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callioperoseblue -> Vent about being rude (8/17/2007 3:46:00 PM)

Okay....I give up.  I do NOT understand people.  What is up with the rude emails?  Like most of the women here, I've had my share of emails from Doms who after I say thanks but no thanks write me back and proceed to call me names and list all the things they see as "wrong" with me and how they weren't really interested in me in the first place.  This I sometimes find amusing, because for some reason at first glance they found me attractive enough to write me and express their interest, then when I say thank you but I'm not interested, suddenly I'm the most unappealing creature on the planet.  Amazing how quickly I change, huh?

Anyway, that's one thing...but this new version has me stumped.  Writing me to complain about my profile/journal and insult me and the region I live in.  Huh?  If you don't like something in my profile, it's real simple...don't initiate contact.  You don't have to.  Really.  It's okay.  AND the latest one that I received today was full of typos and misspellings yet had the audacity to say that he doubted as a southerner I would have the intelligence to win a "spelling be."  Grrrrrrr.  

Oh, wait...I forgot...I'm just a fake, ugly, stupid southern wannabe submissive.  What the hell do I know?



IrishMist -> RE: Vent about being rude (8/17/2007 3:48:39 PM)

Personally, I don't understand people who feel the need to put up a thread about not understanding people.

/shrug



breatheasone -> RE: Vent about being rude (8/17/2007 3:48:52 PM)

Hmmm...same "vent" different day...sorry you were treated badly....



Aileen68 -> RE: Vent about being rude (8/17/2007 3:49:27 PM)

Just delete.  Problem solved.



SmokingGun82 -> RE: Vent about being rude (8/17/2007 4:03:13 PM)

The delete button or the block button can be your friend.



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Vent about being rude (8/17/2007 4:04:18 PM)

Where did the myth get started that there weren't dumbass losers on the internet?



ownedgirlie -> RE: Vent about being rude (8/17/2007 4:05:54 PM)

I confess, I started it.



DiurnalVampire -> RE: Vent about being rude (8/17/2007 4:08:19 PM)

Sour grapes do nasty things to people.  Ignore and move on, its cute to see how they stomp their feet when they dont get what they want and tell you why they really didnt want it anyway.  Just be glad with a mature response like that you said no from the get go.
Ive gotten the ignorant southerner thing too... My standdard response is "This from the one contacting me to tell me how clueless I am?  How does that make you feel, assuming I am from here just becasue I live here... good try, now move along and pee in someone elses sandbox."

DV



chiaThePet -> RE: Vent about being rude (8/17/2007 4:15:08 PM)

Simply choose two of the rudest emailers, tell them you've had a change of heart,
beg their forgiveness, and engage them in conversation. Lead them along until
you are confident that you've ensnared them in a web of deceit, invite them
both to meet you for a lovely dinner, giving each a common name under which
the reservation shall be made. Take a seat at the bar with a view of the dining
area, order up a very dry martini, and watch the humorous stumbling and
bumbling as they realize they have been had. Rush home and log on to the
site, awaiting their posts to the forum about the rude little submissive who
did them wrong. All while enjoying that second martini, slowly sipped as
you erase any and every trace of your profile.

i'm really not evil, i just have too much time on my hands.

chia* (the pet)



callioperoseblue -> RE: Vent about being rude (8/17/2007 4:21:54 PM)

Thanks for listening folks.  I do block and delete when I receive them.  I just had a string lately and it frustrated me to the point of feeling the need to express my frustration.  There are, indeed, losers in every walk of life and every location, and yes, I do count myself lucky to find them out that quickly instead of being strung along and finding out later. 

Also, note to self.....never piss off chia.  (laughs)



favesclava -> RE: Vent about being rude (8/17/2007 4:22:03 PM)

hmm, you might be just to  dangerous to humankind chiaThepet. my kind of person.



Griswold -> RE: Vent about being rude (8/17/2007 5:22:07 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: IrishMist

Personally, I don't understand people who feel the need to put up a thread about not understanding people.

/shrug


I think your point is valid, however, I don't understand people who feel the need to express themselves about people who feel the need to put up a thread about not understanding people.

Personally, I don't understand people...however, I find when I don't understand people...I pull back a bit and ask myself "if I didn't understand people...how best could I understand people if I were trying my best to understand people...and if I couldn't (understand people), what would be the best thing I could do to understand the folks that obviated those things that minimized those aspects of my ability to understand people"?

(I haven't come to any reasonable conclusions).
 
Your thoughts would be appreciated.



michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Vent about being rude (8/17/2007 5:27:59 PM)

some people, huh? i was told i "should die with my mother". now can anyone get ruder than that?



JackM1 -> RE: Vent about being rude (8/17/2007 5:56:53 PM)

you know, oddly enough i got the SAMMMME kind of message(about how my profile was just FILLED with contradictions and that it would be in my best interest to change it, all thanks to his AMAZING observasion skills) and after i told him to kindly fuck off, he sent me another 6 or so messages telling me how i was rude, overly aggressive, and only on this site to be mean to people, etc!*gasp!*...yeah, as if i was the one to message him JUST TO BE MEAN....one of those guys wouldnt happen to be named "consequent" would they? lol



breatheasone -> RE: Vent about being rude (8/17/2007 11:53:04 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

some people, huh? i was told i "should die with my mother". now can anyone get ruder than that?

yes actually...my grandfather told me once he thought my mother should have had an abortion...and they weren't even legal then.....yeah...he was a great guy....



Zensee -> RE: Vent about being rude (8/18/2007 12:07:49 AM)

CM needs a Complaints Forum so people can easilly see that their special beef has already been raised, at least twice a week, since the internet was invented my Al Gore.


Z.

PS: Mods! You don't have to address the complaints, just publish them.



NorthernGent -> RE: Vent about being rude (8/18/2007 12:42:08 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: callioperoseblue

Okay....I give up.  I do NOT understand people.  What is up with the rude emails?  Like most of the women here, I've had my share of emails from Doms who after I say thanks but no thanks write me back and proceed to call me names and list all the things they see as "wrong" with me and how they weren't really interested in me in the first place. 



That's life; it's not tits and beer every minute of the day.



seeksfemslave -> RE: Vent about being rude (8/18/2007 4:19:32 AM)

I would guess that for someone who considers themselves to be a real Dom you have wounded their pride or hurt their feelings, same thing really.
They dont like it so they lash out. So really you have won lol

I mention real Dom because I dont mean someone who chose a silly name, say like me.! I could just as easily submit after having spanked her butt first. lol



NorthernGent -> RE: Vent about being rude (8/18/2007 4:25:01 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: seeksfemslave


I mention real Dom because I dont mean someone who chose a silly name, say like me.! I could just as easily submit after having spanked her butt first. lol



Seeks, you old devil........searching out a mistress on the sly.



FangsNfeet -> RE: Vent about being rude (8/18/2007 4:33:15 AM)

When sending an message, no one knows how the other person really likes being talked to. Some might be taking a chance to be impressive. Have you ever recieved a message that was to nice and had you re think if this person is really a dom?



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