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Euryanx -> RE: Why isn't a Mistress interested? (7/14/2005 8:45:32 PM)
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ORIGINAL: LadyKim
Educated, confident, self assured submissives that seek more than just a kinky roll in the hay are what most of us look for in a sub boy. Submissive men that just want sex are a penny a pound, but finding someone that realizes it isn't just about their masterbation fantasies and what can be done to and for them is a bit more difficult.
Well said Lady Kim. A word often overlooked in relationships is "mutual." I realize that a lot of Domme's here come on very strong, and seem to have the attitude "It's all about me." They're the Domme. Everything in the D/s relationship should be meant for their benefit. To a degree, yes, if a person enters into a D/s relationship, that's part of the dynamic.
But how much better would it be if two people came together, one Domme, one submissive, and they both fell into their roles quite naturally... and they both sort of fed off each other... both got what they NEEDED from each other. It's not all about the sub trying to get his little kinky desires met, and it's not all about the Domme issuing demands. It's about two loving spirits, who complement each other perfectly... coming together... fitting together like two pieces of a jigsaw puzzle.
For me, that's where true happiness lies. In something very compatible. In something very mutual.
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