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RE: is it more than just ownership? - 8/18/2007 10:21:33 AM

aeaa

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Hello,

I am not owned but I do know what it was when I have been. If I should ever be again it will mean more than being owned, more than a collar.

It will be absolute. Obedience, devotion, reverence. Anything less would be cheating a man of all that I am, and cheating myself of the experience of the completeness of his sovereignty over me and my absolute surrender.

I feel it is near impossible for a girl to not love a man who owns her in such a way. However, I find that often a man may not feel the same love, but they feel and instead express the recognition of the marvel that such a dynamic defines their relationship.

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RE: is it more than just ownership? - 8/18/2007 10:27:06 AM

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I am my owner's slave and property. He loves me but it is not a romantic love, it is as one may love a pet. I, on the other hand, am totally in love with him

am sorry, but this is questionable as well as the original question. Just my opinion.

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RE: is it more than just ownership? - 8/18/2007 10:28:27 AM

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sorry the copy and paste skills are not great lol ;)

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RE: is it more than just ownership? - 8/19/2007 10:15:20 AM

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a bond between a slave and a Master can be even greater than a bond between a husband and a wife.

to answer you question yes it means he holds you in high regard even higher than most. I am going to peurto rico in november, my slave will not be coming with me. b/c it is a family event. so the slave is not invited yet. she will be invited to family events when i get to know her better.

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RE: is it more than just ownership? - 8/19/2007 6:57:35 PM

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gurl,

It really sounds to me that he does care for you but wants to make certain that you do not let love grow beyound his limits. To many, the emotion of "love" tends to alter the D/s dynamic in a not too pleasant way.

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RE: is it more than just ownership? - 8/19/2007 9:46:47 PM

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thank you arayofsunshine i am really going to try and focus on enjoying my time with Him and not reading into it! wish me luck! ha! i am after all human.

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RE: is it more than just ownership? - 8/19/2007 9:51:47 PM

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thank You for taking the time to respond RavenMuse... and btw... i really don't think any of U/us have "wrong questions". comments like that tend to make this submissive withdrawl from participating in public forums such as this.

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RE: is it more than just ownership? - 8/19/2007 10:00:36 PM

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hello KittyKat.. *smiles* thank you for your comments. you're right! kinky sex and servitude makes for a fun vacation! and "obsessive" no, i'm not that at all. i can and will focus on the fact that W/we're having fun!!! the sex stuff? OMG! HE is wonderful sister! and He does include my desires when W/we play. mmmmmm He is soooo good to me!

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RE: is it more than just ownership? - 8/19/2007 10:04:29 PM

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thank you aeaa... i agree with you in that it's near impossible not to love a man that owns a girl. it's a good love... so pure and fills my heart each and every day.

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RE: is it more than just ownership? - 8/19/2007 10:07:26 PM

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mmb1 thanks for your comment, but i'm unsure of what it means.... what is questionable?

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RE: is it more than just ownership? - 8/19/2007 10:11:15 PM

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i agree with You MasterJBK... the bond He and i have (at least for me) is much greater than a husband and wife bond. thank You for Your thoughts. i'll be a good girl and please Him and be thankful He asked me to join Him.

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RE: is it more than just ownership? - 8/19/2007 10:15:39 PM

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thank you CelticPrince... i know He cares for me... and this submissive is really going to put the questions to rest and enjoy my time with Him. very interesting... "let love grow beyond his limits" very well said. He is ok with me loving Him... lmao.. well of course He is! He enjoys the fact that my heart is full and my desire to be His, is without question. i'll focus on being His... and not the questions... after all, pleasing Him IS what brings me true happiness. weeeeeeeeee!

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RE: is it more than just ownership? - 8/20/2007 1:16:17 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: girlygurl

He on the other hand has some personal issues with “love” therefore guards Himself from such emotion and/or expressing it (although, He has expressed that He cares for me deeply).

If you want to be in a d/s relationship that includes love, hold out for an owner who is looking for that. It's a perfectly reasonable thing to do and many d/s relationship include a deep love on both sides that includes the whole flowers, vacation, take them home to meet the parents thing from both people. If you don't want that, don't worry about it.

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my question is: as a Dom/Domme if You asked Your submissive to go on vacation with You, does that mean You have more than “just” an ownership affinity for them? i realize everyone is different as is each relationship, and i don’t expect You to answer for Him. i’m just a curious girl wanting some thoughts from You.

All any of us can tell you is that he either enjoys your company or your services enough to want you along. Anything further will require you to stop looking on the forums for answers we can't give you and ask him.

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RE: is it more than just ownership? - 8/20/2007 8:41:09 PM

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thank You AquaticSub. no more questions for me as far as the vacation. this girl is going to enjoy each and every moment i spend with Him.

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RE: is it more than just ownership? - 8/21/2007 12:14:27 AM

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Greetings
And that is how it should be...look to the future yes, but revel in the moments you have with your One. I speak with some experience in that regard...

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