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Endorphins for Dom/mes? - 7/5/2005 10:59:09 AM

Davesgirl

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Howdy everyone!

I was jsut reading through the sub thread, and have stumbled, quite a lot actually, upon several subjects relating to the endorphin rush that subs experience, and the subsequent "sub drop".

So, I was wondering, for the DOm/mes, Tops, etc., out ehre....Do you folks experience anything similar? I only ask because I havent read anything on this tpoic.

And if there is something already about it, I apologize for beating a dead horse.

THanks in advance!

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RE: Endorphins for Dom/mes? - 7/5/2005 11:02:14 AM

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There is such a thing as "top space" which can be similar. Most tops don't allow themselves to enter this space DURING a scene unless they are very experienced with it, or have someone on the outside specifically to watch and make sure it happens ok.

Endorphins aren't the only way to get to a headspace. The brain makes tons of happy/excited chemicals, seratonins, adrenalines, etc, which can all be used in play to reach where you want to go.

But basically it's the same thing as subspace, just from the perspective of the top, and yes, there also is top drop.

The first time I experienced top space I was pretty overwhelmed, but happy. Top drop was a surprise and obviously sucky.

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RE: Endorphins for Dom/mes? - 7/5/2005 11:17:34 AM

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And if there is something already about it, I apologize for beating a dead horse.

It's far from being a dead horse. The one instance in which I was aware of this being discussed, the thread entitled Dom/me space didn't even generate a page worth of posts. Perhaps it will take off a little more this time. Though you might be missing the opinion of a few Dommes as not all of us come into Ask A Master.

The rush I get is from seeing someone completely under my spell, obeying my every command and totally enraptured. I feed off this energy and that is where I get my kicks.

I find Top Drop hard actually. Especially after a very intense scene. It's almost like I've opened a valve of intense aggressive energy for the scene, then at the end, I put a make shift cap to stop the current and then that cap pops off a little while after, when the original trigger - being with the bottom - is not available. I keep meaning to get a boxing bag for such occasions!

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RE: Endorphins for Dom/mes? - 7/5/2005 11:58:55 AM

Gemeni

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I pace myself during scenes and conserve energy.

My first few times, I was overly excited and used up my reserves. I dropped hard and wasn't good for anything the next day. I don't do that anymore. I have someone relying on me to be there when it's all over and done with-it's not a luxury a responsible Top can afford.

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RE: Endorphins for Dom/mes? - 7/5/2005 8:44:10 PM

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Yes...for Me control and power is the ultimate endorphine... I know you were talking about the physical release of body's chemistry...but mindset for Me makes the difference between being good and deliciously great...between hard and enduring massive...

It is what is between the ears rather than the legs for Me that puts the icing on the cake...\

combine that with the physical and I have a delicous intoxicating elixer...

yes indeed...

Yes I have the physical rush from endorphines...when in a great climatic scene once because she did something I knew she was afraid to do..wear a hood doggie style for Me to please Me it had to be one of the greatest rushes..certainly provided My first multiorgasm of six times within a half hour...smiling now at the recolection of how My head rushed and My hear pounded and I thought I was going to truly die yet I kept the train a rolling...

Yes indeed...

Mindset can be the ultimate....

imho

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