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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 6:01:00 AM

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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 6:06:42 AM

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First, to the OP, did You mean for Your moniker to say MasterBlaster?
Put the martini down.

Second, this sounds like typecasting to me.

Third, i could put on one of those cute little Catholic girl uniforms if it would
make everyone feel better.

Fourth, what the hell did i do with those saddle shoes anyway.

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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 6:10:59 AM

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ORIGINAL: masteblaslter

To submissives. I have a theory about submissives. Let me know if you disagree or agree with this theory. I believe there are four types of submissives.

The catholic syndrome sub: This type of sub craves to experience being a slut, but her strict upbringing prevents her from fully letting go. By submitting and being forced to perform “dirty acts” the sub fulfills her fantasies, without feeling guilty. This type of sub enjoys bondage, humiliation and will “resist”, but eventually succumb to the Doms orders.

The Stressed Sub: This type of sub usually is a professional with a high stress job. They are looking to release their stress by relinquishing power and submitting to a dom. They seek to please without making any decisions. They enjoy bondage, obey orders, and can handle a little pain.

The Pain Slut: This type of sub derives great pleasure from pain. The Doms goal is to push the limit of pain tolerance of the sub. They enjoy punishment, bondage, and humiliation.

The humble sub: This type of sub craves humiliation both in private and public and will do most any act requested by the Dom. They usually have a low self esteem or carry a heavy sense of guilt. In addition to humiliation, they enjoy bondage and some pain.

I've been all of these, at one time or another. But these categories see subs as people who have psychological problems.

I'm category 5. I'm a sub because I love it, it makes me feel so good, I adore the attention from my Dom. I love the sensations, I love being wild and naughty and daring. I'm a happy sub, blissful and fulfilled. Sure, I'm crazy as a loon, but I don't have psychological PROBLEMS.

Above all, I'm a sub because... because I just AM a sub. I'm left-handed, too. I don't wonder why I'm left-handed. I just know that I am, without knowing how or why. Some things are just....they just ARE.

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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 6:31:08 AM

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ORIGINAL: masteblaslter

To submissives. I have a theory about submissives. Let me know if you disagree or agree with this theory. I believe there are four types of submissives.

The catholic syndrome sub: This type of sub craves to experience being a slut, but her strict upbringing prevents her from fully letting go. By submitting and being forced to perform “dirty acts” the sub fulfills her fantasies, without feeling guilty. This type of sub enjoys bondage, humiliation and will “resist”, but eventually succumb to the Doms orders.

The Stressed Sub: This type of sub usually is a professional with a high stress job. They are looking to release their stress by relinquishing power and submitting to a dom. They seek to please without making any decisions. They enjoy bondage, obey orders, and can handle a little pain.

The Pain Slut: This type of sub derives great pleasure from pain. The Doms goal is to push the limit of pain tolerance of the sub. They enjoy punishment, bondage, and humiliation.

The humble sub: This type of sub craves humiliation both in private and public and will do most any act requested by the Dom. They usually have a low self esteem or carry a heavy sense of guilt. In addition to humiliation, they enjoy bondage and some pain.

Sorry about this revelation.... but my question would be...from which site or book did you get your information....
plagerism.
I know I've read this before, copywrited too.

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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 6:41:16 AM

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I always thought there were just 3.

1. Slaves who slap me after I suggest how they should serve me and then they run off.

2. Slaves who laugh hysterically when I tell them how we're going to proceed further.

3. Slaves who arrive for our first play date with the restraining order already filled in.

he he
ha ha ha
lol, rofl....
you are funny one.

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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 6:44:27 AM

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ORIGINAL: feastie

Armed with what, Twicehappy?

A big dick and a bad attitude. I also don't know if any of you are aware of this but realtuffdom is evidently a Ford man and part of the local bike gang as well. Too much for me to handle i'm afraid.

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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 7:18:34 AM

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i disagree entirely with your op.

do you give potential submissives/slaves a 20 question form to answer so you can classify which type of submissive they are to fit in what you're looking for? sorry but i don't fit in just one category ...like many personalities to me, i have many characteristics that define me as submissive.

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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 7:20:44 AM

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i also agree with the 4 i have seen 4 style slaves and submissive and have met and had time to talk with some over the years so i would say yes and agree

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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 8:15:14 AM

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I disagree,

These categories are too narrow... I can see bits and pieces from all of them in me.. and can not apply myself to either one single one of those.
And I agree with LA.. these are sound like insecurities and reasons to be a slave.. rather than a type of a slave.. (if there is such a thing)

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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 8:26:20 AM

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I don't see my pigeonhole here!

What about a highly trained professional in a high stress job she loves, making excellent money, which is passed to my excellent Lady to manage because I'm pathetic at money management. My Lady makes many decisions, but very definitely we consult on anything big, and my input is honored and valued!

I do work very hard to please my lady - I'm not a domestic servant, but in reality I'm usually the one doing housework because she is keeping our small farm operational and the livestock fed. I give a fabulous footrub, and I have the kind of "limited ESP" that lets me always know EXACTLY where she needs her back scratched. Yes, I defer to her decisions almost all the time - but if I feel strongly about something, I can and do advocate my view, and she encourages that.

What I do not have is guilt or loads of inner trauma that I am trying to self-medicate with BDSM. I recognized probably 30 years ago that I enjoyed the sensation of being spanked or flogged or whipped and that it was a huge turn on for me. And I like being restrained for some of it so I can let go and totally focus on the sensations. And nothing turns me on faster than having my Lady come up to me while I'm working at the computer, grab a big handful of hair, pull my head back, and kiss me passionately while administering some fine-tuning to the nipples. Well, except when she orders me to kneel and starts to take her belt off... (smiles wickedly).

The point being, a submissive is NOT a "broken person", or an "incomplete person".

The value of my submission is because I am a strong, capable, functional person, intelligent, witty, and so on. It's a gift I offer up to my Lady, and one she knows how to value.

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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 8:36:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: masteblaslter

To submissives. I have a theory about submissives. Let me know if you disagree or agree with this theory. I believe there are four types of submissives.
The catholic syndrome sub: This type of sub craves to experience being a slut, but her strict upbringing prevents her from fully letting go. By submitting and being forced to perform “dirty acts” the sub fulfills her fantasies, without feeling guilty. This type of sub enjoys bondage, humiliation and will “resist”, but eventually succumb to the Doms orders.
The Stressed Sub: This type of sub usually is a professional with a high stress job. They are looking to release their stress by relinquishing power and submitting to a dom. They seek to please without making any decisions. They enjoy bondage, obey orders, and can handle a little pain.
The Pain Slut: This type of sub derives great pleasure from pain. The Doms goal is to push the limit of pain tolerance of the sub. They enjoy punishment, bondage, and humiliation.
The humble sub: This type of sub craves humiliation both in private and public and will do most any act requested by the Dom. They usually have a low self esteem or carry a heavy sense of guilt. In addition to humiliation, they enjoy bondage and some pain.

Thats interesting, except none of your descriptions have anything to do with submission, but rather all of the descriptions deal with BDSM and kink.

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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 10:58:00 AM

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I don't think type 4 subs nessessarily have low self confidence. I would love to be shared by my Master and would willingly be humiliated in public (so long as it was not infont of anyone I did not want knowing I was a sub)... it's just a sexual turnon for me. My confidence is quite high.

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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 11:03:12 AM

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Hi puppy22DBQ...thinking that might not have really been in reply to me, as I don't believe I said anything about low self confidence in any of the types *s*...

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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 11:11:38 AM

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I think also you can be a mix of all 4, or of none described there............I don't believe there is a "perfect" definition/s for a submissive as well as anyone for that matter.

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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 1:58:16 PM

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Well i can't say i like to go into a list and make a checkmark in a box stating "YES that's exactly who i am!" I am, as i am sure all of you are, a complicated individual, with positive and negative traits. I am unique, with my own upbringing, needs, fetishes, likes and dislikes and so checkmarking a box doesn't exactly suit me. I am "submissive" naturally, vanilla, or i guess you can call this super polite. I let women go before me in bus lines, waiting lines, etc. I tend to open doors for Women, pull chairs, talk quietly, politely, respectfully. You can call it being a polite human being, but i do NOT do whatever ppl tell me, or submit to the first calling Him/Herself Domme, and certainly no doormat. I'm just ME..take it or leave it (lots more leaving it! lol) but there you have it. I'm an individual and so i have good and bad sides to me, as does everyone else in this wonderful world we call Earth.

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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 2:06:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

An excellent example of boxes and their inherent limitations.

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Well said, Celeste.

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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 2:49:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: MissAidan

I agree with the four sterotypes given, as I have seen and/or met all four in person. However, I think it is narrowminded to believe that those are the only four types of subs out there, or that any one sub fits neatly in to any one category.

I agree with MissAidan here. I don't fit into any of those, though I think making an exhaustive list of the kinsd of subs that exist would be near impossible.

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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 4:05:16 PM

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Classifications are usually someones attempts to fit things into their world through logic. It really doesn't work. The world is not neat little boxes and jars where everything fits in. The world is a chaotic swirl. When meeting women, if you try and make it simple, you will be surprised and most likely lose her because a woman is complex, mysterious and wonderful. Why try to understand them. I prefer to take them, enjoy them, cherish them and enjoy the mystery.

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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 4:11:28 PM

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Darn! Now I'll have to get Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns for further reference! Lol

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RE: Type of Slaves - 8/16/2007 6:19:41 PM

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I'd have to say that those four categories are quite probably, and there must be a lot of subs that fit them. But I don't. I want to talk care of my someone special, tend their needs, please them, belong to them, and let them care for and about me in return. But I don't fit any of those stereotypes.

My upbringing was very relaxed, and liberal, but still had structure and rules and punishments, etc.
I don't have a lot of stress in my life.
Pain is fun at the right times, but I'm not a masochist (at least I don't think so).
And I am not fond of humiliation to the point of active dislike.

So where would that leave me?

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