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awmslave -> RE: Body modification and D/s or M/s (8/26/2007 12:36:46 AM)

I had a mistress who suggested me having nose septum piercing. I found it acceptable and I did the piercing myself. It is easy piercing, heals well and fast and it is not visible without a ring.  6 GA 1/2 inch ring looks good as jewlery.  She also had 1" locking ring with long lightweight chain attatched for her bondage ideas. In general, I find tasteful piercings  good  and attractive. Although,  as a slave, I prefer body modifications being detailed in  slave contract.




Focus50 -> RE: Body modification and D/s or M/s (8/26/2007 3:48:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Bobkgin

I think I am sufficiently acquainted with the English language to recognize a generic statement when I see one.

There are better ways of identifying specific "doms or dommes", especially when he is talking about "your ex dom".

It's a predictive generalized statement that includes all other doms and dommes.

I know his experience is not so broad as to include me, and I am quite certain there are many others who've been misrepresented in that statement.

Such statements are often included to add weight to a claim. But they are over-reaching, and thus weakened by such efforts.

I'd not have disagreed with him had he limited himself to "some doms and dommes", as I am sure such a statement is true.

But such a broad brush as he has used does not accurately portray reality.

And yet I never felt his statement included me!  Even though it literally could, actually, because I have made subs *remove* piercings because I do find them "tacky", to put it mildly....  Of course, LATEXBABY65 didn't and couldn't know that.
 
In a literal sense, I agree you are correct about the generalisation but is that really how a discerning adult conducts themselves amongst strangers?  You gonna jump on everyone who omits a suffix here or a *pronoun there (* my own generalisation) etc, rather than simply try to understand their point?  Because that's what communication really is, not whether someone is or isn't so good at grammar or *spelling etc or even that they are but a bit loose with it....
 
Btw, I am saying all this in good nature and don't mean offense.  And I'm wondering; you're not a school teacher or lawyer or Frasier/Niles or something?  lol
 
Be well,
 
Focus. 




sydneypig -> RE: Body modification and D/s or M/s (8/28/2007 11:22:15 PM)

Does your defination of body modification  practices include permanant testicle stretching ?and also the practice of  weight gain.I found that when i raised this issue of weight gain in the Mistress thread i received a number of negative comments.I was wondering if anyone has a postive comment on this subject.




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