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atendersoul -> Truth or Dare (8/13/2007 3:11:50 PM)
Have seen here in the postings about Masters/Doms that question Themselves of if T/they T/themselves are "real".......and seeing so many different forms of the Lifestyle, Some taking a little of this and a little of that is T/their desire makes for some very interesting changes in protocal.... so since this seems to be the thread of Masters now, how does one like girl know which is true and which is fantasy players?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Truth or Dare (8/13/2007 3:14:04 PM)
Well MOST people just go with the "If I feel hot and sexy- then it's real. If I feel it's annoying and uncomfortable- then it's fantasy" How do you know in the vanilla world when someone is genuine or not? The lifestyle is what you make of it- find someone who works well for you. Sorry to dash your hopes, but there are no easy boxes or roads to follow.

atendersoul -> RE: Truth or Dare (8/13/2007 3:38:28 PM)
thanks, no hopes dashed here in the least but one has to wonder sometimes when in reading profiles how Ones come to feel that is They are "true" or "real"......in oppose to "false" and "dead" and do not know well about vanilla, my degree of interacting over the years was rather limited, this she confuses.... but this would rate right up there with wondering how a bisexual female switch could also answer something in ask a Master section....

earthycouple -> RE: Truth or Dare (8/13/2007 3:48:26 PM)
What? what does a bisexual female switch have to do with giving a truthful answer (just because you don't like the answer....) I can answer your OP for you too...oh fuck me...but I'm a bisexual female dominant with a bottoming tendancy. I guess I'll quit while I'm ahead... No, no I won't. People use true and real in the hopes that they will turn some heads because so many of us are fake and dead ahem. What it boils down to is use your own head and BS meter. Only you can decide what is real and works for you. You don't know about vanilla? You never had a sig other before BDSM? interesting. Bet high school rocked for you. Did you ever have a BS meter with family, friends, coworkers? I do. No different in BDSM.

littlebitxxx -> RE: Truth or Dare (8/13/2007 4:14:53 PM)
ms OP, you haven't yet figured out that fishermen will put out all kinds of different bait in hopes to catch that wascally fish? And almost ALL of them are fake?!? The fish that are still alive are the ones that could tell the difference. But this is just a bisexual Free Companion talking here. ps...ec...is your BS meter sumpin' like my GAFF reader? I think I saw them together as a package on KTel once. ;)

AquaticSub -> RE: Truth or Dare (8/13/2007 4:25:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: atendersoul how does one like girl know which is true and which is fantasy players? Well, if you are like me you realize that you refuse to worry about the labels other people put on things. At least not so much that you would turn someone down just because someone labeled them "fake". Then you go out there and find someone who makes you happy. Once this is accomplished, you continue to not worry about the labels because is no agreed upon "true" status.

Padriag -> RE: Truth or Dare (8/13/2007 4:28:02 PM)
Pretty good answers so far. The first thing that popped into my head when I read the question was,"By whether they keep their promises or not." But then I've always had high standards. [8D]

MadRabbit -> RE: Truth or Dare (8/13/2007 4:29:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: atendersoul which is fantasy players? Well...this guy is a good start... http://www.collarchat.com/m_790885/tm.htm

SimplyMichael -> RE: Truth or Dare (8/13/2007 4:40:15 PM)
The more they talk about being real the more fake they are. The less serious they take the lifestyle or in fact the less the talk about the lifestyle are often less fake. Only fakes worry about being fake.

BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Truth or Dare (8/13/2007 5:20:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: atendersoul thanks, no hopes dashed here in the least but one has to wonder sometimes when in reading profiles how Ones come to feel that is They are "true" or "real"......in oppose to "false" and "dead" and do not know well about vanilla, my degree of interacting over the years was rather limited, this she confuses.... but this would rate right up there with wondering how a bisexual female switch could also answer something in ask a Master section.... You obviously aren't brand new to the forums, so you should know that anyone can and will respond to threads in any forum, no matter how they identify. It keeps things interesting and gives us all a wide range of opinions. As to your question......... Well, how do we know you are real, true and sincere? We don't.

AquaticSub -> RE: Truth or Dare (8/13/2007 5:41:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: atendersoul but this would rate right up there with wondering how a bisexual female switch could also answer something in ask a Master section.... Well you see it's a sad, but true and somewhat denied fact that masters don't actually know everything. In fact, some of them don't know much at all. Sometimes a sub, slave, pet or switch will have a better answer to a question someone thought masters would best be able to answer.

SageFemmexx -> RE: Truth or Dare (8/13/2007 6:01:25 PM)
As a general rule of thumb, I've noticed the more they bellyache and whine on their profile about "real" then they are probably the most fake. The more criticism on their profile of other people, the more likely they are fake. The more they complain about fat people...etc etc... Dominants in general don't whine, bytch and moan--they just are. They aren't worried about being surrounded by subbies who give them their sense of dominance because it's who they are inside that counts; not how many subbies they are stringing along or worship them. Listen to your gut instincts and when those alarms go off inside your head--listen to them.

Padriag -> RE: Truth or Dare (8/13/2007 7:17:53 PM)
Well said Sage [sm=applause.gif]

celticlord2112 -> RE: Truth or Dare (8/13/2007 7:27:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: atendersoul how does one like girl know which is true and which is fantasy players? Does the person respond to you? Does he or she react to you as an individual? Or is everything one protracted scene. From what I've observed, fantasy players are the ones who expect people to act along predetermined paths (e.g., submissives always say "Sir" to Doms, et cetera).

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: Truth or Dare (8/13/2007 7:47:00 PM)
They also tend to have descriptors in their names like "Master", or "Lord".

celticlord2112 -> RE: Truth or Dare (8/13/2007 8:26:29 PM)
Is that all?

rmanrr -> RE: Truth or Dare (8/13/2007 8:31:45 PM)
Greetings Further, (tongue firmly in cheek) they are the Domly Dom of all Dom's who walk on water and talk to the gods! Because they say so of course.

celticlord2112 -> RE: Truth or Dare (8/13/2007 8:44:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rmanrr Greetings Further, (tongue firmly in cheek) they are the Domly Dom of all Dom's who walk on water and talk to the gods! Because they say so of course. It's quite fun to talk to the gods. Although I might be a tad concerned if the gods were to start talking back!

rmanrr -> RE: Truth or Dare (8/13/2007 8:50:47 PM)
Greetings I should have been clearer..they talk to the gods and the gods listen...heh heh.

atendersoul -> RE: Truth or Dare (8/14/2007 1:55:34 PM)
I wish to thank all that replied to this posting and there was no disrespect given to any.....so if any feel that there was any personnel attack by girl....it was not....just a question...... she has been involved in this Way for many years.....long before the computer was discovered and though learning this media....her knowledge in reality is long....

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