kc692
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ORIGINAL: dink22
I really do object to this idea that somehow the only "fakes" on this site are sub males. There are a staggering number of fake dommes and pseudo-dommes as well.
The most common complaints dommes seem to have on this site are:
ONE: too many subs aren’t reading the whole profile before contacting them or are just ignoring it.
TWO: they hate one-liners.
THREE: they hate cut-and-paste responses.
I understand all three complaints. That is why I always make sure to read the whole profile and write a substantive inquiry, usually addressing everything in their profile specifically. I don’t cut-and-paste, and I have spent up to ninety minutes just composing a single inquiry. I never contacted any domme if I didn’t meet the requirements they posted. If they say nobody who isn’t local, I don’t contact them (unless, of course, they’re close by); if they say nobody over the age of 40 (or even 46), I don’t contact them; if they say you must be bisexual, I don’t contact them; if they say at least 5’10” in height, I don’t contact them, etc. I also don’t talk about my needs or fantasies unless they have specifically asked for that in the profile.
But there are some dommes who, at least according to their profile, sound like they’d WANT to hear from me – like they’re looking for EXACTLY someone like me. So I go through the hassle of writing a polite, literate inquiry, always at least 4 paragraphs (not sentences, mind you, paragraphs – and usually more than 4) always addressing everything they mentioned in their profile and…nothing.
Nothing.
And what flabbergasts me is that some of these women are the ones who complained about one-liners, cut-and-paste jobs, etc. and THEY CAN’T EVEN BOTHER TO RESPOND WITH A CUT-AND-PASTE ONE LINER! That’s hypocritical. And it doesn’t take long before you begin to understand that many of them are just insecure women who come here for attention. They were never for real in the first place. That’s too bad for the real dommes, because any subblie/slave who is sane, reasonably good-looking and TRULY for real knows they can do better at a local bar.
So...that's what you do. It's not 1978 any more and finding a local top-girl is something I'm finding increasingly easy. Most women over 30 want to do something kinda kinky, and while more want a submission experience, a large number are feeling increasingly comfortable with admitting they are -or would at least like to try being- dominant.
I don't complain about the fake dommes on this site. I did in this response, only because you made it sound like all the "fakes" here were male subs, and it just isn't true.
There's nothing wrong with looking for kinky sex on the internet; there's nothing wrong with trying to find your soul mate in cyberspace. But the internet is crawling with fakes of every variety -- not just submissive males. You may get lucky, but if you want "real," dress a little kinky and go out to a reasonably hip bar.
There will be submissive males there, and they'll notice you. I guarantee that.
There are fake dommes, doms, sub males, sub females, male switches, female switches, heterosexual,homosexual, and bi-sexual. There are also good in all those groups.....is that easier for everybody to understand??? I hope I didn't miss a group, if i did, I'm sure ya'll still get the idea...
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