexual. I am glad you are happy where you are right now.

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RE: Levels of Feminization - 7/4/2005 6:58:23 PM

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Sincere thanx Tabitha. I've been blessed. It's a wonderful life.

I've posted it elsewhere, but i'll post it again. It's closed to the public, but you can still access my old web site at this address: http://www.steffiemor.com/index4.html

Over the years 1000's of people have written to me thru that site. I used to get a lot of people asking me about makeup, clothes, hormones, electrolysis, etc..., so I wrote a couple of "tips" articles for MtF TG's. Maybe they'll provide assistance to some of the gender people here.

Stay sweet,
Steve
aka. Stefani Moore

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RE: Levels of Feminization - 7/12/2005 1:05:57 PM

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Wow, that's a pretty interesting story. Based on your profile and the way you explained it, I beleive you. I would really like to meet such a woman. I wouldn't want a 24/7 situation just a good friendship.

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RE: Levels of Feminization - 7/12/2005 6:33:07 PM

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I am in a relationship such as this, but I was not set on a path of finding a transsexual partner nor am I responsible for my girl's transition. She was already in transition for a number of years, she had already been living full time both private & at work.

I have had various levels of interaction with men who were CD/TV, was friends with numerous TS's over the years. I had always identified as being heterosexual, but you know what they say, when you meet the right one, you will know. Such is the case with us. We are extremely happy with one another.

There is someone for everyone... you will meet your someone & you too will know unconditional love.

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RE: Levels of Feminization - 7/12/2005 6:34:33 PM

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quote:

I would really like to meet such a woman. I wouldn't want a 24/7 situation just a good friendship.

Do you you mind explaining what you find appealing in a friendship with a transsexual woman?

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RE: Levels of Feminization - 7/12/2005 6:37:20 PM

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I believe 78 was referring to a dominant women that would be into feminization, not a TS woman

MP

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RE: Levels of Feminization - 7/12/2005 8:58:16 PM

Euryanx

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Chris, I think MP is right. I think 78 read through my journal and wants to find a Mistress that would help him x-dress.

As a side note...

One of the reasons why i stopped hormones and living as a transsexual is due to the fact that I'm not a "classic transsexual." I started out x-dressing in my early 20's in a D/s relationship. I'd never x-dressed before, although I did have dreams that i was a woman when i was a teen. But I really didn't have the desire from an early age to be a woman that classic transsexuals experience.

All of this came out in counselling, and it's one of the reasons why i transitioned back to being a man. I tend to think that my x-dressing just spiraled out of control. I didn't like feeling like a "man in a dress" so went on hormones and started growing out my hair and going through electrolysis... etc... All of which shows how easy some things can get way out of control. My life went on an 8 year detour living as a woman - none of which I regret. It taught me a lot, particularly about what women go through. Most men have no clue what women deal with, and that's putting it mildly.

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RE: Levels of Feminization - 7/12/2005 9:07:11 PM

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You are an amazing guy and will be a great catch for some lucky person.

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RE: Levels of Feminization - 7/13/2005 4:29:50 AM

Euryanx

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Ah kitty stop, you're making me blush.

hugs,
steve

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RE: Levels of Feminization - 7/13/2005 4:44:05 AM

MstrssPassion

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Keep the rosie-glow just a bit longer...

Your experience & range of experiences have made you a remarkable person & a remarkable catch to a lucky lady one day.

MP

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RE: Levels of Feminization - 7/13/2005 4:59:44 AM

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I agree...it has certainly been very interesting reading your posts.
Hope all going well with your Lady.

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RE: Levels of Feminization - 7/13/2005 8:05:21 AM

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Mistress Passion,

You are correct, I'd like to find a dominant woman that is interested in feminization. I'd really like to have a friend that shares this interest with me.

I actually used to dress in my Mother's clothes when I was in elementary school.

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RE: Levels of Feminization - 7/13/2005 8:06:58 AM

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Would also like to meet some transsexual women to have as friends as well.

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RE: Levels of Feminization - 7/17/2005 8:37:52 PM

ManOwner

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I don't like feminization as a D/s activity. I know that people look at things in their own ways, and that's fine. For me, the way I look at feminization is as a fetish for treating a man like a woman. That offends me, because I do not thing there is anything degrading about being a woman or being treated like one. A lot of males do find that very degrading. That is why they insult and humiliate each other with such things as wearing a dress because you lose a bet, etc.

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RE: Levels of Feminization - 7/17/2005 10:20:05 PM

onceburned

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ManOwner
That offends me, because I do not thing there is anything degrading about being a woman or being treated like one. A lot of males do find that very degrading.

I guess I have always thought of feminization as humiliation, not because being a woman is less but because the sub is proud of being a man and feels a loss of a personally prized status when he is feminized.

(A certain a certain amount of homosexual anxiety might also be present.)

Of course, this doesn't apply to guys who actually want a woman to feminize him.

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RE: Levels of Feminization - 7/17/2005 10:25:53 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: onceburned

quote:

ORIGINAL: ManOwner
That offends me, because I do not thing there is anything degrading about being a woman or being treated like one. A lot of males do find that very degrading.

I guess I have always thought of feminization as humiliation, not because being a woman is less but because the sub is proud of being a man and feels a loss of a personally prized status when he is feminized.

(A certain a certain amount of homosexual anxiety might also be present.)

Of course, this doesn't apply to guys who actually want a woman to feminize him.

I wonder what per cent of men with feminization fantasies are fetishists first and foremost. How many were trying on sister's or mother's panties or shoes pre-teen and after getting an erection and jerking off, started doing it regularly? Either that, or playing with female friends and experimenting with dress up and realizing it made them hard. Many fetishes are programmed around that age.

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RE: Levels of Feminization - 7/17/2005 11:50:02 PM

tabithaaz

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For me i never see it as a humiliation thing. i do remember trying on my mother's panties when i was young and playing dress up. i do consider it a fetish for me. i have no desire to be a woman fulltime at all. my former Mistress always said that i became very submissive and soft-spoken when i dressed as tabitha. i enjoy the act of dressing as much as being. i consider myself as a different person. Not to mention my Mistress loved me dressed and loved to show me off as a "trophy" which also made me feel proud of who i was.

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RE: Levels of Feminization - 7/28/2005 1:42:33 AM

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quote:

As a side note...

One of the reasons why i stopped hormones and living as a transsexual is due to the fact that I'm not a "classic transsexual." I started out x-dressing in my early 20's in a D/s relationship. I'd never x-dressed before, although I did have dreams that i was a woman when i was a teen. But I really didn't have the desire from an early age to be a woman that classic transsexuals experience.

All of this came out in counselling, and it's one of the reasons why i transitioned back to being a man. I tend to think that my x-dressing just spiraled out of control. I didn't like feeling like a "man in a dress" so went on hormones and started growing out my hair and going through electrolysis... etc... All of which shows how easy some things can get way out of control. My life went on an 8 year detour living as a woman - none of which I regret. It taught me a lot, particularly about what women go through. Most men have no clue what women deal with, and that's putting it mildly.

I lkie to thank you personally for sharing your experience of your TS years. This like many areas of my life have been hidden for many years and no need for boring details. i do appreciate your website and just having realized i am submissive by nature and background and has agreed and verified by my close friend and highly respected doctor for 13 years.
What has even helped tipped the scales when you mentioned that normally desiring to be a woman from an early age which i have always had a deep passion for and still do. i am now just accepting these facts of myself and making the life changes necessary so i can live the life i sincerely desire.
i'm really glad i am small framed weigh around 150 lbs and can get it down further & need to find assistance from experienced TS in my area to learn proper exercises to get that feminine aquired physique.
i do know one of the main reasons i really never pursued looking further into TS is i would be willing for an operation only if i could experience orgasms like woman do as well. i don't believe that's possible, so keeping the ole johnson. lol
Any other suggestions you have would be greatly appreciated Euryanx.

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