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Making a Birthday special - 8/14/2007 10:38:38 AM   
goodlittlegrl29


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greetings to all,
First of all didn't know if this was the right place for this but i just wanted to get some ideas from people of how to make a birthday special. Had some of my own ideas but would appreciate any suggestions on a cake, gifts etc that would be good. Hoping this finds all who read in good spirits...thanks in advance for responding! PS..This for my Master if anyone was wondering..
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RE: Making a Birthday special - 8/14/2007 10:41:29 AM   
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I don't know enough of your master to render an opinion,

generally tho, friends, some good eats, see that all the trivial affairs are handled so that he has nothing to do along those lines and give him the old what for that evening.

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RE: Making a Birthday special - 8/14/2007 10:54:37 AM   
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Well I assume you already know he wants you to do something- some masters do not want anything and it would be very wrong to go against that.

Secondly, you know him better than we would.  Perhaps a trip to Tahiti or Paris?  Perhaps a new suit?  Perhaps another woman or man in bed?  Perhaps a new tool? 

I could give a thousand ideas, and they'd all be horribly wrong for you.

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RE: Making a Birthday special - 8/14/2007 11:51:43 AM   
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hum.  *mumbles* explicatives/just don't get it.

See my last posts on birthday gifts 

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RE: Making a Birthday special - 8/14/2007 11:52:35 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: goodlittlegrl29

greetings to all,
First of all didn't know if this was the right place for this but i just wanted to get some ideas from people of how to make a birthday special. Had some of my own ideas but would appreciate any suggestions on a cake, gifts etc that would be good. Hoping this finds all who read in good spirits...thanks in advance for responding! PS..This for my Master if anyone was wondering..


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RE: Making a Birthday special - 8/14/2007 12:16:03 PM   
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Any time I've wanted to get a special gift for my Master, I've tried to be creative and get something unique that was meaningful to the both of us.  For example, one year I got him a money clip (he uses those) and had it specially engraved with the insignia he created and tattoo'd me with (it was hard to find an engraver to do this, and then to send them the graphic in just the right format, etc. - took months to accomplish this).  Another time I found a bottle of wine from a small vineyard that shares my name, which is a foreign and rare name in this country - he collects wines and I said this way he could keep me in his cellar :)

Be creative, and find something unique to his personality and style.  The thought you put into it will likely be more meaningful than the gift himself.

Good luck!

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RE: Making a Birthday special - 8/14/2007 12:38:06 PM   
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I would be happy just spending it with him, but a brand is looking good...lol......no, kidding, I would ask what he wants and do that :)  How old will he be?

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RE: Making a Birthday special - 8/14/2007 6:54:31 PM   
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We'll he'll be turning 48 this year, He kind of said He didn't want to do anything but then made a concession for doing something at His place which He feels more comfortable with than going out.  I have been working a lot lately and decided to take the whole day off just for Him, so i wanted to make it special as much as possible. Didn't get many ideas from this post but i'll figure some things out, thanks for those who replied even though i'm sure it's been asked before.

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RE: Making a Birthday special - 8/14/2007 7:07:55 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: goodlittlegrl29

We'll he'll be turning 48 this year, He kind of said He didn't want to do anything but then made a concession for doing something at His place which He feels more comfortable with than going out.  I have been working a lot lately and decided to take the whole day off just for Him, so i wanted to make it special as much as possible. Didn't get many ideas from this post but i'll figure some things out, thanks for those who replied even though i'm sure it's been asked before.


If he didn't want to do anything at all, please be careful as to why you are doing this. Are you doing this because you want him to really enjoy his birthday or because you want to do something special for him?

If all that he wants to do on his birthday is enjoy peace and quiet, get him a six pack of his favorite drink/favorite coffee or tea, make him a dinner he likes and let him tell you what he wants. Valyraen truly doesn't like doing anything for his birthday. In his opinion, it's just another day and he mostly goes along with celebrations because it's what other people (ie. his family and friends) want. Because of this, I try to play as small a role as possible in the planning, except to make sure his friends aren't getting out of control.

I buy him a gift, something that came from the heart, or I make him a drawing. On the other hand, because he knows I do like to do special things on my birthday, he lets me go out with the girls and have drinks.

I'm not saying you definately are doing it for the wrong reasons, just think about what he really wants.

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RE: Making a Birthday special - 8/14/2007 8:53:47 PM   
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I suggest huge fondue feast! 

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RE: Making a Birthday special - 8/14/2007 9:09:30 PM   
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Are we talking naughty ideas or fun ideas that a house hold of friends and family can enjoy?

Also, how old is he turning?

When it comes to making a B-Day special, it normally envolves doing something that he's never done before.

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RE: Making a Birthday special - 8/14/2007 10:04:32 PM   
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Phoenix had a birthday on the 8th. I got her some new toys and such, and then did what she wanted to do (dinner and a movie). Because she works nights, she was at work when her birthday began, so I dropped off a cake for her and her co-workers along with a flower. (She is used to having her birthday forgotten) They spanked her on stage and did on stage dances for her. Then I picked her up from work and gave her an hour long spanking. My mother gave her money to Victoria's Secret, so she got to buy some nice things for herself. She loves that store. We also went to a book store and read the post secret books together. Nothing big this year as you can tell, but we are poor folk right now.

I have done some decent things in the past though.

For Valentines day I was broke, so I got a few colors of paper, cut out hearts, then snipped them in half. I then put one color with another color and taped them all back together. When I gave them to her I said that my heart had been broken before, and it wont look the same again, but it was starting to finally be repaired.

When I was 15 I walked all over the city, to something like six bookstores, in a foot of snow, to get her a series of books she wanted.

When I was 16 I was dating the same girl I had walked all over the city for, and we were living together (moved out when I was 15) Her parents were going through a divorce, and she thought it was going to be a real bad day. My roommates and I threw her a surprise party. Little did I know that her mother, knowing about the party, blew her off for the rest of the day, and her brother said he would be out of town. 15 minutes before the party started she was in tears in my car headed to the party because everyone had forgotten, or blew her off. Of course they were all in my house, so it turned out well.

I recently gave a baby food jar of dirt to a friend of ours. She had stayed a few weeks with us, and decided to move out of state. She told me that home had always been a foreign concept to her, but our place finally had felt like it. So I let her always have a piece of home with her.

My brother is a bit psychotic. One year for his birthday he asked for socks, and only socks. I got them, and wrapped them up in duct tape (there is a Wal-Mart here that sells more duct tape than any other in the US) I put them in a plastic sack and poured red food coloring on them. It didn't look right, but what was done was done. It dried sticky, so it turned out perfect. When he opened it I called out "It's a puppy!" My brother does not smile, but he did that day. He showed everyone he knew before he opened them. Incidentally our step sisters husband believed it was a puppy, asked what it really was, reached his hand in, felt the sticky, pulled out his hand, dropped the bag, and finally ran at full speed to the bathroom to wash his hands.

I write poetry on occasion, so that goes with my gifts at times.

On the adult side of things, Phoenix recently told me, that every man wants to be given a strange woman to play with for an evening on his birthday. Don't know if that is true or not, but worth mentioning.

I heard of an open couple once who's wife went out and video taped her fucking two strange men that morning, then coming straight home to play the tape for her husband. That was his fetish though.

A vanilla couple I know rented movies, the birthday girl got bathed in a candle lit room with soft music in bubble bath. He then took her to the bedroom where he had rose petals on the bed, and one of those sleds that is a big circle shield looking thing. He had filled the sled with fruits and fed her while she watched the movie.

I doubt that helped, but those are a few thing from my past, and a couple more for adult time. Good luck!

~Ki

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