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perverseangelic -> RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion (7/6/2005 9:23:17 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Senko
Thank you all for the comments. Taking what you have said into consideration, I think that if someone wishes to know more about me they have simply to ask..... but as far as my education background and everything, I feel those are only things someone should know if they are itnerested in me. I seriously am trying to shy away from golddiggers... and I believe the best way to do that is leave finances and more private information about such things out of my profile.
(your profile will be pending for a bit, incedentally)
I don't like it when people say "ask me for more" simply because it tells me more about a person when -they- tell me about themselves. I find I learn more when I hear what they think is important and how they phrase it.
Also, there will -always- be something for conversation. Profiles are too short to have -all- the information, but I think that mentioning things in the profile makes conversation easier. For me, I find it easier to start a conversation with someone if I have a topic that i know their interested. For example, I'd find it easier to start a converation with someone who said "I am very into body modification." I'd have an inlet to conversation, asking them what they like/have. I think stuff lik that, that leads into conversation by offering al ittle bit of info is always good.
When I mentioned education/career, I wasn't saying put financial information up. I can see how that wouldn't be a good thing. I was more leaning toward some information about your dirrection in life, so someone can know if it jives with them. For example, say you were planning to be in school for the next eight years, getting your MD. That might not work for someone who wants someone in the workforce. Silly example, but that's sorta what I was talking about.
Anyway, haven't read the updated profile 'cause it isn't vis8ible yet, just wanted to clarify what I'd meant.
Edited to add: Just wanted to third that your picture is really good.
(Heh, just realized I have =nothing= like this in my profile. For what it's worth though, am not looking for partners, and it's probably long enough as it is.)
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