onceburned
Posts: 2117
Joined: 1/4/2005 From: Iowa Status: offline
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Welcome to Collarme. Wow, JMO, but if guys are expecting you to support them financially they seem to have confused submission with parasitism. Even as a live-in I would expect to be contributing to household expenses. My gosh, its just a basic adult responsibility. Of course, if you as a dominant choose not to have them work, well... that is your right as the dominant. But you are the one setting the rules, not them. My guess is that the guys who expect you to support them are either leeches or else stuck in fantasy thinking, without having a clue as to what the life is like. erm... I guess I am feeling a bit opinionated. I am glad you joined us here and I hope you will continue to participate in the message boards. They can be enlightening and they can be fun. May your move go smoothly, the unpacking go quickly and your stay here be pleasant.
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