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justme440042003 -> were can i find a sub slave willing to really relocate (7/5/2005 7:10:48 AM)
why is it so hard to find a true life long sub?slave willing to relocate it seems so many are fakes i can provide a nice and loving life [image]local://upfiles/99208/B8D13A63C7CF484DA7182C54095A3258.jpg[/image]

Mercnbeth -> RE: were can i find a sub slave willing to really relocate (7/5/2005 7:24:01 AM)
you might be able to find one here, or another internet resource, however, there are many horror stories told regarding "relocators" who end up worse off than when they started out--things aren't the way they were described, or in a short period of time, the situation turns out to be something other than what the two bargained for. in spite of the horror stories, it does happen and turns out well for some. this slave was not looking to relocate when first searching for a Dom, however, this slave DID relocate after a year of travelling back and forth to be together! Good Luck with your search!

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: were can i find a sub slave willing to really relocate (7/5/2005 7:27:23 AM)
OK the obvious joke is "in your house" but that's just a teaser. If you're looking online- spelling and grammar count. No one likes whiners. Be positive. Be who you are, that's the only thing to do.

Lordandmaster -> RE: were can i find a sub slave willing to really relocate (7/5/2005 8:08:19 AM)
Maybe that's because not very many sub?slaves are ready to move in with someone they just met on the internet. You know, some of them have jobs and stuff. Oh, and don't be surprised if they ask a few questions, like, what about health insurance? quote: ORIGINAL: justme440042003 why is it so hard to find a true life long sub?slave willing to relocate it seems so many are fakes i can provide a nice and loving life

Gemeni -> RE: were can i find a sub slave willing to really relocate (7/5/2005 8:43:39 AM)
Well,don't expect instant gratification,and be wary. I have taken in "stray slaves" in the past,and they turned out to be freeloaders. I still ended up paying out of pocket to give them reasonable funds to relocate BACK,once they turned out to be lazy no accounts. I'd advise NOT rushing into a 24 7 situation-it doesn't matter if you can fund it or not. And if you do,set her up in an apartment in the same city first,and get her employment. Then see how it works out-lots less pressure that way. And you SHOULD be well heeled enough to afford to do it. As WELL as ethical enough to pay health care and a 401 k if she works for no one but you. Safety nets are important. Hope for the best,plan for the worst-or you are no Master.

FuriousAngel -> RE: were can i find a sub slave willing to really relocate (7/5/2005 9:41:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: justme440042003 why is it so hard to find a true life long sub?slave willing to relocate it seems so many are fakes i can provide a nice and loving life [image]local://upfiles/99208/B8D13A63C7CF484DA7182C54095A3258.jpg[/image] If it's such an issue for you, why don't you consider being the one to relocate?

darkinshadows -> RE: were can i find a sub slave willing to really relocate (7/5/2005 9:44:38 AM)
yawns Do a search on the forums for 'complaining' and you will get back a number of posts on 'fakes and wannabees' Maybe spell checking your profile and making it more appealing might help your search? And the reality is - that patience and time finds the right person - and your profile is relatively young. Be positive and they will come. Peace and Love

quietkitten -> RE: were can i find a sub slave willing to really relocate (7/5/2005 10:06:38 AM)
When someone approaches me online and suggests (or demands) that I relocate and live with them... all sorts of warning bells go off in my head. I would seriously need to know everything about someone before I took that step, and I would need REAL assurances that I would be safe and have the resources to get out if the need arose. And on the other side of the coin, I would be very wary of anyone who was willing to relocate to me without knowing me very well. The person could be sincere, or they could be unbalanced and dangerous.

imtempting -> RE: were can i find a sub slave willing to really relocate (7/5/2005 10:26:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: quietkitten The person could be sincere, or they could be unbalanced and dangerous. So true. Everyone that use's chat lines on the net would of heard about cases of rape and kidnapping and such. Thats just for local meets. So rushing into getting someone to move would just drive someone away.

Tempestspet -> RE: were can i find a sub slave willing to really relocate (7/5/2005 10:40:04 AM)
Well, I can speak for what I know.... I own my own company, make my money, contribute....and so does he. Yet I fully, and completely belong to my Master. I do not get my way all of the time. And I don't stomp my foot, which wouldn't work anyways. He is the boss. Period. According to some, the fact that I don't get my way, and what I want...for ...well until he deems fit that I should have whatever it is... I would be gone by now. But I'm not. This is the life I chose to live. Of course, not everyone is like this. Some subs, slaves, would be gone... or would balk at the idea of be asked to make a positive contribution to the relationship. That isn't what they are there for. So if they are not what you want, you have given yourself the long, and hard task of being patient, and waiting to find one that is. Then again, some subs, and slaves are just like me in these respects.... I'm sorry you are having trouble.... but look at it from a nilla persepctive, would you expect someone to drop their entire life.... for an unknown? I hope not. It's not reasltic. Anyways....I hope I helped...somehow... Tempest's pet jennifer

lonewolf05 -> RE: were can i find a sub slave willing to really relocate (7/5/2005 11:03:21 AM)
quote: all sorts of warning bells go off in my head. I would seriously need to know everything about someone before I took that step, and I would need REAL assurances that I would be safe and have the resources to get out if the need arose. -------- now if i may please? i am personally curious what you call assurances? a check for a thousand $? 500$? ok. so i am not as bright as most. but it SEEMS in my mind, someone can tell you anything that they feel is going to get you there. even though they are lieing through their teeth. at this precise time and place, i am supposed-to move 7/13/05 from iowa to wisconsin to a new Ms. i have NO -- TANGIBLE proof. how do i know She isn't some man hater and is planning on killing me? but because i am giving benefit of doubt, i am going along with what She has said to me in emails and IM's and the cell phone. hell. for all i know i may get there and it will be one-more-bust for me and end up back here in iowa. i have NO idea.! assurances? i have no house address, but i have Her home phone. She has 2 names, one is Her married name and one is Her maiden. what can "I" get for assurances? i do not believe She is going to send me money to prove Herself. this IS a confusing thing for me. thanks

sub4hire -> RE: were can i find a sub slave willing to really relocate (7/5/2005 11:09:13 AM)
Ever hear od slavemaster? He promised the same.

quietkitten -> RE: were can i find a sub slave willing to really relocate (7/5/2005 11:13:22 AM)
You need to decide what assurances are right for you. I am perfectly aware that it is nearly impossible to know everything about a person, and this is particularly true when you meet online. Are you comfortable with what you know about her? If so, more power to you. When it comes to my personal safety, I am not willing to give someone the benefit of the doubt. As for ensuring you have a way to get out... you can certainly set that up before you go. A return ticket with an open return date..... Access to a bank account with enough money to get you home.... but this all takes time and it takes trust. This man has been here a short period of time and is complaining that no-one will jump a plane and come live with him with no questions asked. That is what I was responding to. http://www.courttv.com/trials/robinson/ here is a link to a real life murderer who used the BDSM disguise to lure in his victims.

AAkasha -> RE: were can i find a sub slave willing to really relocate (7/5/2005 1:51:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lonewolf05 quote: all sorts of warning bells go off in my head. I would seriously need to know everything about someone before I took that step, and I would need REAL assurances that I would be safe and have the resources to get out if the need arose. -------- now if i may please? i am personally curious what you call assurances? a check for a thousand $? 500$? ok. so i am not as bright as most. but it SEEMS in my mind, someone can tell you anything that they feel is going to get you there. even though they are lieing through their teeth. at this precise time and place, i am supposed-to move 7/13/05 from iowa to wisconsin to a new Ms. i have NO -- TANGIBLE proof. how do i know She isn't some man hater and is planning on killing me? but because i am giving benefit of doubt, i am going along with what She has said to me in emails and IM's and the cell phone. hell. for all i know i may get there and it will be one-more-bust for me and end up back here in iowa. i have NO idea.! assurances? i have no house address, but i have Her home phone. She has 2 names, one is Her married name and one is Her maiden. what can "I" get for assurances? i do not believe She is going to send me money to prove Herself. this IS a confusing thing for me. thanks You should take more time to get to know her. You want proof that she is legitimate, get to know her on an intimate level, not just some emails and a few calls and then you go out there. In an ideal situation, you would go meet her first for dinner and conversation. If things went well, you could try serving as her houseboy for a weekend. Things could progress naturally and at a comfortable pace. The way you have to do it, because you live in your van, is that you and all your possessions show up on her doorstep. Do you just move in at once and hope that things feel ok? And if they do not -- if she says "Thanks, but no thanks..." does that mean she is a fake? Or just using you? Is there a better way you could meet potential femdoms, without the huge investment of time and travel? It would greatly reduce pressure on both sides and allow for a more natural progression of a comfort level, which is absolutely necessary for a live-in situation. Akasha

lonewolf05 -> RE: were can i find a sub slave willing to really relocate (7/5/2005 8:48:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha quote: ORIGINAL: lonewolf05 quote: all sorts of warning bells go off in my head. I would seriously need to know everything about someone before I took that step, and I would need REAL assurances that I would be safe and have the resources to get out if the need arose. -------- now if i may please? i am personally curious what you call assurances? a check for a thousand $? 500$? ok. so i am not as bright as most. but it SEEMS in my mind, someone can tell you anything that they feel is going to get you there. even though they are lieing through their teeth. at this precise time and place, i am supposed-to move 7/13/05 from iowa to wisconsin to a new Ms. i have NO -- TANGIBLE proof. how do i know She isn't some man hater and is planning on killing me? but because i am giving benefit of doubt, i am going along with what She has said to me in emails and IM's and the cell phone. hell. for all i know i may get there and it will be one-more-bust for me and end up back here in iowa. i have NO idea.! assurances? i have no house address, but i have Her home phone. She has 2 names, one is Her married name and one is Her maiden. what can "I" get for assurances? i do not believe She is going to send me money to prove Herself. this IS a confusing thing for me. thanks You should take more time to get to know her. You want proof that she is legitimate, get to know her on an intimate level, not just some emails and a few calls and then you go out there. In an ideal situation, you would go meet her first for dinner and conversation. If things went well, you could try serving as her houseboy for a weekend. Things could progress naturally and at a comfortable pace. The way you have to do it, because you live in your van, is that you and all your possessions show up on her doorstep. Do you just move in at once and hope that things feel ok? And if they do not -- if she says "Thanks, but no thanks..." does that mean she is a fake? Or just using you? Is there a better way you could meet potential femdoms, without the huge investment of time and travel? It would greatly reduce pressure on both sides and allow for a more natural progression of a comfort level, which is absolutely necessary for a live-in situation. Akasha -------------------- quote: Is there a better way you could meet potential femdoms, without the huge investment of time and travel? It would greatly reduce pressure on both sides and allow for a more natural progression of a comfort level, which is absolutely necessary for a live-in situation. Akasha --------------------- i do not know but i was answering someone here......quietkitten said she wants asssurance, so i was talking to her Ma'am. but thanks anyway. that was sweet.

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