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Physical changes - 8/15/2007 5:32:59 PM

Aimtoplease101

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There have been a lot of posts lately asking questions about Dommes' physical preferences for subs. There's a somewhat hilarious (or is it pathetic?) string on the General BDSM board about "bimbofication" (someone asking for a woman to volunteer to be turned into a living barbie doll through plastic surgery, pretty much).

My question is a little different. Are there physical changes that the Dommes out there like their subs to go through? Lose weight? Gain muscle? Cut your hair/ grow your hair/ shave, wear blue, etc.

On the flip side, have the subs reading here undertaken specific physical changes in response to a "request" from their Domme? (we can go on all day about behavioral changes, but that's a subject for a different day).

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RE: Physical changes - 8/15/2007 5:44:12 PM

fergus

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One asked me if I wouldn't mind shaving. It was a casual request, as we were casual players. I politley declined, and she had no trouble with that.

For a serious relationship, I would go a little extra. I imagine would also depend on the training.

fergus

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RE: Physical changes - 8/15/2007 5:57:57 PM

darchChylde

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For years the style i kept my facial hair in was completely decided on a whim (and occasionally an oops) when i went to shave or trim before my morning shower. When i met Ma'am, i was clean-shaven and planned to stay that way for a while; then one day Ma'am saw a pic of me on Myspace with a goatee and told me She really liked it. I started growing one asap, and except for the occasional oops, i have had it since.

At the time, it was a choice; but since then any decision i make about changing Her property's appearances had to be run by Her.

It may not be a major thing, but i am nevertheless happy to do so to make Ma'am happy. We'll see how it goes when and if something more major comes up.

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RE: Physical changes - 8/15/2007 6:10:08 PM

thetammyjo

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Fox keeps his body hair (except his legs) shaved -- per my preference.

He does not allow the hair on his head to grow out per my preference -- his own preference would be for longer hair on himself.

I've never had to order him to make these changes, a simple statement of my preference worked with him. I'd have no problem ordering someone to do these things or writing them into a contract however.

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RE: Physical changes - 8/15/2007 7:14:23 PM

DianeB269

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If I take on a new sub, it will be for who they are and what they are.

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RE: Physical changes - 8/15/2007 7:40:35 PM

Trunks1056

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With the girl I'm seeing right now, I'm not cutting my hair per her request, and I've started working out again, and working on a tan, to fit more into her image of an ideal guy. I've never held a tan before, so that's new, btu I don't mind the working out since I like being in shape and i used to be in much better shape then I am now.

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RE: Physical changes - 8/15/2007 8:40:41 PM

Ericus1

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Mistress had me pierced. She also determined my facial hair and hair styles. She put me on a diet. She also changed my entire wardrobe.

ericus

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RE: Physical changes - 8/15/2007 9:11:28 PM

SunNMoon

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In general I really like shorter hair on guys, and little to no facial hair. Now mind you all this depends on the person, some guys look great with facial hair, and other’s it just has that “I just found out I can grow a hair on my face I’m in high school” look, which I don’t go for. Now depending on the guy, I do have a thing for a five o’clock shadow.

Now in regards to weight loss; my requirements would be in lines to help me. I would require them to go to the gym with me, so I get myself over there to have a good work out. I would also require him, to eat healthy when with me. It helps me with my own eating habits, which I hope to improve. (I’m not saying we’re not going out for pizza too)

Nothing to much would be required by me.

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RE: Physical changes - 8/16/2007 12:56:20 AM

NefertariReborn

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I prefer no body hair, tanned. I'm not specific on body size. I know what I like when I see it. Sometimes it's starving and gaunt, other times it's thick and beefy. I just go with the flow. I'm fond of black, white or blue clothing. Not required but I do make mention of My preference. Manicured hands, pedicured feet. I have a glasses fetish. I give that information in passing as well. Not fond of long hair unless it's really really really thick and curly or wavy.

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RE: Physical changes - 8/16/2007 1:09:36 AM

LadyPact

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It's no surprise here. I like longer hair on My boys. Even those who would hope to be Mine are more than willing to grow it out.

Other than that, I don't care much. I take one as he is.

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RE: Physical changes - 8/16/2007 5:59:16 AM

Smythe

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I am demanding about fitness and try to set a good example of fitness myself.
Don't care much about clothing.
Also, I love short closely clipped beards, and all of my subs have ended up with them.
Smythe

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RE: Physical changes - 8/16/2007 6:00:14 AM

chiaThePet

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Whew, such a relief to learn the Ladies are so very accepting and
non-judgemental of Their submissives physical appearance!

Here i was so consumed with worry about that little arm and hand
growing out of the back of my head. What a relief, thank you so much!

Let's give the Ladies a hand for Their wonderful inclusion of all we are!

Clap Clap Swish, Clap Clap Swish.

What?

chia* (the pet)

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RE: Physical changes - 8/16/2007 10:04:03 AM

darchChylde

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i just wanted to add that though i love hair pulling, hair yanking and hair suspension; one of my hard limits is getting more than a trim... i may consider what She desired if Ma'am wanted me to cut my hair, it's my decision

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RE: Physical changes - 8/16/2007 12:53:02 PM

BoiJen

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I prefer to shave my head but She likes to be able to grab my hair. Also while She already enjoys my body I defeinately have places I'd like to work on...no matter how many people tell me I have nice tits...lol. So as we work out together there are moments in which I have to stop...cuz the work out plans have suddenly changed on me. And if I weren't such a frat boi I'd be able to say no to sex occassionally but I can't so....

does that count?

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RE: Physical changes - 8/16/2007 1:27:55 PM

MistressDaisy73

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I dont think I am tooooo picky either. I like hair long enough to make a fist in, but if guy really looks good bald, I wont complain too much. I tend to dislike long hair on men, unless very well kept and if I think it becomes them.

Facial hair is entirely dependent on how he looks, and the sort of hair he has.

Body hair, well I prefer not a hairy back, and I dont mind hair on the chest if it isnt toooooo much, or if it does not get in the way of nipple play. LOL. I think my fave is really a sexy fan of soft hair from the abdomen down, though. I enjoy trimmed pubic areas but I do not like them BALD there. My personal feeling is that it is too much like a kid, but that is casting no aspersions on those that DO like it bald there.

Clothes.... hmmm again it depends on the man and the role I see for him at a given time. Nice snug jeans on a nice ass is always a fave of mine, with a crisp button down shirt, mmmm. Also, sorry guys, I dont like boxers! Briefs, boxer briefs (very sexy) or, on some men, even bikini briefs (speedo style). But I like a man who enjoys quality fabric in his clothes. I often touch and feel the clothing my subs wear and I enjoy doing so.

Build wise? Again, I think it depends on the guy. I tend to dislike skinny and prefer a little beef, but well built (see pic of Sub0781 for a nice drool ladies). I dont like them toooo hard or cut either. But average and even a little heavy is fine with me. I dont think I would ever tell them they had to work out, though, unless they HAD been and then stopped and their body changed.

I think for me, really, appearance is easy to be flexible about. BUT, foul body odor is NOT tolerated, and if a man does not know how to keep his ass clean, he is soooooo not getting a second shot.

P.S. Pierced nipples are a HUGE HUGE plus with me, but I would never require it.

M. Daisy
<edited to add the bit about the piercings>

< Message edited by MistressDaisy73 -- 8/16/2007 1:29:53 PM >

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RE: Physical changes - 8/16/2007 3:13:07 PM

ShiftedJewel

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fergus!!! I've missed you!!! Please... do NOT cut your hair!!!

Shaving? Not for me. I prefer some facial hair and all of the body hair to be where it belongs on a man...

Jewel

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RE: Physical changes - 8/20/2007 9:32:14 PM

SubJordanTyler

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Full body tan..........no body hair at all anywhere...........maincured nails and pedicured feet...........exfoliating scrub for body regularly...........thin, toned build...........maintain weight

I became a new person after doing all that..........and I still do it now, as it's definitely who I am.

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