pixieluvsdaddy -> RE: Hard Choices (8/16/2007 12:51:13 PM)
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Interesting question.. In putting myself in your position (I am very empathic btw.. smiles), I was imediately drawn towards the girl. However, I wasn't comletely drawn to her with a feeling of a final decision.. but rather with a question. If I were to make her my final decision, will I not only be able to provide for our basic needs, but also provide enough comforts to keep us both relatively satisfied? See, if you end up having to go out and get a second job (or her for that matter) to cover expenses.. what kind of quality time are you going to have to give to her anyway? Is she a down to earth kind of girl, or a high maintenance woman who has high financial standards and thoughts towards keeping up appearances? I have a strong hunch, you've considered all of the above and are choosing the girl.. smiles.. My best wishes to you both! -pixie
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