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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/6/2005 8:37:12 PM   
Senko


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Thank you all for the comments. Taking what you have said into consideration, I think that if someone wishes to know more about me they have simply to ask. but I do agree with the fact that I need to place in there that says contacting me is an option. Yes I do go to munches and events when I have the Time. I have been to the cherokee munch a few times. I will be adding a section about my experience, as It seems my age leaves this to question. but as far as my education background and everything, I feel those are only things someone should know if they are itnerested in me. I seriously am trying to shy away from golddiggers... and I believe the best way to do that is leave finances and more private information about such things out of my profile. and it leaves mroe for conversation. I will be changing some parts of my profile and leaving others the same. Thank you all for the comments, even the negative ones.

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/6/2005 9:03:18 PM   
Senko


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OK My profile has been updated with a couple of changes made to it. Care to review it again? :)

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/6/2005 9:23:17 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Senko

Thank you all for the comments. Taking what you have said into consideration, I think that if someone wishes to know more about me they have simply to ask..... but as far as my education background and everything, I feel those are only things someone should know if they are itnerested in me. I seriously am trying to shy away from golddiggers... and I believe the best way to do that is leave finances and more private information about such things out of my profile.


(your profile will be pending for a bit, incedentally)

I don't like it when people say "ask me for more" simply because it tells me more about a person when -they- tell me about themselves. I find I learn more when I hear what they think is important and how they phrase it.

Also, there will -always- be something for conversation. Profiles are too short to have -all- the information, but I think that mentioning things in the profile makes conversation easier. For me, I find it easier to start a conversation with someone if I have a topic that i know their interested. For example, I'd find it easier to start a converation with someone who said "I am very into body modification." I'd have an inlet to conversation, asking them what they like/have. I think stuff lik that, that leads into conversation by offering al ittle bit of info is always good.

When I mentioned education/career, I wasn't saying put financial information up. I can see how that wouldn't be a good thing. I was more leaning toward some information about your dirrection in life, so someone can know if it jives with them. For example, say you were planning to be in school for the next eight years, getting your MD. That might not work for someone who wants someone in the workforce. Silly example, but that's sorta what I was talking about.

Anyway, haven't read the updated profile 'cause it isn't vis8ible yet, just wanted to clarify what I'd meant.

Edited to add: Just wanted to third that your picture is really good.

(Heh, just realized I have =nothing= like this in my profile. For what it's worth though, am not looking for partners, and it's probably long enough as it is.)

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/7/2005 5:51:41 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: perverseangelic

I don't like it when people say "ask me for more" simply because it tells me more about a person when -they- tell me about themselves. I find I learn more when I hear what they think is important and how they phrase it.

Exactly, you're trying to get people to WANT to know more about you, but you have to give them some good stuff to get them interested in you first.

I'd prefer someone give me a snapshot of their personality and life status rather than their philosophy on DS (mostly because I rarely see a unique philosophy of Ds).

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/7/2005 5:52:36 PM   
Senko


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olk I think its no longer pending now

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