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If? - 8/16/2007 8:57:43 AM   
BIllCT


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Status: offline 		If your a submissive woman and you met up with a Dom from CM here, and you dated em three times and each time from the Dom's perspective it got better and better for both invoved and the submissive made no mention of ending it, yet you came back into CM and she blocked you from her profile and changed her phone number she gave you what would you think?
 
Basically I said to myself if that is how she wants it fine an dmoved on, but what caused it I will never know!
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RE: If? - 8/16/2007 9:00:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		Bill, Bill, Bill. What are we gonna do with you?

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RE: If? - 8/16/2007 9:03:03 AM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		It means she didn't like you.

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RE: If? - 8/16/2007 9:03:22 AM   
e01n


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Status: offline 		Reverse it. Put yourself in their position... how would you have reacted?

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RE: If? - 8/16/2007 9:04:20 AM   
charmdpetKeira


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Status: offline 		First, how would I know it got better from the Dom’s perspective? Did he tell me? How did he know it got better for me? Did I tell him?... wait am I the one blocking or is there someone else involved here you're not telling me about?!?

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RE: If? - 8/16/2007 9:05:10 AM   
instynctive


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Status: offline 		Guess that background check she ran on you came in.. :-)

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RE: If? - 8/16/2007 9:33:34 AM   
e01n


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RE: If? - 8/16/2007 12:08:44 PM   
cuffnspankme


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Status: offline 		All boils down to communication...telling her how you think things are going, asking her what she thinks..constant communication is a must in all stages and levels of relationships.

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RE: If? - 8/16/2007 12:12:08 PM   
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< Message edited by MsBearlee -- 8/16/2007 12:36:40 PM >

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RE: If? - 8/16/2007 12:17:20 PM   
spiral23


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Status: offline 		bless...did you take your shades off when you met her?

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RE: If? - 8/16/2007 1:21:14 PM   
favesclava


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Status: offline 		what a great actress , huh? 

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RE: If? - 8/16/2007 1:25:01 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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RE: If? - 8/16/2007 2:27:47 PM   
sub4hire


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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

It means she didn't like you.

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RE: If? - 8/17/2007 6:29:25 AM   
came4U


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Guess that background check she ran on you came in.. :-)


lol

bill how many times do I have to spank you with the book 'she's just not into you'? By Gods Bill, how many threads are you going to start about her?

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RE: If? - 8/17/2007 6:43:03 AM   
wandersalone


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ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

i know the name of a very good psychiatrist ...He comes highly recommended ...trust me- the Doctor is my Daddy

message me if you want to contact Him for free sessions


If.... I admitted that I keep on reading the many new questions by the OP and being surprised that nothing has changed could I get a free consult with your daddy?
 
 

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RE: If? - 8/17/2007 7:08:43 AM   
camille65


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ORIGINAL: BIllCT

If your a submissive woman and you met up with a Dom from CM here, and you dated em three times and each time from the Dom's perspective it got better and better for both invoved
(how would the submissive know it has gotten better and better for you?)and the submissive made no mention of ending it,
(did you bring up the future? Or tell her how you felt, that you thought the 2 of you were getting along well?) yet you came back into CM and she blocked you from her profile and changed her phone number she gave you what would you think?
 
Basically I said to myself if that is how she wants it fine an dmoved on, but what caused it I will never know! (Quite honestly if she received no input from you on how you felt things were going if I were in her place I would back away too. Not block cuz I find that silly but I would back away due to what sounds like a real lack of verbal communication)



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